Well following the form of my other posts I doubt this will even be noticed..
But now having clocked up more than 50 posts and having a grand total of about 2 responded to I figure it would be easier to penetrate a strict catholic virgin before marriage than break into this community...
I*ve tried talking to people, posting an ad, answering ad's and after the complete lack of response I feel like the man with herpes at a munch. So, this is to say I realise this obviously isn't the place for me and so goodbye.
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Quote by Azazel
But now having clocked up more than 50 posts and having a grand total of about 2 responded to .
make that 3 now!
am sorry you feel the need to leave!
have fun in your new life.
luv WBB
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I'm here too, sometimes I feel the same, that people aren't really interested in what I have to say, but I've realised that doesn't matter, being here with these people is just so much fun, for me I don't need to feel the centre of attention, it's just nice to see me quoted occasionally and rarely make a post that provokes a reaction from others (in a good way).
Just hang about and make posts, you'll get there, make an appearance at a munch and talk to people and you'll get there even quicker.
HTH
Chris.
Just hang about and make posts, you'll get there, make an appearance at a munch and talk to people and you'll get there even quicker.
HTH
Chris.
Sex God
Quote by Azazel
Well following the form of my other posts I doubt this will even be noticed..
But now having clocked up more than 50 posts and having a grand total of about 2 responded to I figure it would be easier to penetrate a strict catholic virgin before marriage than break into this community...
I*ve tried talking to people, posting an ad, answering ad's and after the complete lack of response I feel like the man with herpes at a munch. So, this is to say I realise this obviously isn't the place for me and so goodbye.
Not sure what sort of response you're expecting - if you're in a conversation you're all responding to each other aren't you
Doesn't mean you're ignored just cos you're not directly quoted every time.
Orgasminator
azazel im up to 300+ now and i still get ignored sometimes but thats because people still don't really know me. stick it out this place is better than you think.
Azazel,don't trust a downer mood - I think after a good start I've gone well downhill here in the last few days.I look at a lot of the threads and feel blank - I feel like I'm not in on the I feel like a 3rd class citizen being a single guy over 40 who isn't a fireman or a male model.
But I've had some great banter on here at times and some lovely PMs.I will survive - and so will you,listen to me with 270 posts and Midlandsman with 300+,ok?
But I've had some great banter on here at times and some lovely PMs.I will survive - and so will you,listen to me with 270 posts and Midlandsman with 300+,ok?
Quote by midlandsman1970
azazel im up to 300+ now and i still get ignored sometimes but thats because people still don't really know me. stick it out this place is better than you think.
I am nearly at 1000 posts and I dont always get responses to my posts either.... But then that's not always the reason for my post....
Shireen
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Sex God
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Sex God
erm . . . how about 2000 odd with no response whatsoever to me occasional post? 
what exactly are you after? everyone to fall down laffin and quote you and say how ace you are? sorry but it won't happen. whether it's 50 or 5000, it's conversation! it all get's read if you post, and there's your contribution to the topsy turvy world that is Swinging Heaven? that's what it's about. the contribution? not the response? just crack on. and don't bail just cos OMG someone didn't respond to a post you made?
neil - who even now doesn't expect anyone to notice a single post he makes?
what exactly are you after? everyone to fall down laffin and quote you and say how ace you are? sorry but it won't happen. whether it's 50 or 5000, it's conversation! it all get's read if you post, and there's your contribution to the topsy turvy world that is Swinging Heaven? that's what it's about. the contribution? not the response? just crack on. and don't bail just cos OMG someone didn't respond to a post you made?
neil - who even now doesn't expect anyone to notice a single post he makes?
Sexlightened
Quote by Azazel
Well following the form of my other posts I doubt this will even be noticed..
But now having clocked up more than 50 posts and having a grand total of about 2 responded to I figure it would be easier to penetrate a strict catholic virgin before marriage than break into this community...
I*ve tried talking to people, posting an ad, answering ad's and after the complete lack of response I feel like the man with herpes at a munch. So, this is to say I realise this obviously isn't the place for me and so goodbye.
2 responses??!! That's double mine, and I'm still here. Mind you, I expect I've killed this thread stone dead now, as per usual. Oh well *shrug*
Sex God
Quote by marmalaid
erm . . .
neil - who even now doesn't expect everyone to respond to a single post he makes?
That's just an invite for thread killing...
yeah??? well! i've murdered threads before yer know! i'm hard me? kill threads by the dozen! so what! i'll take this thread by it's scrawny little neck and leave it bleedin' by the roadside! so there! :P
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neilinleeds wrote:
erm . . .
neil - who even now doesn't expect everyone to respond to a single post he makes?
neil i will respond
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2 responses??!! That's double mine, and I'm still here. Mind you, I expect I've killed this thread stone dead now, as per usual. Oh well *shrug*
nah yellowfrog thats my job :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote by Azazel
Well following the form of my other posts I doubt this will even be noticed..
But now having clocked up more than 50 posts and having a grand total of about 2 responded to I figure it would be easier to penetrate a strict catholic virgin before marriage than break into this community...
I*ve tried talking to people, posting an ad, answering ad's and after the complete lack of response I feel like the man with herpes at a munch. So, this is to say I realise this obviously isn't the place for me and so goodbye.
Hey! Azazel!
Warming the Bed
I wouldn't worry about it. It's a fact of life that people wil respond to their friends more often than to people they don't know. I don't see that's a reason for quitting though.
I don't post much - I've never been much good at racking up great post counts as I prefer only to say something if I have something to say....I figure I should hit 100 somewhere around mid February
But when I do post just because it doesn't get quoted doesn't mean I feel excluded. I feel like I've added to the overall discussion and given someone somthing to think on. You only have to look at the number of views of a thread compared to the posts to see that 100's read and only a few post.
I love this forum. The people are great, they always cheer me up with their posts when I'm feeling down and I hardly ever leave here without a smile on my face. I've already met a couple of people from here and hopefully in time I'll get to meet more, may even get myself to a munch one day.
As for 'breaking into this community,' well if you are here you are part of it. If you just up and leave it'll be your loss. But it's your choice.
I don't post much - I've never been much good at racking up great post counts as I prefer only to say something if I have something to say....I figure I should hit 100 somewhere around mid February
But when I do post just because it doesn't get quoted doesn't mean I feel excluded. I feel like I've added to the overall discussion and given someone somthing to think on. You only have to look at the number of views of a thread compared to the posts to see that 100's read and only a few post.I love this forum. The people are great, they always cheer me up with their posts when I'm feeling down and I hardly ever leave here without a smile on my face. I've already met a couple of people from here and hopefully in time I'll get to meet more, may even get myself to a munch one day.
As for 'breaking into this community,' well if you are here you are part of it. If you just up and leave it'll be your loss. But it's your choice.
Sex God
I note with satisfaction that Neil hasn't posted to this thread.
Just as well really, we'd only ignore him if he did.
Just as well really, we'd only ignore him if he did.
Sex God
Quote by redstilletto
actually sometimes people like to read but just cant be arsed responding .yep im guilty of that one from time to time
............ Nah.... never mind........... :wink:
See Az,look what Neil said - and it shows how funnily we percieve ourselves because Neil has always struck me as one of the big cheeses on here yet he feels much the same.
Surely nobody expects everyone to adore them just because they put up a 1 liner - or a 100 liner.
I felt a real pace to my journey on here until last decline is my own,not the you find your touch
-well,not that way for me - yet :shock: .
But quit and thats it,you've lost contact with some amazing people.
A bad patch doesn't last does a good one.
I just wish I could say the same about a bald patch!
Surely nobody expects everyone to adore them just because they put up a 1 liner - or a 100 liner.
I felt a real pace to my journey on here until last decline is my own,not the you find your touch
-well,not that way for me - yet :shock: .But quit and thats it,you've lost contact with some amazing people.
A bad patch doesn't last does a good one.
I just wish I could say the same about a bald patch!
Orgasminator
Atleast animals and young children (mine) can still see me lol or thats how it feels on here sometimes
Tumbleweed blows through post !
Tumbleweed blows through post !
