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Black Guys?
ok then lol
I have 'dated' not swung with guys from various places around the world africa, asia, caribbean for me it was purely physical attraction not the colour of their skin...
I must admit to bein a tad curious of the well known myth but that was soon put to rights all men regardless of race,colour creed come in all sizes n shapes... polite way of sayin sorry it just aint true lol
I have 'dated' not swung with guys from various places around the world africa, asia, caribbean for me it was purely physical attraction not the colour of their skin...
I must admit to bein a tad curious of the well known myth but that was soon put to rights all men regardless of race,colour creed come in all sizes n shapes... polite way of sayin sorry it just aint true lol
Sex God
I am saying nothing...... nada.... nowt... zilch... squadush...... :gagged:
although I'll be watching and taking notes........
although I'll be watching and taking notes........
Sex God
Quote by Lucyandmike7
I am saying nothing...... nada.... nowt... zilch... squadush...... :gagged:
although I'll be watching and taking notes........
Was waiting for you to come along Fabs!
you going to sit on my knee a week on saturday and tell me your fantasies then lucy???
do they involve black guys????
:lol: :wink: :wink: :twisted: :twisted: Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
I am saying nothing...... nada.... nowt... zilch... squadush...... :gagged:
although I'll be watching and taking notes........
That made me chuckle Fabs, and I really needed a chuckle today........cheers.
no worries kent.... I have the odd comedic gem from time to time
Quote by Truescorpio
Well I dont make a habit of disincluding people (apart from cabbagy smelling harridans) purely down to physical appearance, but like most people I do have my preferences which is why I mentioned slender girls on my other thread.
But then obviously everyone is attracted to different things, my curiosity is where does this particular attraction to black men come from? (I'm hoping to eventually see a deep, philosophical and poignant answer from someone...)
No deep answer from this gobby bird!
A mans a man, whatever their colour, like them all here, fat, thin, bald, hairy , whatever floats your own personal boat really!
Maybe its the fact that most black guys seem to have athletic bodies, and dont age fast like us white folk?!
I cant believe I missed a thread of yours on slender women, I must not be spending enough time in the forum!
Lucys post.
Sex God
Quote by Truescorpio
Well I dont make a habit of disincluding people (apart from cabbagy smelling harridans) purely down to physical appearance, but like most people I do have my preferences which is why I mentioned slender girls on my other thread.
But then obviously everyone is attracted to different things, my curiosity is where does this particular attraction to black men come from? (I'm hoping to eventually see a deep, philosophical and poignant answer from someone...)
but in a sense what is the difference between "black guys" and "size 10 models"????
you said physical appearence... but isn't colour just one of those things,
I am not one of those people that play on the colour of my skin to get meets... but I know a lot that do, up to them, I don't feel comfortable doing that
in everything you have said I could replace the words "black guys" with "slender women" (your words not mind) I'd be none the wiser....
maybe the true answer is just "that people do..." and to just leave it at that.....
Black guys .....
I have dated a black guy but probably wont swing with one, unless I meet him in a club maybe. I have nothing against any race / colour swinging but it annoys me when black guys think because they are black I will want to meet them .... why start off an email to me telling me your black ? I dont care what colour you are, I want to know if you'll make me smile and more importantly if we meet we'll have fun - not if your white, black or anything in between.
Think if the email is good enough for me to click onto a profile I'll be able to figure out what colour you are myself
I have dated a black guy but probably wont swing with one, unless I meet him in a club maybe. I have nothing against any race / colour swinging but it annoys me when black guys think because they are black I will want to meet them .... why start off an email to me telling me your black ? I dont care what colour you are, I want to know if you'll make me smile and more importantly if we meet we'll have fun - not if your white, black or anything in between.
Think if the email is good enough for me to click onto a profile I'll be able to figure out what colour you are myself
Quote by Sexysmilingeyes
Black guys .....
I have dated a black guy but probably wont swing with one, unless I meet him in a club maybe. I have nothing against any race / colour swinging but it annoys me when black guys think because they are black I will want to meet them .... why start off an email to me telling me your black ? I dont care what colour you are, I want to know if you'll make me smile and more importantly if we meet we'll have fun - not if your white, black or anything in between.
Think if the email is good enough for me to click onto a profile I'll be able to figure out what colour you are myself
I understand what you typed then Sexysmilngeyes.
It just shows how we all interperate things in different ways!
Personally I always took it as being up frount to say straight away what their skin colour was, and for us then to decide wheather or not to read on, as some ladies will not want to meet people of a different skin colour.
As I always was under the maybe wrong impression that the black guys find it hard to meet the white ladies off here!
It does really confirm how we all see things in different ways!
Lucys post.
Sex God
Quote by fabio
I am saying nothing...... nada.... nowt... zilch... squadush...... :gagged:
although I'll be watching and taking notes........
I bet RPM will be along in a bit and have plenty to say :twisted: :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by redpantherman
Don't black guys have big dicks?
You mean you don't?! :giggle:
Sex God
Quote by redpantherman
I am saying nothing...... nada.... nowt... zilch... squadush...... :gagged:
although I'll be watching and taking notes........
I bet RPM will be along in a bit and have plenty to say :twisted: :twisted:
:gagged:RPM
It is unlike you to be so quiet!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: We thought we'd try and put an answer to this perplexing question - something stylish, witty and which provoked a little thought amongst the forum followers; but when it comes right down to it we find ourselves really quite unable to provide the definitive reason for Chilli's preference for the darker skinned guy.
We have played with all shapes, sizes, creeds and skin colours over the last couple of years and had a fair mixture of good, bad and really atrocious meets, and so we can speak with a deal of experience when we say that the ones that were the best were also the ones that made us laugh. These are the ones that we would be happy to meet with socially and playfully. These are the ones we would be happy to meet again (and have).
Maybe Chillis preference is a shallow thing built into her mind processes when it comes to selecting potential meets.
Maybe it's just a love of the contrast between her lily white skin and the dark flesh of a playmate.
maybe it's the love of the 'black attitude' (we're sure there's a better way of describing this but can't think of it right now - apoligies to anyone taking offence at this gross generalisation)
Maybe it's a pursuit/danger/culture thing going on - out in this neck of the woods coloured guys are still pretty rare and therefore represent an exotic/erotic prize.
The truth is we just don't know why Chilli has this leaning towards black guys.
But we do know that in the end a good meet or bad meet won't be decided by the guys skin colour - it will hang very much on his sense of humour and confidence - make us laugh and no matter your colour/creed/size/appearance and we'll like you too.
PS - the black guy = huge dick thing - it really is a myth
We have played with all shapes, sizes, creeds and skin colours over the last couple of years and had a fair mixture of good, bad and really atrocious meets, and so we can speak with a deal of experience when we say that the ones that were the best were also the ones that made us laugh. These are the ones that we would be happy to meet with socially and playfully. These are the ones we would be happy to meet again (and have).
Maybe Chillis preference is a shallow thing built into her mind processes when it comes to selecting potential meets.
Maybe it's just a love of the contrast between her lily white skin and the dark flesh of a playmate.
maybe it's the love of the 'black attitude' (we're sure there's a better way of describing this but can't think of it right now - apoligies to anyone taking offence at this gross generalisation)
Maybe it's a pursuit/danger/culture thing going on - out in this neck of the woods coloured guys are still pretty rare and therefore represent an exotic/erotic prize.
The truth is we just don't know why Chilli has this leaning towards black guys.
But we do know that in the end a good meet or bad meet won't be decided by the guys skin colour - it will hang very much on his sense of humour and confidence - make us laugh and no matter your colour/creed/size/appearance and we'll like you too.
PS - the black guy = huge dick thing - it really is a myth
Sex God
Quote by Sexysmilingeyes
Black guys .....
I have dated a black guy but probably wont swing with one, unless I meet him in a club maybe. I have nothing against any race / colour swinging but it annoys me when black guys think because they are black I will want to meet them .... why start off an email to me telling me your black ? I dont care what colour you are, I want to know if you'll make me smile and more importantly if we meet we'll have fun - not if your white, black or anything in between.
