is it possible to shag friends and stay friends
is it easier shagging friends than strangers
let me elaborate on my opinion
swinging is my lifestyle and through it i have made some very good friends, sometimes i wonder if playing with these friends would damage the friendship we have or would it strengthen it.
personally i think it strengthens it, from my experiences i have played with friends and it has been amazingly relaxed and easy and sometimes if things didnt go quite right it was easy to laugh about it etc, the pressure to perform isnt quite the same as you know they will still be your friend afterwards and there will always be another time
another example is a vanilla one
myself and a female vanilla friend, sat one friday night, wine was flowing (yes you can see where this is going cant you) she knows i am bi, we end up watching porn someone had brought me for my birthday, cutting long story short we end up with toys out, then start using them on each other, then end up going down on each other
this could have been extremely awkward afterwards especially as we worked together, luckily our friendship was such that everything was fine and we sometimes have a giggle about it.
so for me yes shagging swinging friends is brill and much more fulfilling for me, but dont think i would do the vanilla friend shagging again.
Earthy xx
Even if we weren't, we know that we would stay best mates whatever else happens between us. We've got an extra special friendship and we're soulmates, just not 'partners' in the conventional sense.
hang on let me ask all my friends....
