I posted an earlier topic about getting my girlfriend to go down on me.
This is an update.
We had a few drinks last night which ended up with a nice session.
She let me go down on her...she loved it. Which was a suprise. Was great. Maybe she just needed to get to know me better.
Then we started talking about what we like. I said:
I like hot women, kissing, touching.
I like going down on a nice pussy.
oh, yeah.
I like having my cock sucked.
Ha ha, she said, I don't like that. I only do it on special occassions. Birthday and Christmas. Sorry!
Oh dear. I explained that it was important to me, but in a friendly, joky way. I thin she may be joking ... but I dunno...anyway I don't want to push it or pressure her but I do want a fulfilling sex life.
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Leave her.
Women who "don't do that" are a complete waste of time. (I would guess the same applies to men who expect but don't give too)
Trust me, I know, I've been with 2. (one for 5 and a half years)
Both, retrospectively had problems with intimacy.
Go and find someone who will. I did, and I'm 500x happier.
Women who "don't do that" are a complete waste of time. (I would guess the same applies to men who expect but don't give too)
Trust me, I know, I've been with 2. (one for 5 and a half years)
Both, retrospectively had problems with intimacy.
Go and find someone who will. I did, and I'm 500x happier.
:rotflmao:Yeah I was thinking that too but then everybody jumped on me in the other thread and starting saying stuff like "If you think a BJ is central to a relationship then you are sick", and "I didn't start sucking till I was in my 30s".
Thing is she is really hot and I like her but yeah I need to be in a relationship that fulfills my needs.
Thing is she is really hot and I like her but yeah I need to be in a relationship that fulfills my needs.
Orgasminator
Quote by ChairmanMiaow
Leave her.
Women who "don't do that" are a complete waste of time. (I would guess the same applies to men who expect but don't give too)
Trust me, I know, I've been with 2. (one for 5 and a half years)
Both, retrospectively had problems with intimacy.
Go and find someone who will. I did, and I'm 500x happier.
Quote by ChairmanMiaow
I can't reiterate how much you have to ump a woman who does this.
If you don't, I would lay a very large amount of money that she turns out to be a complete nightmare as the relationship develops.
I'm sorry... but what a stupid attitude!!
:x :x :x God do we have the boys bridage in or summit?? I know its silly season and all.............
Quote by hateitorloveit
Yeah I was thinking that too but then everybody jumped on me in the other thread and starting saying stuff like "If you think a BJ is central to a relationship then you are sick", and "I didn't start sucking till I was in my 30s".
Thing is she is really hot and I like her but yeah I need to be in a relationship that fulfills my needs.
Again sorry, but I think this is part of the issue........ having a relationship is a partnership, and like life in general it is full of comprimises. Ruling out or giving up on a relationship because she wont give you a blowjob is pathetic!!!! and i cant help thinking that if that is enough reason for you to 'dump' her, then she's probably better off without you. :doh:
I think i'm safe in saying that for most of us on here sex is a big part of our relationship, but so is understanding and accepting that were all different with different likes and dislikes, god it would be boring if we all liked the same things!
If she didnt do that full stop , I could understand, she would be saying " I cant do that at any cost its just to repugnant". Then I would say that if ucared about her and respected her enough you would understand how she feels and not push the issue
However her remark about only doing it on Birthdays and Christmas put a totally different light on the issue and make me susspect that she is going to use cock sucking as a control/reward technique!!! If your a good boy you will occassionally get your self sucked , if not you have no chance!!! Must admit if i was you i would be worried!!
However her remark about only doing it on Birthdays and Christmas put a totally different light on the issue and make me susspect that she is going to use cock sucking as a control/reward technique!!! If your a good boy you will occassionally get your self sucked , if not you have no chance!!! Must admit if i was you i would be worried!!
I was hoping that some of the posts on this thread were tongue-in-cheek, but have a horrible feeling they're actually serious!
Hateitorloveit - it sounds to me like you're not actually looking for a relationship. End it now and have lots of sex and wait till you're really ready for a serious, respectful relationship x
Hateitorloveit - it sounds to me like you're not actually looking for a relationship. End it now and have lots of sex and wait till you're really ready for a serious, respectful relationship x
Sex God
Quote by hateitorloveit
Yeah I was thinking that too but then everybody jumped on me in the other thread and starting saying stuff like "If you think a BJ is central to a relationship then you are sick", and "I didn't start sucking till I was in my 30s".
Thing is she is really hot and I like her but yeah I need to be in a relationship that fulfills my needs.
Happy medium, Dump her for about 5 years
Quote by meat2pleaseu
Yeah I was thinking that too but then everybody jumped on me in the other thread and starting saying stuff like "If you think a BJ is central to a relationship then you are sick", and "I didn't start sucking till I was in my 30s".
Thing is she is really hot and I like her but yeah I need to be in a relationship that fulfills my needs.
Happy medium, Dump her for about 5 years
Then prepare a really extensive interview before agreeing to having her back
Sex God
Quote by angelnn66
Yeah I was thinking that too but then everybody jumped on me in the other thread and starting saying stuff like "If you think a BJ is central to a relationship then you are sick", and "I didn't start sucking till I was in my 30s".
