Condom etiquette

2 Oct 2004

So, when you meet up for a sexy encounter, whose responsibility is it to provide condoms? I have begun to notice that when we invite single guys to join us, they invariably arrive sans condoms! Surely, before you leave the house guys, you should be thinking about sticking a couple in your pocket. Do you really expect the females to supply them all the time? Another thing. Couples, if you have meetings with single guys, who usually puts the condom on? The female or the guy? Just wondering.

2 Oct 2004

would have thought both would have them in this day and age...to protect both parties.
The single guy should remember his old scouting days and " Be Prepared" !!!!
as for the couple or the female.....would have thought a couple just incase is always useful.....just incase !!
As for putting it on......it is great to have a female put it on for you.....once met a girl in Holland on holiday and she put the condom on with her mouth.....extremely sexy !!!

2 Oct 2004

We always have a little bag with us that contains condoms, lube, wipes and fags. Makes life easier than having to rely on others.
The guys always put their own on as everyone is too keen and excited to wait for anyone to do it for them lol

2 Oct 2004

i wouldn't dream of turning up without them? and was very surprised when a certain lovely young lady was surprised herself to find i'd actually bothered to buy some? seems pretty poor manners and pretty poor form not to? as for who puts them on, well a little assistance so as not to break the mood fumbling is always good! ;)
neil x x x ;)

2 Oct 2004

Quote by devil_in_part
We always have a little bag with us that contains condoms, lube, wipes and fags. Makes life easier than having to rely on others.
The guys always put their own on as everyone is too keen and excited to wait for anyone to do it for them

Us too but not the fags :lol:
After all it makes sense, but we have come across that rare species of guy who does carry his own condoms.
Having said that, I only use my own condoms anyway as I need latex free ones and since they cost more than run of the mill durex etc, I have yet to find a guy who carries those with him confused

They always put their own condoms on - I'd be worried about putting my nails through it :lol:
Tracy-Jayne

2 Oct 2004

Terry taught me to put a condom on with my mouth. :twisted: It always gives the chaps a surprise when I unwrap a strawberry flavoured one and place it between my lips and bend down...
The chocolate one gave Terry a smile, though... "I've never had a black one" he said, "I have!" I replied :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
I think it's 50/50... although I'd be cross if the guys didn't automatically reach into their pockets.

2 Oct 2004

Well I thought it was de riguer that guys brought thier own condoms with them, it shows thoughtfulness and manners. Also having them on you is a good idea becuase you never know when a spontaneous encounter may happen (well I live in hope). Like Dean says. "Always prepared".
LC cool

2 Oct 2004

Quote by RedHot
Having said that, I only use my own condoms anyway as I need latex free ones and since they cost more than run of the mill durex etc, I have yet to find a guy who carries those with him

I have a packet of those just in case.............to be fair though I probably wouldn't have if I hadn't previously met a couple of people that couldn't use the latex ones.
I've been to Partners a couple of times recently and what I do find surprising is that there isn't a bucket of condoms in every play area. Common sense surely?? It's a pain in the arse having to carry them around with you all night.
Steve

2 Oct 2004

I always carry my own. But I'd love to find a lady who could put one on with her mouth... blast

2 Oct 2004

When it comes to putting them on, surely it is only politeness for the lady to help. After all a femine hand in the right place helps to keep things up and interesting.
And if she can put it on with her mouth, well then i think i've met someone with whom i could swing forever!

2 Oct 2004

Quote by steveg_nw
I've been to Partners a couple of times recently and what I do find surprising is that there isn't a bucket of condoms in every play area. Common sense surely?? It's a pain in the arse having to carry them around with you all night.

lolololol
yeah too true. i expected as much, and was surprised too. i mean where do you keep 'em when you've only got a bloody towel on. or not as the case may be! :lol2:
neil x x x ;)

2 Oct 2004

Oops....sorry, best I delete all that.

2 Oct 2004

Quote by neilinleeds
I've been to Partners a couple of times recently and what I do find surprising is that there isn't a bucket of condoms in every play area. Common sense surely?? It's a pain in the arse having to carry them around with you all night.

lolololol
yeah too true. i expected as much, and was surprised too. i mean where do you keep 'em when you've only got a bloody towel on. or not as the case may be! :lol2:
neil x x x ;)
The only clubs we've seen free condoms left out are Liaisons...in the rooms and Chameleons (once)...on the bar, but if you ask at the desk at Partners they will give you a condom.
Guys usually carry them in a cigarette packet, tucked in the waistband of the towel or under the rubber wink

band of the locker key.

2 Oct 2004

I think it's only polite for a guy to bring them with him - it is after all a shared experience, and in more ways than one. Having said that, we've got our own - J doesn't like ones with the little teat thing at the end, so we've got some without it. And yes, she does put them on the guy using her mouth.
P.

