Body Smells

10 Jul 2005

Ok I've used the search thing properly and can't see that this has been done before.....
Today I have had my first sexual encounter for a very long time! It was with someone I know well and have had sex with before.
Anyway, we were doing stuff and he asked me to do something which i've done before so I agreed.... only to find he hadn't had a shower and the smell was pretty bad.
I carried on regardless as I didn't want him to be embarassed or offended but now it's all I can smell three hours later and I feel pretty sick!
Has anyone else has a similar experience to this and can you give me advice on how to handle the situation better next time please?
smile

10 Jul 2005

what smell is it?

10 Jul 2005

well if it was me i would have not even went near him or would have asked him to join me in to the shower then wash him or her down

10 Jul 2005

should have told him you don't like cottage cheese!

10 Jul 2005

have a shower, rinse mouth out with moushwash (if necessary) and if smell is still persistant get drunk so you don't notice it anymore!! lol

chris x

10 Jul 2005

If you know him well and for a long time surely you could have ask him to have a wash first without offending him

10 Jul 2005

I think that is terrible ..... and disrespectful. I would not want to go down on a smelly pussy so i would not expect a woman to chomp on my chopper if it was not clean.
You should of asked him to clean himself before you continued and if he did not like it then tough, no more games.
Matt

10 Jul 2005

if someone is expecting you to suck his/her toes, I agree, they should have a good wash beforehand lol

:lol: :lol:

10 Jul 2005

eeeeeuw,,,,deeply disturbing,,if I had the slightest inkling that I had stinky bits I wouldn't let anyone near me :shock:

10 Jul 2005

Quote by kazswallows
if someone is expecting you to suck his/her toes, I agree, they should have a good wash beforehand :lol: :lol:

My toes are clean, ready and waiting.......................... :shock:

10 Jul 2005

Quote by Sarah
if someone is expecting you to suck his/her toes, I agree, they should have a good wash beforehand :lol: :lol:

My toes are clean, ready and waiting.......................... :shock:
but sarah, you have to make sure its all clean, because I only mean to start at your toes wink

:wink:

10 Jul 2005

This can be arranged :P :P :twisted: :twisted:
Now who can I get to wash my back?

10 Jul 2005

Quote by G and H
If you know him well and for a long time surely you could have ask him to have a wash first without offending him

No, it isn't as simple as that.
I thought he would have had a shower before I got there as there has never been this problem before.
I didn't want to say anything as I didn't want to embarass myself or him..... obviously it's a very sensitive subject, one I'm not used to discussing with someone as it's never happened before so I thought I'd just carry on with things this time.
I posted because I wanted advice on how to deal with this kind of situation if it ever happens again with anyone as I'm sure others have come accross this before.
Oh and by the way..... It wasn't his manhood that was the problem..... or his toes! lol

10 Jul 2005

what was it then? :shock:

10 Jul 2005

Quote by onlyme1981
Oh and by the way..... It wasn't his manhood that was the problem..... or his toes!

Yuk, i don't even want to imagine what it was then. :mrgreen:
Make sure they've had a shower in future or suggest a shower together before you start playing as part of foreplay, that way you will know they are clean.
kaz xx

10 Jul 2005

Quote by onlyme1981
If you know him well and for a long time surely you could have ask him to have a wash first without offending him

No, it isn't as simple as that.
I thought he would have had a shower before I got there as there has never been this problem before.
I didn't want to say anything as I didn't want to embarass myself or him..... obviously it's a very sensitive subject, one I'm not used to discussing with someone as it's never happened before so I thought I'd just carry on with things this time.
I posted because I wanted advice on how to deal with this kind of situation if it ever happens again with anyone as I'm sure others have come accross this before.
Oh and by the way..... It wasn't his manhood that was the problem..... or his toes! lol

Almost makes you wish it was :gagged:
Just be firm with that person and say no. If they're not considerate enough to have a shower beforehand then you shouldn't have to do anything to them.

10 Jul 2005

Well i'm sorry but i would have refused to play with someone who was unclean, not being funny but sod his feeling he didn't care enough for you to have a shower first then why should you care about his feelings, if he hadn't washed in this weather he must have known he was smelling and let u carry on anyway :shock:
ur a kinder person than me cause i would have walked out

10 Jul 2005

Ok.... well in future I'm not going to just carry on. Even though I'll be embarassed and he will be, it's best to say something otherwise he'll think nothings wrong.
I see the error of my ways....was just a bit surprised today as I've never been in that situation before.
I'll just have to put it in a nice way - I don't like hurting people but needs must and all that...
thanks for the advice though....I'll make sure I follow it!
biggrin

10 Jul 2005

I do understand about not wanting to hurt peoples feeling but as i have already said, in this weather if he had not had a bath/shower he must have known he was a bit smelly, god in this heat you can smell yourself, and expecting you to carry on anyway :shock: is not the kind of person who should have his feelings spared, what about your feelings?

10 Jul 2005

the thing about people who smell is that word gets around quickly!
it only takes you having one meet when you are not clean before most decent people will refuse to see you.
understandable really.
speaking as the person who was expected to put up with the smell... rather than the stinky one!

