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I have gone for the "I am strait and still am" coz I am strait :giggle:
Quote by Ste-n-Kez
I (Kez) got into swinging because I was very bi-curious and thought this was a good way to explore that side of me. Ste was and still is straight.
So has the site changed your outlook and wants sexually?

Same as you, Kez.
Unashamedly Bi from my Uni days onwards
ot a noption there that applies to me.
I was very very straight befgore i got into swinging and i am even more straight now (if thats possible).
I was straight when started swinging, 14 years on I am still straight.
Don't knock it till you have tried it ...... I have never put my head in the fire but I know I wouldn't enjoy the experience.
But the lifestyle has changed my outlook on gay and bisexual encounters for the better.
I was homophobic, I was one of those idiots who would put gays on an island then nuke it, I was very stupid.
I now have gay and bi friends, will play with bi couples providing the male respects my own sexuality and I will stand up for their rights.
I am a better person for my swinging experience, not a perfect person but certainly a better one.
So far I've not had any experience to vote.
I certainly feel completely straight, so I'd say its unlikely.
Interesting prompt to a thread...
I knew I was attracted to women since I was a mid-teen and we got a new English teacher, who had the most phenomenal breasts, clever, witty, an edgy strong feminist personality and a love for Shakespeare. I was smitten. (Not to mention a balcony bra to die for hiding under a silky satin slightly see through off white blouse with pussycat bow. sillyhwoar: ) I fapped off to thoughts of her and her gorgeous long haired rocker biker boyfriend kissing. redface
So, really, when I finally became sexually active in my very late teens, it was no surprise that I ended up drunkenly with a couple of women in my twenties at uni, when I think back knowing what I know now.
The scene gave me the ability to accept that I have that aspect to myself, although I've never felt as straight as I do at the moment, I know that I'm quite comfy in my own skin in spite of recent events and emotional upheaval. However, even with my experiences I am not 'out', though I don't think anyone would be shocked if I did embrace lesbianism. smile
I do find my sexuality is fluid and cyclical, although, lately it seems things have changed, so I wouldn't rush to label myself. That is one thing I have learned from the scene, labels don't always serve a good purpose.
kiss LG. x
i started out straight but a few nice couples opened my eyes.
now im just a relaxed male wink
He = bi, first erotic dreams involved guys! in truth has had more male lovers the female.
She = straight, just doesn't do it for her. Never has, never will.
So suppose the answer is that it hasn't changed us in that regard.
I feel quite intrigued by the idea of luring a straight man to have some bisexual interaction with another man whilst they are both enjoying me and me them. It is appealing to my wicked side. biggrin I would not say the same though if the tables were turned. I can easily imagine a man sitting on my face, but the thought of a woman doing so turns me stone cold. Still, if it meant that playing with another woman would cause unmeasurable frustration to say a tied up man, I would probably have some light interaction, as I am a big tease. :twisted: