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Quote by Ben_Minx

lol I'm 39 in November, what age shall I change my profile to? You wont believe me that I'm 39!!
You are definitely 39 I have done the Dr Who test.
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You are definitely 39 I have done the Dr Who test.

Ahhhhhhhh .....was that what the probe was for? lol
extend this a bit...
just because a guy says hees straight and likes to take a strap on does not make him bi, but some peeps think it does imply he has tendancy towards that sexual path
i like to extend the bi orentation to include play-bi
Quote by amatuerman
Just wondering why a lot of bi guys, not all of course, won't meet guys unless they come as part of a f/m couple. Is it a case of they're only bi so they can get some pussy action and if it means dealing with cock then that's the price they're willing to pay?

What a load of bollix, a general presumption.
It wasn't a general presumption. If it was then I would not of said "not all". Its a valid swinging/sex based question that I was interested in.
The bi women thing alluded to earlier by Funlovers also throws up interesting bits. J is bi because she likes sex with women and guys, although as a women she would freely admit to never having wanted or thought about a full on relationshp with a woman and doesn't think given the circumstances, i.e she wasn't with me, that she would entertain another woman as a life partner. So does that make her not Bi? I dunno, don't really care either I just know I like her enjoying sex and she enjoys with women and men and I'm privileged to be part of that.
As for some women being shall we say 'accommodatingly bi', for what we have experienced, the benefit of their male partner. We've have had experience of a few of those and have decided against a meet for that very reason. Not that we dont meet straight couples we do and that's fine its just that if we feel the woman is not doing it, the bi thing, for her own pleasure and just for her partners than that's not right in minds. theres no harm in ffm's with two straight women as long as each know thats what its about.
I'm damn sure most straight guys, myself included, would not do bi just to please their women partners and nor should they so why does it happen the other way around?
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extend this a bit...
just because a guy says hees straight and likes to take a strap on does not make him bi, but some peeps think it does imply he has tendancy towards that sexual path
i like to extend the bi orentation to include play-bi

Get no argument from here TSM. Totally agree with you.:thumbup:
Apart from which if any hetero person or couple were asked to account for their sexuality, I expect there would only be a few who could adequately so. I mean most people just would not be that good at saying what heterosexuality entails do you think?
So how well can they set about examining what bi truly means, I don't know.
I expect this discussion has taken place many times.
I cannot and will not speak for anyone else but maybe the 'label' could be applied to me. I do try to search out threesomes (usually but not always unsuccessfully) and like the idea of bi friendly mmfs. I suppose I am basically straight because I love the experience of kissing and cuddling and being affectionate and protective of women in a way that seems simply alien to me in respect of men. But much as I love women, I still find a cock an interesting thing to play with. But its far more fun to play with one in a mixed environment. I very rarely play with men alone though I have done it. It seems a lot less interesting. I would certainly pay more attention to the woman in a 3some but am happy to play imaginatively with the man too, especially if it aroused the woman. You just get more variety of sexual expression in a bi 3some.
So as an example of the single bloke in question feel free to ask me questions and I will try to answer them as honestly as I am able. I know one doesn't have full insight into ones own character.