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Cock size issue on meets and clubs.

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My partner has been shall we say disappointed on some meets by the smallness and limpness of the other halfs penis.
In the club environment it is not such a problem as there are others to hand to move on to as it were.
When it is a meet, as in driving to meet a couple it is rather a downer for her to find the guy is tiny and inactive.
Are there measures that you girls take to address this issue prior to the meet happening?
Do you point blank ask if he has an average or larger penis that erects and he can use?
No offense guys but this is an issue for her and I am curious as to how the other girls deal with it.
I wouldn't have a problem with asking beforehand. I mean, it's one of the main things that could spoil an otherwise enjoyable evening so why not? dunno
Well before a meet with a guy we always ask to see a genital shot first, I know its not the normal done thing on here but it works for us.
Tony wink
i think as you get more experienced these questions get easier to ask, b4 driving miles to meet someone you need to know all the ins and outs (or) limits etc. and if c**k size is an issue then the questions gotta be asked,
b4 people start moaning its not the size that matters routine, if i'm gonna share my wife with a single he's gotta measure up on the other hand if he's a bi tv / cd size don't matter in his case as we both can share him.
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b4 people start moaning its not the size that matters routine, if i'm gonna share my wife with a single he's gotta measure up

For us thats thats correct.
Size don't matter if the guy can use it ok ( although girth is good ), Just that Tony likes watching and if they guy is small down below then it does nothing for him biggrin
Who am i to complain lol :lol:
Shaz x
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My partner has been shall we say disappointed on some meets by the smallness and limpness of the other halfs penis.

innocent
Interesting. I wonder how many SH regulars have been tempted to PM PJ3581 to see if they would name & shame the limpsters so they know who to avoid? And even more interestingly, how many don't need to because they already know...
De_sade
Not me, maybe they just couldn't get it up for his wife?
I don't think the thread was a good idea to be honest, it wouldn't take much working out if you knew PJ/wife and had been near them. confused
Might not be doing themselves any favours either (PJ/wife) - who'd want to play with them knowing that they might be mentioned in a thread like this?
when we meet other couples ....my wife always ask if they have a smaller dick....she likes a change every now and again!
It seems there are two different complaints, limp and small. Small is just natures luck but limp is unforgivable. Shouldn't be answering the ads if one can't deliver the goodies. I can see how that would really spoil a party.
It seems there are two different complaints, limp and small. Small is just natures luck but limp is unforgivable. Shouldn't be answering the ads if one can't deliver the goodies. I can see how that would really spoil a party.
Surely any berated willy is going to go limp? lol
Maybe you should get down on your knees and talk to the little fella!!
Well in for a penny.......
I think this says more about the poster than anything, maybe you just plain ole scare the shit out of guys when you meet up.. nothing sexier than someone looking pissed off at the size of your dick so as for being errect or not lol.... If the size is of such importance its down to you to be sure its what you want before you go. Try asking straight up after all who cares if the person is hurt or not... you only want a cock after all.
Mike
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when we meet other couples ....my wife always ask if they have a smaller dick....she likes a change every now and again!

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
I rather thought someone would say it was our fault LOL
No one on this site has met us is the first point, that I k now of that is.
The disappointments occured at clubs not arranged meets, and with the recent history of let downs we wondered if it was fair to ask.
Some of course enjoy the smaller organs and some do not. We feel now that before we go to share ourselves with others that we find out the score first.
It's a delicate subject for most guys we are well aware, and we are not pushy nor did we in any shape or form comment to the people concerned.
We do have manners, although of course you are free to disagree.
It will be interesting now to see if we do get any meets from this site, given this post but it is a fair question to ask we still think.
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My partner has been shall we say disappointed on some meets by the smallness and limpness of the other halfs penis

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The disappointments occured at clubs not arranged meets, and with the recent history of let downs we wondered if it was fair to ask.

dunno
Tony wink
Quote by PJ3581
My partner has been shall we say disappointed on some meets by the smallness and limpness of the other halfs penis.
In the club environment it is not such a problem as there are others to hand to move on to as it were.
When it is a meet, as in driving to meet a couple it is rather a downer for her to find the guy is tiny and inactive.
Are there measures that you girls take to address this issue prior to the meet happening?
Do you point blank ask if he has an average or larger penis that erects and he can use?
No offense guys but this is an issue for her and I am curious as to how the other girls deal with it.

