Without getting into the subject as such, I have seen quite a few posts on various threads where it has been suggested that married men, who's wives do not participate in SH or in some cases do not even know of their husbands involvement, are cheating and should therefore be horse-whipped.
What I have NOT seen are any such comments aimed at one half of a gay partnership.
Does that mean that gays of both sexes are allowed to cheat?
Obviously it doesn't mean that but I hope you , dear reader, can see the point I am trying to make.
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Sex God
I see your point but as yet, I haven't seen any halves of gay partnerships seeking others to play with alone. Don't know if anyone else has.
Oh, and nobody's saying that they should be horse-whipped, what people generally say is that some would swing with them whilst others don't actually want to get involved at all with married men or women.
Oh, and nobody's saying that they should be horse-whipped, what people generally say is that some would swing with them whilst others don't actually want to get involved at all with married men or women.
Sex God
I haven't yet seen a gay half of a partnership (or either sex) ask the forum what we feel about them cheating. As far as I'm concerned, cheating is cheating whether it is a gay or straight partnership.
Not sure what else to say really
Not sure what else to say really
Sex God
Quote by bluexxx
I haven't yet seen a gay half of a partnership (or either sex) ask the forum what we feel about them cheating. As far as I'm concerned, cheating is cheating whether it is a gay or straight partnership.
Not sure what else to say really
blue has said exactly what i would have said......
sean xxxxxxx
Casanova
Sorry to say, but Blue is totally Right.
Cheating is Cheating.
If one half of a partnership is unaware of what the other is doing, then its plain and simple, they are cheating and the other half is eventually going to get very very hurt when they find out.
Cheating is Cheating.
If one half of a partnership is unaware of what the other is doing, then its plain and simple, they are cheating and the other half is eventually going to get very very hurt when they find out.
Sex God
i wouldn't know to answer the question parrot about whether gay relationships are more open, but some might argue that gay male relationships are more promiscuous ((( sweeping general statement. you know what i mean! ;) ))) personally i don't see any difference between married men, married women, or men or women in any other kinda relationship being on the site. i might have an opinion on it,but wouldn't have strong feelings on it anyway, and would be more concerned about horse-whipping. ;)
neil x x x ;)
neil x x x ;)
Sex God
Quote by neilinleeds
I... would be more concerned about horse-whipping. ;)
neil x x x ;)
Concerned in a 'pissoff you're not horse-whipping me' kind of way or concerned in a 'ooooo horse-whipping why haven't I had that done to me' kind of way?
:twisted:
Sex God
Quote by freckledbird
I... would be more concerned about horse-whipping. ;)
neil x x x ;)
Concerned in a 'pissoff you're not horse-whipping me' kind of way or concerned in a 'ooooo horse-whipping why haven't I had that done to me' kind of way?
:twisted:
i assume that as that was neil it was a rhetorical q!!!!!!!!!!!!
:lol:
i personally don't agree with anyone using swinging sites who are cheating, male or female, gay/str8 or bi, there are rooms and sites for married and cheating which swingers are not welcome in so why should they use ours? to me swinging is about respect and trust how can a cheater have any of these things? throw em out i say....even if they gay lmao
Sex God
Quote by well_busty_babe
I... would be more concerned about horse-whipping. ;)
neil x x x ;)
Concerned in a 'pissoff you're not horse-whipping me' kind of way or concerned in a 'ooooo horse-whipping why haven't I had that done to me' kind of way?
:twisted:
i assume that as that was neil it was a rhetorical q!!!!!!!!!!!!
:lol:
well yeah . . . my horse-whipped ass has been plastered all over the site . . . so it was one o' them rhetorical thingumbobs . . . prolly?
t'weren't so bad as morbius' well beaten rump steak thing though was it? :shock: :eeek: :scared: :lol2:
ok i'll stick me head out . . . . i wouldn't want to be cheater / cheated on / other man, if we're gonna use those terms, but i know damn well it ain't quite so clear cut as all that? ;)
n x x x :P
Sex God
Quote by neilinleeds
well yeah . . . my horse-whipped ass has been plastered all over the site . . .
Indeed :shock:
Sex God
Quote by bluexxx
well yeah . . . my horse-whipped ass has been plastered all over the site . . .
Indeed :shock:
Do people keep their (white) socks on to be whipped then? :shock:
Sex God
Quote by freckledbird
well yeah . . . my horse-whipped ass has been plastered all over the site . . .
