We are told to use condoms, practice safe sex and keep healthy, one can buy, black condoms, white condoms, fragrant condoms, fruit flavoured, thick ones, thin ones, but never have intercourse without one. However, it does not guarantee that one will not catch something, ie, through a split condom, or overspill, so how can one enjoy sex due to the inherent danger of disease.
Does everyone use these abominations? in the old days, my ex-wife and I tried condoms, but we never able to get on with them, as they were painfull to her due to wrinkling and I could not purchase one that was big enough to fit me, plus they always came off during intercourse. Personally, I have always preferred sex without the discomfort of a rubber and my ex- liked to ride it bareback.
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I suppose it is like anything else which is designed to keep a recreational activity safe, crash helmets, seat belts, swimming goggles, life jackets, parachutes. They are never going to enhance the experience, because that is not what they are designed to do. The best you can hope for is that they will not ruin it.lhk
Kat
It's always nicer to go bareback, I think, at the end of the day it's up to your own attitude to risk, and the attitude of the person that you are playing with, of course.
There have been anecdotes here abouts of clubs where there seemed to be no condoms in use. The first of Blues parties I as surprised that every person that a played with asked if I had a condom on or asked a third party to verify that I had one on, well, everyone except one person, and she put the condom on me herself.
Hope this helps.
Chris.
There have been anecdotes here abouts of clubs where there seemed to be no condoms in use. The first of Blues parties I as surprised that every person that a played with asked if I had a condom on or asked a third party to verify that I had one on, well, everyone except one person, and she put the condom on me herself.
Hope this helps.
Chris.
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Kat
Actually, reading that I was reminded of cycling helmets, I'm just starting to wear one (not during sex I hasten to add) and it feels really odd, but I'll get used to it and it may save me from lots of damage one day. Similar thing ith safety belts, it feel really uncomfortable if I don't have one on, even on buses!
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It's always nicer to go bareback, I think, at the end of the day it's up to your own attitude to risk, and the attitude of the person that you are playing with, of course.
There have been anecdotes here abouts of clubs where there seemed to be no condoms in use. The first of Blues parties I as surprised that every person that a played with asked if I had a condom on or asked a third party to verify that I had one on, well, everyone except one person, and she put the condom on me herself.
Hope this helps.
Chris.
Ultimately the risk you take could be life or death !!
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It's always nicer to go bareback, I think, at the end of the day it's up to your own attitude to risk, and the attitude of the person that you are playing with, of course.
There have been anecdotes here abouts of clubs where there seemed to be no condoms in use. The first of Blues parties I as surprised that every person that a played with asked if I had a condom on or asked a third party to verify that I had one on, well, everyone except one person, and she put the condom on me herself.
Hope this helps.
Chris.
Ultimately the risk you take could be life or death !!
Precisely, and the lives of those that are close to you.
Quote by Scandal
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: Hehehehe are you sure about that?
I must admit they do totally ruin the sensation of going SPLAT! from 10 000 feet
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: True - but if a sky diver couldland safely without one - would they still use them simply for the pleasure of it? :dunno: I dare say some would - just as there is bound to be someone who always wears a condom when having a quick thrapp simply for the pleasurable feel of tight rubber stretched over hot flesh. :P
lhk
Kat
Sex God
Quote by O. K.
Personally, I have always preferred sex without the discomfort of a rubber and my ex- liked to ride it bareback.
Up to you, but don't come crying to me when you're dead
Sex God
Quote by O. K.
We are told to use condoms, practice safe sex and keep healthy, one can buy, black condoms, white condoms, fragrant condoms, fruit flavoured, thick ones, thin ones, but never have intercourse without one. However, it does not guarantee that one will not catch something, ie, through a split condom, or overspill, so how can one enjoy sex due to the inherent danger of disease.
Does everyone use these abominations? in the old days, my ex-wife and I tried condoms, but we never able to get on with them, as they were painfull to her due to wrinkling and I could not purchase one that was big enough to fit me, plus they always came off during intercourse. Personally, I have always preferred sex without the discomfort of a rubber and my ex- liked to ride it bareback.
OK have people been turning you down because you don't want to use condoms or something? Is this post and your other recent ones about 'life' and 'love & sex' just about how you feel at the moment? You seem to have a very negative view on everything at the moment.
Sex God
Condoms EVERYTIME!!
In fact, if i know someone tends to play without condoms, then i wont go anywhere near that person. If they havent got the intelligence to look after themselves and the ONE life they have been given, then why should i give them my time and body
In fact, if i know someone tends to play without condoms, then i wont go anywhere near that person. If they havent got the intelligence to look after themselves and the ONE life they have been given, then why should i give them my time and body
Orgasminator
Quote by O. K.
However, it does not guarantee that one will not catch something, ie, through a split condom, or overspill, so how can one enjoy sex due to the inherent danger of disease.
Well you'll enjoy it more than when not using condoms where you'll most likely get something.