2 Oct 2004

Quote by northwest-cpl
I've been to Partners a couple of times recently and what I do find surprising is that there isn't a bucket of condoms in every play area. Common sense surely?? It's a pain in the arse having to carry them around with you all night.

lolololol
yeah too true. i expected as much, and was surprised too. i mean where do you keep 'em when you've only got a bloody towel on. or not as the case may be! :lol2:
neil x x x ;)
The only clubs we've seen free condoms left out are Liaisons...in the rooms and Chameleons (once)...on the bar, but if you ask at the desk at Partners they will give you a condom.
Guys usually carry them in a cigarette packet, tucked in the waistband of the towel or under the rubber wink

band of the locker key.
Liberation has them by the bucket load, along with lots of fresh dry laundered towels and bathrobes. Now that's the way to run a club! And the bathrobes have pockets too...very useful!
LC

2 Oct 2004

Quote by steveg_nw
Having said that, I only use my own condoms anyway as I need latex free ones and since they cost more than run of the mill durex etc, I have yet to find a guy who carries those with him

I have a packet of those just in case.............
Steve
WOOHOO!!! I'm on my way . . . :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne

2 Oct 2004

I'm quite mean with money rolleyes

, I won't provide condoms for guys I don't know - if at a club etc and some guy doesn't have one, it's his tough luck, I'll just move on to someone who does cool

. However, in a situation where I'm using them myself I will of course provide them, and if with friends I'm quite happy to shell out. Guess it's everyone's responsibility..... but back to the original point, I find it hard to understand why doggers don't carry them - Redbird's right, often they don't.... Oh well, their loss :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:

2 Oct 2004

:laughabove:
Love the avatar Blue!

2 Oct 2004

Quote by northwest-cpl
I've been to Partners a couple of times recently and what I do find surprising is that there isn't a bucket of condoms in every play area. Common sense surely?? It's a pain in the arse having to carry them around with you all night.

lolololol
yeah too true. i expected as much, and was surprised too. i mean where do you keep 'em when you've only got a bloody towel on. or not as the case may be! :lol2:
neil x x x ;)
The only clubs we've seen free condoms left out are Liaisons...in the rooms and Chameleons (once)...on the bar, but if you ask at the desk at Partners they will give you a condom.
Guys usually carry them in a cigarette packet, tucked in the waistband of the towel or under the rubber wink

band of the locker key.
a useful tip. ta! :lol2: yes it was the towel waistband, but the laggy band sounds handy for the towelless moments! duly noted for future reference! rotflmao

neil x x x ;)

2 Oct 2004

Quote by neilinleeds
a useful tip. ta! :lol2: yes it was the towel waistband, but the laggy band sounds handy for the towelless moments! duly noted for future reference!
neil x x x ;)

Glad to have been of help biggrin

. We just need to find a way to remote control the condom bag so it will find us after we have moved about a bit during the melee in crowded rooms. Searching under a pile of bodies does have certain rewards but can be a bit of a mood-breaker. :cry:
We did try tying a long piece of string to the bag but garrotted two couples before we could get a grip of it. Any suggestions accepted. wink

2 Oct 2004

I usually put the whole box of 12 on at the start of the night and just peel one off after each partner :shock:

2 Oct 2004

:laughabove:
Me too lol

2 Oct 2004

Well I've been prepared for a while, although not really looking in a serious way until now, I think it's time I checked the sell-by date on the pack!! :small-print: lol

2 Oct 2004

i always have a supply of condoms in my bag , though if playing with a guy.. i have to admit to expecting him to have some too!!!!
i think its a bit bad of a single guy to go to a club and expect someone to not only allow him to shag his wife.. but also supply the condoms for it too! lol
btw.. i can put them on with my mouth... i love the vanill aones.. i bought 60 of them on ebay for 12 quid last month!

2 Oct 2004

I always take condoms and lube when I go out looking for sex, unless it's to a sauna where they're usually provided. There's nothing worse than seeing someone you want to fuck and finding that neither of you has a condom.

2 Oct 2004

ooo shut up you lot!......have bloody loads here for Mr Debs............just wished he would find a...women to use them on! :bounce: :bounce:

So much bloody working that does it!.............Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr well i am coming with a bloody sack load for the Notts Munch!................. just in case!
so all you women get on top of Mr debs then old Debbiwebs can have her fun wip heeeeeeeeee.....look i am getting so bllody excited here i can not get me bloody posts right :doh:

2 Oct 2004

To be honest, nowadays there is no excuse for anyone not having condoms. Doesn't matter if you're a guy or a girl, you should have condoms on you.

3 Oct 2004

m always carries condoms in her handbag.
when we are at a club, she tucks a couple into the top of her holdups!

3 Oct 2004

I agree with Blue, sometimes I can be really mean and say, well, no condom no shag lol