10 Jul 2005

erm....... i know i know i'm a nosey fecker... can't help I won't even try......
BUT.............. was it "rimming"..... cause thats about the only thing left i (well we actually postie is intrigued now too) can think of that would cause a smell..... confused

Don't need to put yer reply in main forum just a nod or a wink or even a wee pm just to put us out our misery.................. pleeeezzzzzzzzzzz biggrin

10 Jul 2005

Quote by tattyxpx
erm....... i know i know i'm a nosey fecker... can't help I won't even try......
BUT.............. was it "rimming"..... cause thats about the only thing left

Trust you to think of that!! I thought she was meaning his armpits confused

Tracy-Jayne

10 Jul 2005

Quote by tattyxpx
erm....... i know i know i'm a nosey fecker... can't help I won't even try......
BUT.............. was it "rimming"..... cause thats about the only thing left i (well we actually postie is intrigued now too) can think of that would cause a smell.....
Don't need to put yer reply in main forum just a nod or a wink or even a wee pm just to put us out our misery.................. pleeeezzzzzzzzzzz

lol....you have a PM.
No way I'm announcing it on the Forum..... although a lot of people have probably guessed anyway! smile

10 Jul 2005

Hi Onlyme,
I am s-o-o-o-o with you on this one. I have put up with what you've described for exactly the same reasons as you. Everything else is going well but - oh dear.
I have - had - one friend who would drive a long way to see me after a long day at work. A couple of times I got him into the shower on the pretext of how sexy it was. Actually, rubbing Badedas all over each other is quite sexy. But he never got the message. He is no more.
We SHOULD say : "I will worship every part of your body in turn if you would only make sure it is fresh enough for me' but we don't. Cos it isn't sexy and it isn't romantic.
But also - changing the subject a little - I think we are 'programmed' to respond to some people and not others. There have been occasions when the lack of freshness has been tolerable. OK more than tolerable - sexy even. When the person is who your genes think is a good match then their smell turns you on. Yes? No?
Jezzay.

10 Jul 2005

Quote by jezzay
But he never got the message. He is no more.

FFS!!! You KILLED him????? :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: confused

:? :?

10 Jul 2005

Quote by tattyxpx
erm....... i know i know i'm a nosey fecker... can't help I won't even try......
BUT.............. was it "rimming"..... cause thats about the only thing left i (well we actually postie is intrigued now too) can think of that would cause a smell.....
Don't need to put yer reply in main forum just a nod or a wink or even a wee pm just to put us out our misery.................. pleeeezzzzzzzzzzz

I had a dose of that many years ago, cum in a matter of seconds surprised

ops:
If i thought that i might be getting another dose then i would get the vim and a scrubbing brush out lol

But seriously, you have the right to expect him to be clean. Maybe if it happens again you should hold back, give him some affection/stimulation and suggest that you both take a shower, whilst telling him how "dirty" you will be when you get back to the bedroom.
How do i know that this will work ?
Because i'm a bloke ... simple as that.
Matt

10 Jul 2005

Quote by Sgt Bilko
But he never got the message. He is no more.

FFS!!! You KILLED him????? :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: confused

:? :?
You don't cross people down Narfolk way. Dab hand with the old air-rifle we all are.

10 Jul 2005

I had an experiance like this myself once, some women that could have done with a tube of industrial strenght vagiclean.. the way I delt with it was to say "I really dont feel comfatable doing this, do you mind if I do something else" if you are too embarressed to say that, then simply move away with the offending area and stick you tongue some were else. At the end of the day you have sex not just to pleasure someone else, you do it to pleasure yourself too, You dont have to do anything you dont want to.
My best advise is: only do things like that with people you know are 100% clean as someone else said, tell them you'd like to shower with them.
Thinking about what you had your tongue in is making me feel slightly sick.. I'm off for a shower lol

10 Jul 2005

I don't know about everyone else, but I'm pretty paranoid about it myself. I'm afraid that I'm not 'nice to know' even though I fresh out of the shower and smelling of that lovely fizzy stuff that makes millions of bubbles. So I try to be very sensitive to any hesitation in my partner - so far seems ok, but I'm still paranoid.
Is it safe to assume that if you are fresh and thoroughly showered and smell sparkly clean to yourself, you're acceptable? I hope so otherwise it will be Jeyes Fluid rinses for me for ever. :shock:

10 Jul 2005

Quote by foxylady2209
I don't know about everyone else, but I'm pretty paranoid about it myself. I'm afraid that I'm not 'nice to know' even though I fresh out of the shower and smelling of that lovely fizzy stuff that makes millions of bubbles. So I try to be very sensitive to any hesitation in my partner - so far seems ok, but I'm still paranoid.
Is it safe to assume that if you are fresh and thoroughly showered and smell sparkly clean to yourself, you're acceptable? I hope so otherwise it will be Jeyes Fluid rinses for me for ever. :shock:

Don't worry - a clean shower will do. Worry about it too much and he'll smell yer fear.