Bum play

30 Jul 2009

Seeing as though Bloke's done kissing and cum, I figured I'd lower the tone and do bums.
Bum play: do you like it? Do you indulge? Do you like it being done to you? Is it a completely no go area?
To qualify, I guess I'm talking about a whole range of things here: rimming, fingers, toys etc as well as 'up the butt' sex.
I have mixed feelings. I'm not a big fan of anal sex, but I can get down with a bit of general 'play' in that area. I also quite like playing with men's bottoms. :rascal:
That's it, my potty mouth reputation is sealed... wink

30 Jul 2009

I dont mind the playing with a guys bum....as long as hes happy with it, and dont mind a little bit of gently anal, as long as the cock isnt a monster salami, and theres plenty of lube
......but I dont know if I could do the rimming thing....maybe thats something i could explore dunno

theres just some inexplicable mental block there about it!

30 Jul 2009

Quote by noladreams
...I also quite like playing with men's bottoms. :rascal:

Eyes left then young lady! cool

30 Jul 2009

Quote by redpantherman
...I also quite like playing with men's bottoms. :rascal:

Eyes left then young lady! cool

Yep, I have oft wondered what it'd be like to play with yours! :rascal:

30 Jul 2009

Quote by noladreams
That's it, my potty mouth reputation is sealed...

OK, nick my 'brother thread' why don't you.. although it was rimming and not bum play I was gonna do smile

I love it - I rarely take it but love to fuck and fuck and fuck (I guess it's honest, potty mouth Thursday for me too nola!)
I love the reaction rimming gets - the look in their eyes is priceless and really gets me off. I like easing a bloke into getting fucked too until his eyes roll back in his head and he just wants more and more - kind of to the point where he doesn't know if he should beg you to stop or carry on (anyone that's been there will relate to this). Can't believe I just said that but hey, it's an adult forum cool

I know with blokes and their arse it's the Prostate that gives most of the sensation so how about women? Is anal play just plain naughty and does the buzz come from that or is there some physical thing that happens too? dunno

30 Jul 2009

i must say i get a more intense orgasm from most forms of bum play but cannt take anal sex for too long after i have cum

30 Jul 2009

Quote by Sara_2006
i must say i get a more intense orgasm from most forms of bum play but cannt take anal sex for too long after i have cum

You can make a guy cum by playing with his arse and not even touching his cock, that's kinda cool.
And agreed, when I do get fucked, once I've cum the show is over. I think it's the intensity of build up to cumming that counters some of the pressure/pain/pleasure of the bum play so once that's gone.. I just want a cuddle! :rascal:

30 Jul 2009

Never had the chance to play with a man's bum but I would like to :rascal: I am rather partial to receiving though lol

For the actual sex I have to be reallyhorny but having my clit licked and my bum fingered has very nice results redface

30 Jul 2009

Quote by BIoke
I love the reaction rimming gets - the look in their eyes is priceless and really gets me off.

:thumbup: Oh me too!

30 Jul 2009

Does anyone not enjoy the squeezing of gluteal muscles?
I've yet to bugger anyone, but I've seen too much hardcore porn not to want to give it a try...
I once asked a girl if I could put my cock in her ass, and she replied, "Only if I can put my tongue in yours." It turned me right off. I would rather let her bugger me with a strap-on, it would seem. Fingers are also excluded, and I suspect once I stick my cock in an ass, it will stay there until I'm finished... unless she doesn't want my cum inside, I suppose. It would have to come back out sometime, after all.
I am aware that tickling my prostate might feel good, but frankly it's never been the same back there since the hemorrhoid. redface

30 Jul 2009

With the risk of sounding really boring ......
I dont do bum fun simply because its not fun, it hurts and feels like I need to have a really big shit!! Where is the pleasure in that??
Mr Fun wants to try it (bum fun with a woman, not bum fun on him) so we do go back every now and again to try but with the same result although we try it gently, slowly and well lubed.
Once it even reduced me to tears.