Thing is she is really hot and I like her but yeah I need to be in a relationship that fulfills my needs.
Happy medium, Dump her for about 5 years
Then prepare a really extensive interview before agreeing to having her back
what extensive interview?
'want to get back together love, or do you still not suck cocks?' :bolt: :bolt:
Sex God
Quote by hateitorloveit
I want some advice though! What should I do! Is she being reasonable? This is driving me crazy. I am trying to be nice but I want what I want.....
And that's all that counts, right?
You are sounding like a desperado who doesn't have a girlfriend and is just here hoping someone will offer to suck his cock out of sympathy. Either that or you're a nasty piece of work if you would actually get pleasure from having your girlfriend do something she doesn't like. If she says she doesn't like it, why the hell are you trying to persuade her? What would you say if she tried to make you do something you don't like?
Was just thinking that as this is so important, maybe she would have to prove she's willing to do it - maybe a trial period? put her on probation for a month or so and see how she does? obviously this guy has high standards and she's going to have to really buck her ideas up if she wants him 
Master of Sex
Quote by Morbius
Leave her.
Women who "don't do that" are a complete waste of time. (I would guess the same applies to men who expect but don't give too)
Trust me, I know, I've been with 2. (one for 5 and a half years)
Both, retrospectively had problems with intimacy.
Go and find someone who will. I did, and I'm 500x happier.
Quote by ChairmanMiaow
I can't reiterate how much you have to ump a woman who does this.
If you don't, I would lay a very large amount of money that she turns out to be a complete nightmare as the relationship develops.
I'm sorry... but what a stupid attitude!!
:x :x :x God do we have the boys bridage in or summit?? I know its silly season and all.............
Quote by hateitorloveit
Yeah I was thinking that too but then everybody jumped on me in the other thread and starting saying stuff like "If you think a BJ is central to a relationship then you are sick", and "I didn't start sucking till I was in my 30s".
Thing is she is really hot and I like her but yeah I need to be in a relationship that fulfills my needs.
Again sorry, but I think this is part of the issue........ having a relationship is a partnership, and like life in general it is full of comprimises. Ruling out or giving up on a relationship because she wont give you a blowjob is pathetic!!!! and i cant help thinking that if that is enough reason for you to 'dump' her, then she's probably better off without you. :doh:
I think i'm safe in saying that for most of us on here sex is a big part of our relationship, but so is understanding and accepting that were all different with different likes and dislikes, god it would be boring if we all liked the same things!
i agree with most of the above....
thats total blackmail... im going to leave you if you dont suck my cock... BOLLOX!
you have serisously agrevated me, i personally think you are childish, selfish wankers that really dont deserve anyone.... poor woman for even thinking about being near you!
get a grip, no means no... end of conversation!
Quote by Ice Pie
I want some advice though! What should I do! Is she being reasonable? This is driving me crazy. I am trying to be nice but I want what I want.....
And that's all that counts, right?
You are sounding like a desperado who doesn't have a girlfriend and is just here hoping someone will offer to suck his cock out of sympathy. Either that or you're a nasty piece of work if you would actually get pleasure from having your girlfriend do something she doesn't like. If she says she doesn't like it, why the hell are you trying to persuade her? What would you say if she tried to make you do something you don't like?
Spot on Ice.......if she said she would suck your cock if you sucked another guy's cock would you do it?
Quote by Ice Pie
I want some advice though! What should I do! Is she being reasonable? This is driving me crazy. I am trying to be nice but I want what I want.....
And that's all that counts, right?
You are sounding like a desperado who doesn't have a girlfriend and is just here hoping someone will offer to suck his cock out of sympathy. Either that or you're a nasty piece of work if you would actually get pleasure from having your girlfriend do something she doesn't like. If she says she doesn't like it, why the hell are you trying to persuade her? What would you say if she tried to make you do something you don't like?
Well done Icepie for saying what we're all thinking :cheers:
If you're with the right person, you don't expect them to do anything they're not comfortabel with, but then again if you're with the right person, you want to do as much as you can to turn them on and make them happy -
maybe she's not that keen on him? (just a thought)
Master of Sex
it might be that his cock smells funny and shes doing the milkman, postman and bus drivers just for the hell of it....
Master of Sex
Quote by Ice Pie
I want some advice though! What should I do! Is she being reasonable? This is driving me crazy. I am trying to be nice but I want what I want.....
And that's all that counts, right?
You are sounding like a desperado who doesn't have a girlfriend and is just here hoping someone will offer to suck his cock out of sympathy. Either that or you're a nasty piece of work if you would actually get pleasure from having your girlfriend do something she doesn't like. If she says she doesn't like it, why the hell are you trying to persuade her? What would you say if she tried to make you do something you don't like?
Well said Ice....
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think about someone else for a change!
Sex God
Why would anyone want to suck a cock? The whole idea is totally silly. :uhoh:
Sex God
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edit: damn you colts and you quick posting fingers, you've messed up my emoticons pointy up laff at blues comment thing, grrrr :boxing:
edit: damn you colts and you quick posting fingers, you've messed up my emoticons pointy up laff at blues comment thing, grrrr :boxing:
