couples and there pics

16 Feb 2009

Quote by tigernlynx

As for those who do not post pics cos they are soooo afraid of being recognised well sorryyyyyy but maybe just maybe they should not be swingers :wink:

Why ever not? :shock:
Why ever not what? if a couple, single or whatever are so afraid of being found out that they are into the swinging scene by friends, relatives or the (local hierarchy) and are constantly looking over their shoulder then they should not be swinging.
What a load of rubbish.

Quote by tigernlynx
We ourselves do not run around our locality with a sign saying we are swingers, we do like to be discreet about our pastime as i am sure all of us who do swing are.

If you're so unafraid of being found out, why don't you tell everyone?
You're contradicting yourself there a bit, I think.
I'm sure most people who have private albums and don't show face pictures in public ones, do it to be discreet.

16 Feb 2009

I lost a volunteer job I had for showing my cleavage on facebook!! :cry:

16 Feb 2009

Quote by tigernlynx
But it does not worry me one little bit if my boss, manager, workmates or whoever (even my relatives and close family) did find out from our pics being on this site or any other that we are swingers.

it does however worry me if aforementioned people see me parading around in lingerie... so from my perspective, a nice cock pic will have to do until I trust who I'm talking to ta biggrin

16 Feb 2009

Quote by tigernlynx
As for those who do not post pics cos they are soooo afraid of being recognised well sorryyyyyy but maybe just maybe they should not be swingers :wink:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
I love it when people tell us we're not worthy of being real swingers.
Maybe we should all make clear our own experience and then decide. dunno

16 Feb 2009

Quote by northwest-cpl
As for those who do not post pics cos they are soooo afraid of being recognised well sorryyyyyy but maybe just maybe they should not be swingers :wink:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
I love it when people tell us we're not worthy of being real swingers.
Maybe we should all make clear our own experience and then decide. dunno

Not telling anyone they are not "worthy" of being real swingers, just that if someone is so afraid of being "found out" as being swingers for whatever reason then "maybe" they should not be here.
And whilst I am writing to lose ones job solely for the reason of being a swinger is probably against employment law and human rights.

16 Feb 2009

Quote by tigernlynx
Not telling anyone they are not "worthy" of being real swingers, just that if someone is so afraid of being "found out" as being swingers for whatever reason then "maybe" they should not be here.
And whilst I am writing to lose ones job solely for the reason of being a swinger is probably against employment law and human rights.

So why shouldn't they be here? And what about 'disrepute' clauses? And we seem to muddle along without pictures and have done for the last 8 years on the internet.

16 Feb 2009

Has a can of worms been opened????
Well done Tiger for showing your faces, we are not all like you though!
Real swinger here still!!!
Lucys post.

16 Feb 2009

Believe me, if you ever saw Sarge, you'd be glad he hides his face rolleyes

16 Feb 2009

:whistling: :whistling:

16 Feb 2009

Quote by Sgt Bilko
:whistling: :whistling:

Lemme see! :rascal:

17 Feb 2009

Not only do we have face pics but we really are called Rich and dee :shock:
honest
dee

17 Feb 2009

Quote by Tigerlynx
And whilst I am writing to lose ones job solely for the reason of being a swinger is probably against employment law and human rights.

No it's not. Not if they have morality clauses in their contracts. Those members here who work with minors for example could find themselves on very shaky ground indeed were they to be identified by their employers. Those members accept that they take a certain amount of risk by being here, but they are perfectly within their rights to limit the amount of information they leave scattered across the internet. Not everyone Tiger enjoys the luxury of being able to fearlessly post a face pic as their avatar. ;)
Neil x x x ;)

17 Feb 2009

Quote by tigernlynx
Why ever not what? if a couple, single or whatever are so afraid of being found out that they are into the swinging scene by friends, relatives or the (local hierarchy) and are constantly looking over their shoulder then they should not be swinging.

I'm not afraid of being found out. Although it's not something I shout about, there are a lot of my vanilla friends who know what I do in my personal time, including workmates and one of my bosses.
I just don't think there's any need to flaunt it with face pics plastered all over my profile. I made that mistake once before and had my pics stolen and plastered all over another non-swinging site. They're still in some random photobucket account that pops up from time to time. I have no control over that. I have control over who I show my private gallery to or whether I go on cam or not.
It's not for you or anyone else to decide that I shouldn't be swinging because I don't have a face pic as my avatar. I really don't understand why you can't see how ridiculous that statement is to be honest.

Quote by tigernlynx
We ourselves do not run around our locality with a sign saying we are swingers, we do like to be discreet about our pastime as i am sure all of us who do swing are.