Strange reply!!
The disappointments occured at clubs not arranged meets, and with the recent history of let downs we wondered if it was fair to ask.
No offence meant but your not making any sense now!
If its just a cock you want ask for one... there is something for everyone on here, it almost sounds like your making out to be one thing so as to get a couple or a guy interested then when your getting something else your ending up dissapointed. My comment was genuine and not an attack, ask for what you want! You might not get it but then again you won't be dissapointed when you don't either.
Mike
if u have a decent profile.................n pics.......................why should it be an issue???????????????????
is it not a form of inverted snobbery to say only we or vwe need apply, just because you may have a large knob does`nt necessarily mean you know what to do with it or that you have any staying power ?
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is it not a form of inverted snobbery to say only we or vwe need apply, just because you may have a large knob does`nt necessarily mean you know what to do with it or that you have any staying power ?

Defending ourselves and not PJ3581
I would say no it isn't, on a big site like this there is many people with lots of different needs, if your not what one person wants you find another just like we do.
When we meet guys Tony is normally a voyer only and if they guy ain't fairly well hung then he don't get much out of watching simple as that!
Shaz x
Just a note to say i've seen ads and profiles asking for smaller endowment so having a big un doesnt rule out the little uns lol
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is it not a form of inverted snobbery to say only we or vwe need apply, just because you may have a large knob does`nt necessarily mean you know what to do with it or that you have any staying power ?

Defending ourselves and not PJ3581
I would say no it isn't, on a big site like this there is many people with lots of different needs, if your not what one person wants you find another just like we do.
When we meet guys Tony is normally a voyer only and if they guy ain't fairly well hung then he don't get much out of watching simple as that!
Shaz x
and yourself shaz ...do you get anything out of it?
Quote by robhambledon
is it not a form of inverted snobbery to say only we or vwe need apply, just because you may have a large knob does`nt necessarily mean you know what to do with it or that you have any staying power ?

Defending ourselves and not PJ3581
I would say no it isn't, on a big site like this there is many people with lots of different needs, if your not what one person wants you find another just like we do.
When we meet guys Tony is normally a voyer only and if they guy ain't fairly well hung then he don't get much out of watching simple as that!
Shaz x
and yourself shaz ...do you get anything out of it?
To me if I know Tony is enjoying watching then yes i do..
If your asking if a bigger willy size does more for me then i would have to say in length no ( as long as its not tiny ) but a good girth to it feels better yes
Shaz x
here's our two pennies worth,
surely theres more to a meet than how big you penis may or may not be anyway?
i (mr) would'nt personally go near anyone who viewed me as an appendage and nothing more, whatever happened to foreplay? biggrin
now its my understanding that a majority of women need more than penetration to orgasm anyway.....if thats the case ahhh i dunno just seems a bit of a pointless thing to be worrying about when there so much fun you can have without a penis anywhere in sight?
right thats my input.........useless it might be.....but its from the heart lol
lol :lol: :lol:
here's our two pennies worth,
surely theres more to a meet than how big you penis may or may not be anyway?
i (mr) would'nt personally go near anyone who viewed me as an appendage and nothing more, whatever happened to foreplay? biggrin
now its my understanding that a majority of women need more than penetration to orgasm anyway.....if thats the case ahhh i dunno just seems a bit of a pointless thing to be worrying about when there so much fun you can have without a penis anywhere in sight?
right thats my input.........useless it might be.....but its from the heart lol
lol :lol: :lol:
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here's our two pennies worth,
surely theres more to a meet than how big you penis may or may not be anyway?
i (mr) would'nt personally go near anyone who viewed me as an appendage and nothing more, whatever happened to foreplay? biggrin
now its my understanding that a majority of women need more than penetration to orgasm anyway.....if thats the case ahhh i dunno just seems a bit of a pointless thing to be worrying about when there so much fun you can have without a penis anywhere in sight?
right thats my input.........useless it might be.....but its from the heart lol
lol :lol: :lol:

Who said anything about not having no foreplay, just because we like to find guys with a reasonable sized one, don't meen we leave out other activities :D
Shaz x
shaz tony,
i do apologise if you viewed that as a disapproval of anything you said, it was not meant as an attack on the way anyone does things, everyone has there own preferences and as the french say vive la diffrence. just adding our opinion to the debate biggrin
cheers.
staffys xxxx
shaz , thanks you have re affirmed my faith in women kind and its not all about length,
staffs couple hit the nail what ever happened to foreplay the anticipation is often the greater thrill