i use the photo add section a fair bit and what has prob happened is he has done a search in all cats secion and not bothered to read what your looking for
seeing as you have your pics there is obviously what encouraged him to mail you thinking hey maybe she lied in her advert lol
i must confess i have mailed one or two couples in the past but never to ask for a meet etc normally its if its a good advert or nice pics i will mail them and tell them that(makes a change from seeing the boring ones)and it is left at that i wont hassle anyone with mails as its clearly stated what people are after in the advert and its all suppose to be about fun isnt it