Indeed :shock:
Do people keep their (white) socks on to be whipped then? :shock:
Neil was a naughty skoolie.... white socks are part of the "look".... I bet there will be a few pairs at the Wigan Munch
8-) 8-) 8-) Sex God
Aha that explains that then. 
silly me
silly me 
Sex God
What is the point of this Parrot?
Has someone questioned if your wife knows you look at swingers sites on your PC in the shed? Or is it after you spent some time in the gay village in Manchester with a group of bi-sexual, transgendered gay and straight people and would like to know more?
;)
Has someone questioned if your wife knows you look at swingers sites on your PC in the shed? Or is it after you spent some time in the gay village in Manchester with a group of bi-sexual, transgendered gay and straight people and would like to know more?
;)
Sex God
Quote by JudyTV
well yeah . . . my horse-whipped ass has been plastered all over the site . . .
Indeed :shock:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/personal/silkies/party%20048.jpg
Do people keep their (white) socks on to be whipped then? :shock:
Neil was a naughty skoolie.... white socks are part of the "look".... I bet there will be a few pairs at the Wigan Munch
8-) 8-) 8-)Errrrrr... thats a different kind of cross dressing there. The long white socks are in fact mine .... they were borrowed by Neil for blues party...................so were the little white knickers.
Judy
ah yes!
t'is true, but i was young and innocent, honest! 
ops:i didn't know about the whole "best wash them knickers" thing, nor was i very good at the whole "please drop blue's sexy skirt off tomorrow!" thing!
the blousey thing was mine, and i'm sure the shoes and boots were borrowed?
hey ho! 8-)
n x x x :P
Sex God
Quote by Parrot
Without getting into the subject as such, I have seen quite a few posts on various threads where it has been suggested that married men, who's wives do not participate in SH or in some cases do not even know of their husbands involvement, are cheating and should therefore be horse-whipped.
What I have NOT seen are any such comments aimed at one half of a gay partnership.
Does that mean that gays of both sexes are allowed to cheat?
Obviously it doesn't mean that but I hope you , dear reader, can see the point I am trying to make.
I've just seen this, and I'm puzzled at to what you are getting at Parrot, and why you are calling it a "bitch" when it's supposedly against something that you don't seem to be sure exists. As several others have said, cheating is cheating, whomever it is against.
It's interesting that you don't talk about someone cheating by having sex with someone else other than their partner, but "participating in SH". This seems to me to be a different matter entirely, and could well need a separate discussion thread. There have in the past been a few people in here I have been aware of who have left the SH forums after a period of time here because they felt guilty that their partner did not know they joined in the discussions (and nothing more) here. Could be an interesting discussion what is acceptable here without being regarded as cheating on an unsuspecting partner: discussions not involving sex in here, discussions involving sex, attending a munch (purely socially), and building friendships via PMs/messenger with people here - no doubt different people would draw the "cheating" line in different places.
By the way, I'm single.
Mike.
Sex God
Quote by JudyTV
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Even more enlightening for the guys wife when my Tranny friend shared the same stories with her. Now is that the definition of a true bitch or is it just plain old girlie retribution from a very pissed off TV?
Be careful out there guys, the sword of Damocles is only a Vodka and Coke away :P .
Judy .............we live in a very small world.
Ouch ouch ouch, Judy, this post should be displayed prominently as a dire warning to the cheaters in here.
Mike.
Quote by little gem
What is the point of this Parrot?
Has someone questioned if your wife knows you look at swingers sites on your PC in the shed? Or is it after you spent some time in the gay village in Manchester with a group of bi-sexual, transgendered gay and straight people and would like to know more?
;)
The point was maybe a bit obscure. In fact, I'm having a little trouble putting it into words myself.
I think I was trying to say that this SH site is so open and honest about people's sexuality and what turns them on with nobody saying.... "Oh, you freak. How could you even think of doing that?". Just live and let live as long as whatever you do is within the boundries set. Which is fine.
Then, on the other hand, there are campaigns going on all over the place to make it possible for Gay partners to get married, which is also fine.
BUT... whenever mention is made of cheating, it is ALWAYS married men that are castigated. No mention is ever made of cheating gays of either sex who may have been in a relationship for years. If there is going to be equality, as there should be, let's have it in all areas.
Nobody has questioned me about my wife. Why would they?
A couple of people on here know my situation and surely I would need to be an active swinger before wether my wife knows about me using this site would even be an issue.
As it happens, she does know about the site and that I am here. She also knows that I like meeting people in a social way which is something that she can't do.
