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I'll certainly steer clear of rifle ranges in future, just in case they hold the same opinions!!!
What happened to you is downright awful.
:shock: I watched this unfurl yesterday but was not in a position to respond. Collectively I think we all wanted bluexxx to have kicked him where it hurts! However, Fred is right, this is a sexual assault with all the legal implications that lie behind it. How can the Club bury their head in the sand. No guys, imitating an Ostrich means someone is going to get their butt kicked!
bluexxx appears to be playing exactly right, and thankfully has got her humour back. Love the Tag Line "Official Beer Glass Kicker"! Go get,em gal.
Yes, it doesn't take a genius to work out which club, even I got there!
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JoeBlow
Off for my milk and cookies,
On a serious note - This site, and the cafe in particular, is the right place to discuss issues such as behaviour in clubs.
It raises awareness of what others will and will not accept in terms of behaviour, and once you are certain of what is acceptable, you are then able to deal with the un-acceptable.
No means No, and that is that. If someone is pushy, and will not take no for an answer, contact the staff at the club and they will deal with it. If you do not receive a positive response from the staff, then report that to the management.
If you do not receive a positive response from the management, then come here. If an individual club does have a problem with the way it is run, it is in our benefit, and in the long run, the clubs benefit that it is sorted.
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Kat
Blue wrote:
I probably would react in the same way again (therefore I have learned nothing!),

But by bringing this to the forum you have taught me something.
Thanks for sharing it.
Love
Wilma
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Thanks again you guys for your total support on this issue lol .
I'm locking this thread now as not to give the club concerned more bad press than they deserve. I have not brought this issue to the forum to give any club bad press (their attitude towards me was apparently a one-off, and they DO have a no means no policy), but to raise a more general issue about consent, and, as this has become apparent, about what is appropriate as self-defense.
I appreciate that this has raised strong emotions in a lot of people and I will continue to answer PMs if people want more info. I also would like people to think about what has been said here in terms of its implications for swinging generally. You got it, I'm on my soap-box now!