brains or beauty?

8 May 2006

One thing does it for me ! Charisma !
Where you get it from is your issue. Brains can do it, Beauty can do it too.
It's the ability to work your mojo that counts.

9 May 2006

I have found that intelligent ladies can be incredibly sexy, but that shouldn't denigrate the goodlooking ones - one enhances the other.
However, I'm fortunate in that I've found the one who is both gorgeous AND intelligent! passionkiss

Mal

9 May 2006

surely the whole point of swinging is that you get the pleasure of variety!
You can enjoy brains no brain beauty on the inside & beauty on the outside. I like it all :twisted:

9 May 2006

For me it's an overall package that counts. I have to be attracted to them to even think about a shag but they've also got to have something worthwhile between their ears. I mean, you've got to have something to talk about when sparking up the post coital ciggie :giggle:
To me, a sexy man is good looking ( IMO ), experienced, funny, smart and clean and has confidence. If he can breath through his ears and do a fab massage too, all the better !

9 May 2006

To me, a sexy man is good looking ( IMO ), experienced, funny, smart and clean and has confidence. If he can breath through his ears and do a fab massage too, all the better !
Hmmmm, I kow just the guy! Fantastic massage.....but wait....he's a dirty barsteward, so mabe not! :giggle:
However......he has just been elevated to the status of "Moderately funny"! (even if he hasn't realised it yet...... wink

9 May 2006

I just been elevated to the status of "Moderately funny" :happy: :inlove: :taz: :bounce:

9 May 2006

Quote by Mal
I have found that intelligent ladies can be incredibly sexy, but that shouldn't denigrate the goodlooking ones - one enhances the other.
However, I'm fortunate in that I've found the one who is both gorgeous AND intelligent!
Mal

OOOOh .... is there a cloned version available please????

9 May 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
For me it's an overall package that counts. I have to be attracted to them to even think about a shag but they've also got to have something worthwhile between their ears. I mean, you've got to have something to talk about when sparking up the post coital ciggie :giggle:
To me, a sexy man is good looking ( IMO ), experienced, funny, smart and clean and has confidence. If he can breath through his ears and do a fab massage too, all the better !

yep, that pretty much sums it up. To make it perfect add available and local (and not particularly fussy).....yeh, yeh, yeh, a girl can dream.
H.x

9 May 2006

Quote by H-x
For me it's an overall package that counts. I have to be attracted to them to even think about a shag but they've also got to have something worthwhile between their ears. I mean, you've got to have something to talk about when sparking up the post coital ciggie :giggle:
To me, a sexy man is good looking ( IMO ), experienced, funny, smart and clean and has confidence. If he can breath through his ears and do a fab massage too, all the better !

yep, that pretty much sums it up. To make it perfect add available and local (and not particularly fussy).....yeh, yeh, yeh, a girl can dream.
H.x
:lol2: Saves me typing it all out :thumbup:

9 May 2006

It depends if we are talking long term or short term, I could easily have a fling with a stunning but 2 dimensional person. (I'm a red blooded male after all) but I couldn't have a long term relationship without decent conversation or wit. biggrin

Trust me I've tried rolleyes

10 May 2006

I'm with Sheddy on the beauty for now and brains for living with but I think I may be getting to an age where neither is important, just whether we get along fine! - sad??
For others, does it depend on how they see themselves as to whether they want the same.
I get turned on by brains as well as beauty but to be more serious on the beauty side and to explain my first comment, it is often the undefinable but essential element of anothe, the je ne sais quoi,r that makes tthem so desirable.- not always their resemblance to stereotypes?
Shay

12 May 2006

Quote by shayz1
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I get turned on by brains as well as beauty but to be more serious on the beauty side and to explain my first comment, it is often the undefinable but essential element of anothe, the je ne sais quoi,r that makes tthem so desirable.- not always their resemblance to stereotypes?
Shay

Stereotypes?
I can not say that I let others tell me who is beautiful, and at times I can not say what it is that attracts me. You may be right, it is how they see themselves! Therefore it is confidence in themselves. Beauty in action? That undefinable quality. The right dress? The right setting? No it is a confidence that knows it does not have to push to much.

12 May 2006

Beauty can be far more than physical appearance,
Depends on the individual who's looking and how deep their willing to go to try and find it.......imho
T&Pxxxxx

12 May 2006

Its complex and multidimensional. For me its about a mix of intelligence, personality, attractivenes, sexinesss and that unquantifiable element of I dont know why but this person make me feel as horney as hell. I like it when the full orchestra is playing and you forgey all the elements as they merge in surround sound! But some duets and other combinations just work. But then its the variations that add zest isnt it. Those people we dont normally get on with but the sexual relationship is out of the world - wonderful surprises. Not forgetting the fun and laughs - the social lubricant both before, after and sometimes between.
But then in the real world its - I fancy her/him - its intuitive - its chemistry and if the dice has rolled well this time all the other factors are there.
Ben

Quote by Andromeda
Always an interesting one for me, and I'm sure the most obvious respose is "both"... that said. which do you go for???? brains or beauty??? ..... if you really cant have both.. just for the sake of this thread, which would do it for you?

12 May 2006

Quote by Cheetah
Its complex and multidimensional. For me its about a mix of intelligence, personality, attractivenes, sexinesss and that unquantifiable element of I dont know why but this person make me feel as horney as hell. I like it when the full orchestra is playing and you forgey all the elements as they merge in surround sound! But some duets and other combinations just work. But then its the variations that add zest isnt it. Those people we dont normally get on with but the sexual relationship is out of the world - wonderful surprises. Not forgetting the fun and laughs - the social lubricant both before, after and sometimes between.
But then in the real world its - I fancy her/him - its intuitive - its chemistry and if the dice has rolled well this time all the other factors are there.
Ben
Always an interesting one for me, and I'm sure the most obvious respose is "both"... that said. which do you go for???? brains or beauty??? ..... if you really cant have both.. just for the sake of this thread, which would do it for you?

Well said that man!