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so me and my girlfriend are thinkng that maybe one day soon we'd like to have people watching us whilst we have sex. (and secretly i'd like a girl to join in helping me please her wink )i had a dream where this was happening lately, something i've not really thought about till then, and i told her about it and she seemed interested.
so was wondering
what happens?
any info would be welcome,
personal experiences etc
i've read about clubs you can go to on this site.
theres a few in leeds and manchester
what happens in these clubs?
i remembe seeing something on tv where couples were doing stuff in a room where there was a screen for people to watch them thru.
or evenpeople in the room.
anyway its 3am and my heads just turned to mush.
so g'night all
and ta!!!
its fun to do, knowing that people are watching can interfere with your performance if you are not %100 prepared for it, but if you are ready its good. smile
hmm yeh
but where can you go to do this sort of thing, whats the places like,
what are the people like???
whats the eitquette?
Hi Mopiko,
I don't know whether you have read this, it's a good place to start.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/advice/swingers-clubs.html
You don't say where you are located, but yes, there are a number of clubs in Yorkshire and Lancashire areas where you can certainly indulge your desire to be watched while having sex together, in a relaxed, non-pressurised atmosphere. Some clubs have playrooms with windows for others to watch through, and there are also rooms where groups of watchers and players gather together. Once you get to know other people at the club you choose, there are further possibilities, and once again, everything should be relaxed and pressure-free.
Good luck,
Mike.
Hiya Mopiko,
you are really going to have to explain that user name! confused
Most of the clubs have websites, and reviews on the site - you can get a good idea of what happens from them, - as for swinging outside of clubs, that depends on the type of thing you and your G/F are fantasising about.
You have said about yours, what about hers? Perhaps she would like a MMF experience?
lhk
Kat
Aren't you the same mopiko that wrote in this thread that your gf probably won't be into this...ever.....?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopicpage/35286/20.html
confused
Minx
Quote by BiWelshMinx
Aren't you the same mopiko that wrote in this thread that your gf probably won't be into this...ever.....?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopicpage/35286/20.html
confused
Minx

damn the history!!! lol
Quote by mopiko
(and secretly i'd like a girl to join in helping me please her wink )i

Mopiko~
Well, the first thing you should probably understand is that all swingers - both male & female - are 100% bisexual, and getting the ladies in the mood usually requires that the lads go down 69 on each other to get things started... :P
~Reese! surprised
P.S. ...work for us, it does. ;)
P.P.S. Seriously, best of luck in finding what you're looking for! :thumbup:
hehe
well
first off
mopiko
i was stuck for a user name then i looked at my desk and saw this japanese ointment for colds and flu., called mopiko, so it had a nice ring to it.
and yes i am the same mopiko who wrote in that thread
but i did say
"i tho she probably wont be into this.... ever....well maybe some sides of it but we'll see.."
she has expressed a very vague interest when I told her about one of my dreams.
so in a sense she's sort of seeing it.
as for her fantasies. she says she doesn't have any,... which doesn't seem very likely so we'll have to see.
as for the 69 thing...
probably not...
but who knows.
just have to go to a club and see what happens.
i've seen one near me called the Isis in Leeds
anyone been to that?
whats it like.? i've seen the reviews and website for it, but want to talk to someone first hand abotu it instead of reading years old reviews.
ta very much all
Quote by mopiko
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she has expressed a very vague interest when I told her about one of my dreams.
so in a sense she's sort of seeing it.
as for her fantasies. she says she doesn't have any,... which doesn't seem very likely so we'll have to see.

Ahh now I can see that you have discussed it in real depth....
rolleyes
Minx
like i said, i'm new.... :cry:
It's ok hun I am not being mean..it's just that you caused me a bit of confusion (easily done these days) and now it's cleared up smile
Welcome and I hope you BOTH find what you're looking for :)
Minx
Quote by Reese
Well, the first thing you should probably understand is that all swingers - both male & female - are 100% bisexual, and getting the ladies in the mood usually requires that the lads go down 69 on each other to get things started... :P
Reese - you sound more like Blue every day rotflmao
Quote by mopiko
as for her fantasies. she says she doesn't have any,... which doesn't seem very likely so we'll have to see.
I can relate to that - Kit will quite happily tell you that certainly before swinging heaven, she did not have many fantasies at all. So do not be surprised if this really is the case. What it will probably mean is that you will need to let her take the lead and let her decide what new experiences to umm, experience.
lhk
so about the bisexual thing.
really??
are the majority of swingers male and female bi?
Quote by mopiko
so about the bisexual thing.
really??
are the majority of swingers male and female bi?

I think you will find he was joking.
The reality is nearer 75%
Quote by Reese
(and secretly i'd like a girl to join in helping me please her wink )i

Mopiko~
Well, the first thing you should probably understand is that all swingers - both male & female - are 100% bisexual, and getting the ladies in the mood usually requires that the lads go down 69 on each other to get things started... :P
~Reese! surprised
P.S. ...work for us, it does. ;)
P.P.S. Seriously, best of luck in finding what you're looking for! :thumbup:
ROFLMAO - controversial, as always Reese - you'll be in for some for that :wink:
I love to play with a lady while her partner is watching. So naughty :shock: :P . Also, to work with him to make her the centre of attention. Yummy. biggrin