We are a mixed race swinging couple, black male (bbw_lover) and white BBW(MissKItty_2008). We're sorry about not having many of our pics on public display but until the new tagging system is taken off they will remain in our private gallery. Invites will be given to friends and to those where a genuine meet is likely. Please no picture collectors.

Both of us swing alone or together as a couple. We have an open and trusting relationship and because of that we talk about possible and planned meets. We do not keep secrets from each other, so please be aware of this. We have no problems with each other having single meets, however we have safety measures for single meets, so if you don't like it - don't contact us as we will not back down on this. We also like to meet for a drink and a chat first … as there has to be a mutual spark for the meet to work - we will be honest.

Please note, that we do not read each other's pm's, so when contacting us, please put who the message is for, and it won't be read by the other person! For instance in the subject space put "To bbw_lover: subject text" or "To MissKitty: subject text" as appropiate. If the message is meant for both of us then simply enter the subject text and leave out the "To bbw_lover:" or "To MissKitty:".

Bear in mind that although we have are own personal preferences, bbw_lover has a preference for BBWs and MissKitty_2008 has a preference for black guys, we will not exclude anyone who doesn't fit into those categories. A good personality, mutual attraction and that special chemistry is more important than ticking any boxes. Also the ability to have an intelligent conversation is as important as what you do in bed. MissKitty particularly likes men who can make her smile and perk her intellectual interest!

Any genuine contact will be accepted, therefore PMs and winks are more than welcomed.

In the chatrooms:

bbw_lover will write in blue and Misskitty_2008 will write in pink. Please do not whisper her without an invite as she will ignore you.

In the forum:

bbw_lover will sign his posts with *lover* and MIssKitty_2008 will sign her posts with *kitty*.

*** MissKitty says:

Please note that l can't travel too far due to my job - l am on call a lot, but may be able to meet half way or accomodate.

PLEASE READ MY PROFILE PROPERLY BEFORE YOU CONTACT ME .....

AND I DONT WANT MFF THREESOMES .... OR MMF THREESOMES ...

Thank you for the winks to those who sent.. but I don't reply to one liners ... I like a little more than an invite to look at yours ... I hope I don't offend anyone but I won't reply to them ... I also won't reply to profiles with just cock shots on ..... you've seen one ... you've seen them all .... sorry!

I won't lead people on - I am honest and trustworthy. I am wary of people who don't have photos on their profile ... so if you don't have one ... don't contact me. Also, had a few people whisper me .. and when I have checked them out have found no information ... will not talk to you either!!!! Same with emails ... don't want "full on" straight away .... just say hi please!!!

Please do not contact me if you do not want what I want.

I am a BBW ... so if you don't like curvy gothic women .. you know where the door is!

NO PLAYING ALONE MARRIED MEN WELCOME SORRY!!!

And sorry again ... we are both non smokers and would like the same.

I am a bit of a techie geek .. so if you just want to chat about geeky things thats fine!! pm me anytime!!