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Club etiquette....what would you do...

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Hi People,
So last night the Mrs and I went to Chams. I won't go into detail about the good parts....it'd take far to long!
Anyway to the point of this post. Theres a bunch of you in a public room, watching some very bad porn and generally letting the odd hand wander. Jut as things start to heat up some more people come in.
Excellent you think....but one of the women is VERY gobby. It was like she was trying to lead an exersize class, then she smacked the Mrs VERY hard on the ass. Thrust her crotch into the face of a guy who would sooner she hadn't, and then started asking why everyone was so quiet and generally being an annoying cow. (including pushing people out of her way to be annoying...thanks love I was busy actually). Needless to say we all buggered off to a private room.
I thought she knew some of the people we'd met, but no none of us knew her.
So next time I think I'll take more of a stand and tell someone like that to "do one". But it's not the kind of place you want to be confrontational....
So what do you do...and how rude can I be making a stand...
Afraid I would have asked her if she could go out of the room and come back in only this time being a lot quieter and more personable...
From things I have heard staff at Chams are very good and will investigate any complaints made by patrons so perhaps if it happens again maybe that could be an option if the person is being really disruptive dunno
I'd feel very silly going to the staff "excuse me theres a naked woman upstairs being a bit loud"
... well yes that tends to happen rolleyes . lol
I guess it's hard to decide to be the "spokesman" for a group of people you don't know well. That and the surprise she'd act like that without knowing anybody there!
Oh hum. I'm concentrating on the good parts... cool
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I'd feel very silly going to the staff "excuse me theres a naked woman upstairs being a bit loud"
... well yes that tends to happen rolleyes . lol

There is a difference between being loud and being loud and obnoxious ;-)
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Oh hum. I'm concentrating on the good parts... cool

Often the best thing to do :thumbup:
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I'd feel very silly going to the staff "excuse me theres a naked woman upstairs being a bit loud"
... well yes that tends to happen rolleyes . lol
I guess it's hard to decide to be the "spokesman" for a group of people you don't know well. That and the surprise she'd act like that without knowing anybody there!
Oh hum. I'm concentrating on the good parts... cool

if it was a bloke would you have spoke to staff?
was she drunk?
start a naked fight, just instigate it... then step aside and observe.
Maybe start a book
lp
I'd have told her to shut her trap and give her flaps a chance.
I'm available for the SH diplomatic corps when required.