Cock pic or face pic?

22 Jul 2004

Hi all, this is probably a question all the newbies ask - in my ad is it better to have a cock pic, or a face pic, or both?
Gordon

22 Jul 2004

Depends on who you want to respond I suppose. I think when you're composing an ad, you really need to have in mind a very clear idea of exactly who it is you're talking to. Get your ideal correspondant firmly fixed in your mind and address your ad to that person. If that person is primarily interested in what your willy looks like, then show them a picture of it. If they're not, then don't.
Speaking for myself only, I have never answered, and never will answer, an ad that doesn't have a face shot, even an obscured one, because at the end of the day I'm in this to make friends, not sneak around, and I'm never going to be attracted to anyone I don't feel I can trust, and in the context of ads and writing to people possibly on an intimate level, I wouldn't trust anyone whose face I couldn't see. That's my perspective and I'm a straight bloke. Maybe the people your ad is aimed at have a different outlook, so it's a purely subjective view I'm giving you.
Sorry if that's a bit waffly, hope it makes sense.
Ice

22 Jul 2004

From a woman's perspective, I would definitely prefer blurred face shots to dick pics.
After all, we all know what a dick looks like rolleyes

Yeah sure some are bigger than others but they all look much the same.
Besides, some of us prefer to find out on our own :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne

22 Jul 2004

Hi Tracy - Jane,
Yes everyone knows what a cock looks like apart from the size, but also they all know what a fanny looks like, being a red blooded englishman, I prefer to look at the face AND the fanny because that is half the fun RIGHT!!! rolleyes

22 Jul 2004

A face pic deff lol

Willies may come in different shapes and sizes but they are generally the same biggrin

We can find out what "that" looks like later. It also leaves something to the imagination. JoJo xx

22 Jul 2004

I suppose if you are a dickhead you could do the two in one shot.

22 Jul 2004

Sexy knees it seems your first post got pulled at hi speed indicating that you aint read the rules for these forums.
The mods only pull like that if you are creating real offence,
so best advice is to take your time see what is what, I don't know if you have lurked or just jumped straight in
but get to know the forums, dependant on what you are looking for , and have alook at the ad posting guides , but bear in mind Roger's is somewhat tongue in cheek rolleyes

:roll:
As Ice says decide what or who you are looking for, but themn maybe you are just here to be sociable
all the same
s ettle down be prepared not to rush... if you want a quick shag then this is not the place, no point in wasting your time, but if you want to meet virtually and then hopefully in reality some fascinating people than stay awhile
just a note, so long as you are not offensive and saying things like fancy a shag, them peeps in here do not mind polite PMs, in fact most welcome them
so feel free to join in the threads, try not to hijack them enjoy the silly ones
and become a part of a community
Not sure if you said where you were but if you do stick around and post on a regular basis then seek an invite to the NW and or London Munches ( social meets for many members ) see both as stickies in lets meet forum. but be warned invites only go to those whao have proved their mettle as it were, Invites do not go to jonny cum lately type single guys
( hope that covers all bases guys)
Regards
Gilbert
Gilbert

23 Jul 2004

Gordon~
You didn't offer the option of a full-body pic (clothed or nekkid, doesn't matter). I think that would provide a good overall first impression and, if someone wanted to write to you for more detailed pics, they could.
That said, the cock pics are quite enjoyable as well! Despite some of the other sentiments expressed in this thread so far, they come in all shapes and sizes and have an aesthetic all their own. Kind of like breasts, really - my own personal obsession.
But, while Vix & I do enjoy "surfing for cock" every now and then, the most important thing is who it's attached to. By including a full-body pic and a thoughtfully-composed ad, you get to express both the inner and outer qualities of the genuine person behind the mere "sexual hardware"!
Just one semi-bi-male's opinion...
~Reese! surprised

23 Jul 2004

Thanks for the great replies - male and female perspective.
I think a face pic definitely indicates a degree of guineness (made up word), so thanks again for the advice.
Gilbert, thanks, my first post was deleted as it was a post saying hello which I had already posted in Lets Meet.
I have experience of meet ups, so I am the better of the scenarios you mention!
Gordon

23 Jul 2004

As stated earlier I think it really does depend on the intended recipient. I think some ladies hate the close up cock pics. I'd rather have a full length undraped shot personally.

23 Jul 2004

Isnt it the fun & intrepidation as well as the imagination of looking at a face pic & wondering just wondering what they would be like in bed, giving oral etc.
This seems to dwindle a lot when a cock pic is posted as all the fun is taken out of it!!
My vote is for FACE everytime.
The WHOOSH Man

23 Jul 2004

I personally ask for an unclothed body pic, so I guess neither of your original choices would do rolleyes

. I don't ask for face pics, ever.... I would send face pics of myself but only if I was SURE it was a genuine person. If a guy doesn't have and unclothed body pic, I don't mind him sending a clothed one really I suppose.
It all depends on the meet up arrangements. If I was meeting just one guy for a threesome a pic would be more important, but when I arrange a dogging meet I don't even ask for pics :roll:
I would say that to be on the safe side, why don't you send a body pic with your initial reply and say in your message that you also have face and cock pics available if they want them - that way you cover all angles, but don't offend anyone by sending pics they don't want?