Think if the email is good enough for me to click onto a profile I'll be able to figure out what colour you are myself
Because some people are put off by it. I've been a victim of it myself, so it pays to lay your cards on the table as early as possible so that people have the option to say no.
Sex God
For me it is simply a matter of visual contrast. I adore the look of black skin (actually most shades of deliciously chocolatey brown) on white (again, various shades of pink and caramel). There seems to be a textural contrast too, black skin tends to feel different - hard to put a word to it, stronger maybe?
The big dick thing, ok it's a myth that ALL black guys are well endowed, but plenty are.
That all said, I have swung with white guys (well and averagely endowed) and enjoyed it immensely.
I dislike people who simply assume you will fancy them, for whatever reason, and both black and white guys (and women I assume) can be guilty of that.
There has been a comment that such a preference (any preference surely?) is shallow. Well, here we are in a place where people meet to shag. You can't get much more shallow than that. LOL
But in the same place we can meet friends, help each other and all sorts of other deep things. Ain't swinging wonderful?
:D :D
The big dick thing, ok it's a myth that ALL black guys are well endowed, but plenty are.
That all said, I have swung with white guys (well and averagely endowed) and enjoyed it immensely.
I dislike people who simply assume you will fancy them, for whatever reason, and both black and white guys (and women I assume) can be guilty of that.
There has been a comment that such a preference (any preference surely?) is shallow. Well, here we are in a place where people meet to shag. You can't get much more shallow than that. LOL
But in the same place we can meet friends, help each other and all sorts of other deep things. Ain't swinging wonderful?
:D :D 
Sex God
i love the colour of the skin not as a sexual thing just in general i think that black men and women have such an amazing range of skin colours and such beautifull shades as for as a sexual thing i'm not fussed as to what colour a guy is as long as he is has the ability to hold a decent conversation and make me laugh, have to admit mr b does have a particular liking for the larger black ladies but it tends to be a body shape thing they tend to have much rounder butts and larger thighs to match which is wat floats his boat just wish there was more of them in the swinging comunity as we have not yet been able to find a playmate with the butt and thighs he lusts after
I think familiarity has a lot to do with it. ie there are more black people than other nationalities, one is more likely to come in contact with them and then get to know them better. I haven't seen an advert with a preference for eskimoes for example. they just aren't about in the UK, so no one's going to hanker after them. I particularly like sundays in London, the churches with black people in their sunday best have some fine looking men and women.
Also I think the sexual attractions of black guys is to do with being one of the things to consider sexually, when one is developing one's sex life. Before one goes onto say s&m or fetish or anything else; perhaps.
Also I think the sexual attractions of black guys is to do with being one of the things to consider sexually, when one is developing one's sex life. Before one goes onto say s&m or fetish or anything else; perhaps.
Sex God
Do you want me to get all feminist theory and talk about the hypermasculinity theory? Or shall I go down the historical route and cite miscegenation and the legacy of slavery? How about the sexual stereotyping of black males in interracial sex? Plenty of academic articles to peruse on that topic if you'd like me to send you some?
Of course, you could accept that some people 'just do' like having sex with people from a variety of ethnic or racial backgrounds. And if they are advertising specifically for black men, then they're not looking for you.
What's the title of that new film and I'll paraphrase a little... oh yes: perhaps they're just not that into you.
Nola x
Of course, you could accept that some people 'just do' like having sex with people from a variety of ethnic or racial backgrounds. And if they are advertising specifically for black men, then they're not looking for you.
What's the title of that new film and I'll paraphrase a little... oh yes: perhaps they're just not that into you.
Nola x
Quote by Sarah
I am saying nothing...... nada.... nowt... zilch... squadush...... :gagged:
although I'll be watching and taking notes........
I bet RPM will be along in a bit and have plenty to say :twisted: :twisted:
:gagged:RPM
It is unlike you to be so quiet!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:feck orf... I'm busy eatin sum white pussy! :giggle:
