Just wondering why a lot of bi guys, not all of course, won't meet guys unless they come as part of a f/m couple. Is it a case of they're only bi so they can get some pussy action and if it means dealing with cock then that's the price they're willing to pay?
I have to say I know exactly where you are coming from.
I think in some cases it’s a case of guys wanting the 3sum more than just a guy. I mean if it’s a guy they were looking for then surely they would be looking at single profiles? Why have the guy when you can have both?
However as part of a bi-couple I know what you are saying and totally agree with you.
Do I think "some" men call them self bi just so they can have sex with the woman....? Definitely!
But on the other hand of course on your profile you call yourself straight. Maybe that confuses things a little?
I could be wrong but I don't think the question had anything to do with labels?
Ok I kind of get what you are saying but I thought the question was regards to guys that are saying they are bi but won't meet unless the woman is there.
As a couple we encounter that exact situation all the time and having no interest what so ever in labels I tend to see and understand the original post.
Maybe if he had said curious I might have understood your point more but he definitely stated bi-guys . Although I detest labels I am pretty convinced bi-guys enjoy sex with men?
I find these scrutinising type threads a bit illogical sometimes. Examining the motives, choices and activities of, in this case bi guys, seems unfounded.
Could we apply the same reasoning which constructed this enquiry to a swinging couple. Do they put up with a swing session so that both or either can get some action? ( Well if the truth be know, that is the case in some situations).
And does anyone doing sex with someone else, put up with it in order to have it? (Also this may well be the case in some situations). Kind of like having to occasionally force feed yourself the cake to make sure you always have one ready to eat.
Of course if its a bi meet, it needs mixed sexes to be one. That's the essence of bi.
besides if folks are going to lay out their do's and dont's, clearly you can't expect anything other than that. So if they do enough to pass themselves off as bi or only do what they say they will;as genuine bi's, how you going to know?
and i think its all these threads are going to achieve. that is the genuine subject of the debate may come out and make a noble stand. whilst the so called fakes will scuttle off and wait till the storm has passed.
leaving most people none the wiser and willing to be more suspicious of an as yet to be identified type.
Well.........
Anyway if there is no true bi component in the scenario, the situation is simply one of a single hetero male trying to pull a fast one. And we are back to bashing time wasting single males.
Or maybe the bi is genuine and backs off for their own reasons. Sometimes the power of 'no', comes as a surprise to some couples.
It was just a conversation that came about betwwen the better half and myself. I'm not a Bi guy but still I like to ask these questions because it's not something I get to bring up with my neighbours or the parents etc :lol2:
