Hi all,
We hope you can help us. We want to visit a swingers club sometime this month, but which one? Never done anything like this before so don't want to feel pressured or look like new kids at school (you know the brand new uniform).
We live near Stratford on Avon so anywhere within a couple of hours travel would be fine.
We'd most likely go on a couples night, which seem to Saturdays. Which is best, a clothed club or a towels one?
Anyone who can give us any advice would be much appreciated. You never know we may even see you there!
Lisa & Neil
We have limited experience in clubs but we do like Chameleons
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/reviews-3.html
Saturdays after 10 pm is couples only. You can wear towels, sexy undies or both!
No pressure in there at all and they are more than happy to give a new couple a tour round.
You might find if you pick a night and post it on the Lets Meet Up part of the forum there will already be some SH members going that night who would be willing to hold your hand until you feel more comfortable.
If you don't want to strip down to a towel or undies as soon as you arrive, Xtasia is a disco type club and is couples only on a Saturday night. Disco and licensed bar on one floor, playrooms on other floors so you can join in or not as you please. Also has sauna and hot-tub in basement if you want that as well.
we have given it loads of thought and it depends what you feel uneasy about, personally we know where we will be going, it will be to xtasia without a doubt, to me the place is like a cross between a munch, something we are very happy to attend and a a chams type club, ive been around xtasia and seen the set up while working there , it seems really good . certainly pressure free and nudity free if you want to play that way, the owners have been around the game for a million years , swingers themselves.
we will be going soon enough , and ive no doubt we will enjoy the experience, for now we are too busy having parties here lol, why pay for a club when youve got it at home lol
wrats
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Thanks all for you comments.
Some research is needed!
We think Chams is a brilliant club - it's got a seriously friendly atmosphere, lovely staff, secure car park and the club itself is very nice.
Chambs for the nice club and secure parking, read new2trots write up on xtasia in the reviews it is in a very dodgy area.
Mids
XTASIA
ok so we have been now and for us it was the dogs bollox, loved it and we are back there friday with more friends, IT REALLY DID BRIDGE THE GAP which is what we hoped for , anyone wants to know more feel free to pm
wrats
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