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Best Swingers Club for first timers ??

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We are new to the scene & want to go to a swingers club for the first time. We are prepared to travel for the best experience.
Which club has the best nightclub atmosphere, best interior etc, it needs to be very relaxing with no pressure to do anything if we feel uncomfortable, our nerves are in pieces just talking about it.
We plan on staying in a local hotel or maybe on-site if the club offers rooms.
Would love to hear your suggestions & first time experiences, was it everything you thought.
Thanks
There are many good clubs in the UK the swingers club guide book Sex in the Cities is a very good source of information about them all as is the SH CLUBS page here on the site
My personal recommendations would be
LIBERTY ELITE - Lutterworth a bit expensive
Annual Membership per couple £50 (one night membership £15)
Friday night per couple £25 entrance fee
Saturday night per couple £35 entrance fee
Own hotel nearby rooms cost £50 and £60 per night
RATED joint 3rd best UK club by Sex in the Cities
VANILLA ALTERNATIVE - Bedfordshire - a bit expensive
Annual Membership per couple £50
Friday night per couple £25 entrance fee
Saturday night per couple £35 entrance fee
Own hotel nearby rooms cost from £30 and £50 per night
Rated joint 3rd best UK club by Sex in the Cities
atlantisEVOLUTION - Stoke on Trent
Free Lifetime membership at the moment
Friday night per couple £10
Saturday night per couple £25
George Hotel - walking distance
Pixies Guest House (exclusively for people visiting the club) free transport to and from the club £50 per room
Rated 2nd best UK club by Sex in the Cities
The top rated club in the UK is Chameleons in Darlaston but whilst I think this IS the best club in the UK it is a wet club not nightclub theme with Lingerie or towels as the dress code so would not recommend this for what you are looking for.
Hope this helps, feel free to mail me any questions about UK clubs, anyone that is
Hi JCups
Welcome to the site. We're also very new and are taking small steps.
We have been to clubs a few times (Xtasia and AbFabs, both great places) and one Swinging Heaven Social (in Coventry). For what it's worth we preferred the SH social hands down over the clubs in terms of getting to know people, we met some great people (you know who you are smile ).
Clubs are typically no-pressure so you shouldn't worry too much about that. If you go on couples only evenings you should be fine. Clubs though are also not the easiest of places to get to know people, and time can fly when your there - or can drag... It very much depends on each of you - what you want, you're happy with, how you like to play.
So our experience is after having been clubbing we're now finding (yes through this site and yes there are real couples here) friends to go to clubs with and have even more fun.
Hope that helps - and enjoy your fun together!
2ems
Quote by MidsCouple24
There are many good clubs in the UK the swingers club guide book Sex in the Cities is a very good source of information about them all as is the SH CLUBS page here on the site
My personal recommendations would be
LIBERTY ELITE - Lutterworth a bit expensive
VANILLA ALTERNATIVE - Bedfordshire - a bit expensive
atlantisEVOLUTION - Stoke on Trent

Not mentioned Adventures in Lust Mids? I thought given the 'nightclub' atmosphere that would be a good first ever visit?
I ask as I was considering our first club visit there....
Quote by Game4anything34
There are many good clubs in the UK the swingers club guide book Sex in the Cities is a very good source of information about them all as is the SH CLUBS page here on the site
My personal recommendations would be
LIBERTY ELITE - Lutterworth a bit expensive
VANILLA ALTERNATIVE - Bedfordshire - a bit expensive
atlantisEVOLUTION - Stoke on Trent

Not mentioned Adventures in Lust Mids? I thought given the 'nightclub' atmosphere that would be a good first ever visit?
I ask as I was considering our first club visit there....
Adventures in Lust is from what I hear an excellent club, it certainly fits the bill regards the nightclub theme, but I did not feel qualified in recommending a club I have not visited and which does not carry a rating from the guide book though it was visited by the Sex in the Cities team just not on a standard night so I tried to stick to clubs that could also be researched in a guide book and not just my own opinions, I chose the top 3 rated nightclub themed clubs for that reason, I have visited all 3 other clubs recently however the reports from others about the club is that it is a good place to visit. I do have friends and customers who go to Adventures regularly and they love the club.
To that end .......
ADVENTURES IN LUST - Stoke on Trent
Fridays - £10 per couple
Saturdays - £25 per couple
Membership - currently FREE
Where to stay - Many local -
Quality Hotel double rooms from £109 per night though a quick check of bargain offers got this down to £45 per night - 3 mins walk from club - recommended by club
Moat House Hotel - double rooms from £79 per night (best price found on quick search) - not walking distance but short 5 min Taxi ride. - recommended by club
Verdun Guest House - double rooms from £44 per night - 4 mins walking distance from club - recommended by club
Pixies Guest House - double rooms £50 per night - Free transport to and from the club - exclusive to people visiting local swingers clubs
To this post on clubs I should state that all the clubs I list have a dress code of
Normal Niteclub wear
and alcohol rules .......
Liberty Elite - Licensed Bar
Vanilla Alternative - Licensed Bar
atlantis EVOLUTION - Bring your own alcohol - soft drinks £1 each
Adventures in Lust - Licensed Bar
There are other clubs I would recommend such as Xstasia in West Bromwich and Xotix Xtreme in Heanor Derby which are clubs I have also visited.
Best swingers club in south east is Abfabs near Heathrow.
Plenty of open play areas and indoor swimming pool/spa. Also private areas which is disappointing for single men.
Cabin1
That can be equally disapointing for couples who like to watch too, but swinging is very much "each to their own" and some like to be watched, some are indifferent to being watched and some don't like to be watched by anyone, most clubs have some private lockable rooms for those that are in the latter category but also have open play rooms, group playrooms and rooms with viewing windows, the best clubs have to be those that have something for everyone.
Personally I still get to see the "eye candy" in the social areas of the club even if they prefer to play in private so appreciate that aspect of the clubs and I can get to chat and make new friends with people no matter what their preference when playing.
We can concure with MidsCouple24 about Vanilla Alternative! it has a hotel on the site and a great atmosphere. If you want to just chill it has a great jacuzzi or if you want to strutt your stuff the dry area is fab too. If you add up membership, entry and room it can be a bit pricey though.
Not been to too many other clubs with the same atmosphere! but it can also depend on when you go and the crowd that are there as well.
Hope you find what you are looking for and enjoy it, good luck.
xxxx
We also vote for VA as the starting point. We had never been to any club before, and were very nervous and unsure if it was even something we would be interested in.
The club is great, the staff took the time to walk us through, and the other swingers were so friendly. Opened our eyes to what a great experience the lifestyle can be. You are free to join in or stand back as much as suits you. Definitely worth a go. x