30 Jul 2009

Quote by Funlovers2009
With the risk of sounding really boring ......
I dont do bum fun simply because its not fun, it hurts and feels like I need to have a really big shit!! Where is the pleasure in that??
Mr Fun wants to try it (bum fun with a woman, not bum fun on him) so we do go back every now and again to try but with the same result although we try it gently, slowly and well lubed.
Once it even reduced me to tears.

Yep - I would love to share my anal sex trauma but I won't. :shock:
That's why I've kinda said 'bum play'... because I like other stuff being done, I just don't really like full sex.

30 Jul 2009

I've done rimming and anal with my ex, she was used to the anal but gave a big Ooooh of shock when I started rimming for the first time.
I've had rimming done to me as well, either it wasn't very good or the thoughts and sensations I imagined it being weren't really up to reality.

30 Jul 2009

While I can undoubtably see the appeal of being rimmed, I am so worried about - you know, the hygiene issues, that I could never let someone do it to me - let alone do it to someone else.
I mean, as much as a person might shower beforehand, what about... seepage? I've seen too many pairs of gents' skiddy pants - and then I can just imagine someone getting it on with my ass and then having a wtf moment... well, you never know...
That's what's always made me decline.

30 Jul 2009

Quote by bigDewi69
I've had rimming done to me as well, either it wasn't very good or the thoughts and sensations I imagined it being weren't really up to reality.

I can help! lol

30 Jul 2009

Quote by Cherrytree
While I can undoubtably see the appeal of being rimmed, I am so worried about - you know, the hygiene issues, that I could never let someone do it to me - let alone do it to someone else.
I mean, as much as a person might shower beforehand, what about... seepage? I've seen too many pairs of gents' skiddy pants - and then I can just imagine someone getting it on with my ass and then having a wtf moment... well, you never know...
That's what's always made me decline.

thats just made me laugh out loud!! rotflmao

30 Jul 2009

bums are things of beauty
lp

30 Jul 2009

Ive killed the Bum thread havent I?
You could say I've plugged it
lp

30 Jul 2009

Have one of the mods rummage around in the back and loosen it up so it works again for you wink

30 Jul 2009

which Mod would that be?
I dread to think.... anal play is all well and good... but being forcefully anally-moderated brings on the fear
lp

30 Jul 2009

Quote by __random_orbit__
which Mod would that be?
I dread to think.... anal play is all well and good... but being forcefully anally-moderated brings on the fear
lp

Liar - you're touching (and douching) yourself at the thought! :rascal:
x

30 Jul 2009

Quote by __random_orbit__
which Mod would that be?
I dread to think.... anal play is all well and good... but being forcefully anally-moderated brings on the fear
lp

30 Jul 2009

I quiet enjoy giving and receiving a little bum play....but it's all in the build up...part of the hours of touching and exploring... redface

30 Jul 2009

:shock:

30 Jul 2009

Quote by __random_orbit__
:shock:

Yes, you go it, that's generally what a straight man's face does the first time he has to push through the 'ring of fire'.. but it doesn't take long until it changes to hump

30 Jul 2009

Quote by BIoke
:shock:

Yes, you go it, that's generally what a straight man's face does the first time he has to push through the 'ring of fire'.. but it doesn't take long until it changes to hump

The ring of fire......do it before having a curry ffs biggrin

:D :D

30 Jul 2009

hmmm, so just how straight am I?
yoga was a few years ago... but 'flexible' still aplies
lp

30 Jul 2009

Quote by __random_orbit__
hmmm, so just how straight am I?
yoga was a few years ago... but 'flexible' still aplies
lp

Can you get your legs behind your head..? Or mine for that matter..? :twisted:

30 Jul 2009

is 'flexible' the same as 'situationally-bi'?
lol

30 Jul 2009

help me, somebody!
lp