Is there anything wrong with that?
Can I not be just a social swinger while flirting outrageously?
There were gay people and TVs in the Village?? OMG, I never noticed.
Quote by MikeNorth
I've just seen this, and I'm puzzled at to what you are getting at Parrot, and why you are calling it a "bitch" when it's supposedly against something that you don't seem to be sure exists.
I'm not quite sure what you mean by that but a "Bitch" about something would be a conversation with a moaning type of tone to it
It's interesting that you don't talk about someone cheating by having sex with someone else other than their partner, but "participating in SH".
OK, I'll hold my hand up and admit that I worded that bit wrong. What I SHOULD have said instead of "participating in SH" is "Playing away matches".
Mike.
Sex God
Quote by Parrot
What is the point of this Parrot?
Has someone questioned if your wife knows you look at swingers sites on your PC in the shed? Or is it after you spent some time in the gay village in Manchester with a group of bi-sexual, transgendered gay and straight people and would like to know more?
;)
The point was maybe a bit obscure. In fact, I'm having a little trouble putting it into words myself.
I think I was trying to say that this SH site is so open and honest about people's sexuality and what turns them on with nobody saying.... "Oh, you freak. How could you even think of doing that?". Just live and let live as long as whatever you do is within the boundries set. Which is fine.
Then, on the other hand, there are campaigns going on all over the place to make it possible for Gay partners to get married, which is also fine.
BUT... whenever mention is made of cheating, it is ALWAYS married men that are castigated. No mention is ever made of cheating gays of either sex who may have been in a relationship for years. If there is going to be equality, as there should be, let's have it in all areas.
Nobody has questioned me about my wife. Why would they?
A couple of people on here know my situation and surely I would need to be an active swinger before wether my wife knows about me using this site would even be an issue.
As it happens, she does know about the site and that I am here. She also knows that I like meeting people in a social way which is something that she can't do.
Is there anything wrong with that?
Can I not be just a social swinger while flirting outrageously?
There were gay people and TVs in the Village?? OMG, I never noticed.
I have a word for it but I am certain I would get told for expressing my opinion so publically.
I have no problem with married folk playing as long as they are open with so I can make MY choice whether I want them near me or not. Socially it matters to me not a flying squark what gender, class, background, race or sexual persuasion they are because it is social and as long as they can hold a decent conversation the rest matters not a jot.
Regards.
Little Gem.
Mike, can I just say 
because I don't thtink I do at enough of that at your posts.
Parrot for your question.
I would say in theory you are right but only because it's never been raised before..............if you know what I mean.....................ummmm I think what I mean is......... in the majority it seems to be married men who put themselves up as targets for this kind of comment, but in the whole the attitude of most people is, a cheater is a cheater, doesn't matter what the relationship.
Jas
XXX
because I don't thtink I do at enough of that at your posts.Parrot for your question.
I would say in theory you are right but only because it's never been raised before..............if you know what I mean.....................ummmm I think what I mean is......... in the majority it seems to be married men who put themselves up as targets for this kind of comment, but in the whole the attitude of most people is, a cheater is a cheater, doesn't matter what the relationship.
Jas
XXX
When i was married, a situation arose where i went to a party & a lesbian was there, a few ppl made comments about her watching me & it was all done in jest.
It did however turn me on
So I ended up chatting to her & ended up going back to hers for sex
I dont class that as cheating, it was an experience ............
It did however turn me on
So I ended up chatting to her & ended up going back to hers for sex
I dont class that as cheating, it was an experience ............
Sex God
Quote by Parrot
I've just seen this, and I'm puzzled at to what you are getting at Parrot, and why you are calling it a "bitch" when it's supposedly against something that you don't seem to be sure exists.
I'm not quite sure what you mean by that but a "Bitch" about something would be a conversation with a moaning type of tone to it
It's interesting that you don't talk about someone cheating by having sex with someone else other than their partner, but "participating in SH".
OK, I'll hold my hand up and admit that I worded that bit wrong. What I SHOULD have said instead of "participating in SH" is "Playing away matches". Mike.
Something is wrong here - most of this "quote" is not from me, only two paragraphs are - the brown bits are NOT. This is important, please get your tags in the right places Parrot!
Mike.
Sex God
Quote by Jas-Tim
Mike, can I just say
Jas
XXX
What a nice thing to say Jas....I'm touched!
Erm.... "thtink"? You don't thtink at all, you're thooooo fragrant