Yet you expect everyone else to take the same risk because it doesn't bother you? dunno

Quote by tigernlynx
But it does not worry me one little bit if my boss, manager, workmates or whoever (even my relatives and close family) did find out from our pics being on this site or any other that we are swingers.

Choice. It's all about choice. It does worry me that my parents could find out. It's my choice not to tell them becauce like everyone's parents, mine have dreams and aspirations for me that include marriage and children and a happily ever after. They're both aware that I don't have the same dreams and aspirations but since they are of a totally different generation they wouldn't understand, nor do they need to know how I spend my time of a sexual nature. It's about having some respect for them that I wouldn't wish them to know. That's my choice, just as it's your choice not to care.

Quote by tigernlynx
We also understand that for some swingers there are other reasons for not putting up pics (as lost has already said of his), fully understand his reasons for not putting them up.

So why do you not understand that there are reasons for everyone? It's a bit of a sweeping statement to say that people shouldn't be swinging because they are afraid of being found out! rolleyes

1 Apr 2009

Quote by Couple4funx
Why is it that when couples are on here advertising for other couples ,nine out of ten only have the womans pic up ,Do the men think that if they like the look of the woman, then the woman are just going to go along with that without seeing any pics of the man ? I dont think so ,Often i have looked at profiles but discounted them straight away because there are no pictures of the male half ,so come on men ,its lovely having a sexy pic of your other half up but have the decency to at least include one of yourself to ,or explain why there are none of you x

We have both on... But to be fair, most of the ppl we attract are guys... We have pics of us both in our private folder tho... But you are right tho...
G&S

2 Apr 2009

Quote by Couple4funx
Why is it that when couples are on here advertising for other couples ,nine out of ten only have the womans pic up ,Do the men think that if they like the look of the woman, then the woman are just going to go along with that without seeing any pics of the man ? I dont think so ,Often i have looked at profiles but discounted them straight away because there are no pictures of the male half ,so come on men ,its lovely having a sexy pic of your other half up but have the decency to at least include one of yourself to ,or explain why there are none of you x

We are here because we are interested in women so I suppose that makes us even worse in your eyes Couple...as why should a woman be interested in having sex with my husband when she can't see a picture of him at a moment's notice.
I do object to the reference that we are not "decent" though because Stormwalker chooses not to have his photo on here mad

and I definitely don't feel that we owe anyone an explanation as to why there isn't one either rolleyes

There isn't a single woman on here who has had sex with Stormy...that hasn't seen him first :P

2 Apr 2009

Quote by Firelizard
Why is it that when couples are on here advertising for other couples ,nine out of ten only have the womans pic up ,Do the men think that if they like the look of the woman, then the woman are just going to go along with that without seeing any pics of the man ? I dont think so ,Often i have looked at profiles but discounted them straight away because there are no pictures of the male half ,so come on men ,its lovely having a sexy pic of your other half up but have the decency to at least include one of yourself to ,or explain why there are none of you x

We are here because we are interested in women so I suppose that makes us even worse in your eyes Couple...as why should a woman be interested in having sex with my husband when she can't see a picture of him at a moment's notice.
I do object to the reference that we are not "decent" though because Stormwalker chooses not to have his photo on here mad

and I definitely don't feel that we owe anyone an explanation as to why there isn't one either rolleyes

There isn't a single woman on here who has had sex with Stormy...that hasn't seen him first :P
Do you always meet married women then? :roll:
bolt

3 Apr 2009

As the male half of a couple that only has pics of me,there's one simple reason..... I don't mind ..she does.

3 Apr 2009

something makes me suspicious when there are only pics of him on a profile makes me wonder if she actually exists. dont get me wrong i mean we all have our reasons to have or not to have our pics on a site like this but i wouldnt trust someone who is willing to send me pics via a phone or my personal e-mail address

3 Apr 2009

We have pics of me and pics of us, however i think the reason lots of couples put the fems pic on is to prove maybe that they are realy a couple, how many ads or pm`s do you read that says fems to fem contact, maybe this cuts out a bit of the middle man

4 Apr 2009

Quote by Sara_2006
something makes me suspicious when there are only pics of him on a profile makes me wonder if she actually exists. dont get me wrong i mean we all have our reasons to have or not to have our pics on a site like this but i wouldnt trust someone who is willing to send me pics via a phone or my personal e-mail address

Bugger I've been rumbled......time to deflate BB and put her back in the box....damn...if it hadn't been for those meddling kids I'd have got away with it :taz:
unfortunately there doesn't appear to be an emoticon of an aged caretaker being dragged away by the police..this is very remiss of the site who do I complain to ?