I think youre deliberately making stupid posts to wind people up. Its people like you are responsible for giving swingers the image of being wreckless/irresponsible sex freaks. It'll only be a matter of time before you'll get some bad news.
Sex God
ONLY PRICKS DON'T RAP THEIR DICKS
Sex God
Quote by veejay
I think youre deliberately making stupid posts to wind people up. Its people like you are responsible for giving swingers the image of being wreckless/irresponsible sex freaks. It'll only be a matter of time before you'll get some bad news.
:shock:
Never thought of that.
Good point!
At the end of the day its all down to personal choice, so long as u protect yourself do you really care what others are doing?.....ok as it was said in a earlier post its a choice between life and death but its their life and theirs to do what they choise with it, i find to may make a big deal out of the condom thing and what people are doing, personally i don't care if others use them or not lol like i said so long as you protect yourself why should you care?!!
Sex God
Quote by veejay
I think youre deliberately making stupid posts to wind people up. Its people like you are responsible for giving swingers the image of being wreckless/irresponsible sex freaks. It'll only be a matter of time before you'll get some bad news.
Thanks, I thought it was just me being a tad cynical.
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I think youre deliberately making stupid posts to wind people up. Its people like you are responsible for giving swingers the image of being wreckless/irresponsible sex freaks. It'll only be a matter of time before you'll get some bad news.
Thanks, I thought it was just me being a tad cynical.
No its not just you Bev.......he does sound like he is feeling sorry for himself in someway that he's not fully telling us!
Sex God
I am a male and I alway use condoms, i dont want kids at mo and i dont want any nasty viruses 
MikeC
MikeC
Quote by veejay
However, it does not guarantee that one will not catch something, ie, through a split condom, or overspill, so how can one enjoy sex due to the inherent danger of disease.
Well you'll enjoy it more than when not using condoms where you'll most likely get something.
I think youre deliberately making stupid posts to wind people up. Its people like you are responsible for giving swingers the image of being wreckless/irresponsible sex freaks. It'll only be a matter of time before you'll get some bad news.
I think you are deliberately making stupid posts to wind me up, its people like you who are reponsible for causing trouble when there isn't any and it is you who are the bad news!!!
Sex God
Quote by O. K.
However, it does not guarantee that one will not catch something, ie, through a split condom, or overspill, so how can one enjoy sex due to the inherent danger of disease.
Well you'll enjoy it more than when not using condoms where you'll most likely get something.
I think youre deliberately making stupid posts to wind people up. Its people like you are responsible for giving swingers the image of being wreckless/irresponsible sex freaks. It'll only be a matter of time before you'll get some bad news.
I think you are deliberately making stupid posts to wind me up, its people like you who are reponsible for causing trouble when there isn't any and it is you who are the bad news!!!
He wasn't making any trouble, just making an observation that that's what you appear to be doing. He isn't alone in thinking that either you're doing it for a wind-up or you have other, personal, issues that you need to resolve because you are making some negative and strange posts lately.
Sexlightened
Quote by O. K.
We are told to use condoms, practice safe sex and keep healthy, one can buy, black condoms, white condoms, fragrant condoms, fruit flavoured, thick ones, thin ones, but never have intercourse without one. However, it does not guarantee that one will not catch something, ie, through a split condom, or overspill, so how can one enjoy sex due to the inherent danger of disease.
Does everyone use these abominations? in the old days, my ex-wife and I tried condoms, but we never able to get on with them, as they were painfull to her due to wrinkling and I could not purchase one that was big enough to fit me, plus they always came off during intercourse. Personally, I have always preferred sex without the discomfort of a rubber and my ex- liked to ride it bareback.
Personally speaking I love 'bareback' and hate the hassle of condoms. However I wold prefer to live and not have any STD's. So I enjoy bareback with my partner and always use condoms with others. I have NEVER experienced a condom being painful to me.
As for them being too small, I've played with some pretty big boys and we've always found rubbers to fit. I really would like to see a cock too big for rubbers. Reckon it'd be too big for me to take though.
Quote by rachel-lane
why do all guys say condoms never fit cos there too big lol, condoms are made of rubber, they have a stretchy quality too them, the bigger you are the tighter the fit
I have seen guys at parties blow them up & put them on their heads! I would be in awe of anyone with a penis larger than a head :shock:
Sexlightened
Quote by peenut
Yes. if you ever did the student thing of filling one up with water they can stretch to enormous sizes!!!!!!!!!
What are peoples views on femedoms then?
One of the few methods of contraception I've never tried. Always thought they sounded horrible! A friend of mine tried them and said they sounded rustly - could ruin the moment a bit.
Quote by lilacgem
why do all guys say condoms never fit cos there too big lol, condoms are made of rubber, they have a stretchy quality too them, the bigger you are the tighter the fit
I have seen guys at parties blow them up & put them on their heads! I would be in awe of anyone with a penis larger than a head :shock:
would this make them true d**k eds ?
