Must admit to having seen this too on occasion and some of it mystifies me. As a guy who is not into it., and I guess is quite conservative (small c) when it comes down to things sexual, though doesn't give a hoot as long as they're happy, that's what is important. I would like to know if some of the guys who CD sort of delude themselves into thinking they appear feminine or woman like, and whether they really believe that dressing and acting the way that some do makes them feel feminine.
Is there not some sort of embarrassment in knowing that, and i'm afraid it appears to me so it will with others, they appear wholly rediculous in a pantomine way. Is it not realised that is the way they appear to many? Is it attention seeking possibly, or a way in which to defy convention and be rebellious/
OK, I can see the point I guess with convincing CD's TV's when they can be another sex and "get away" with it. That's got a sense of acgeivement in it too i would of though.
I can even get the gist, if I try, of guy wearing woman's underwear or lengerie for the feel of it or if, in the case of stockings/tights they may have great legs that to some might look good.
I know in the end i will probably not understand as I dont understand people who enjoy a lot of sexual and non sexual pastimes. Although with unconvincing CD's etc iI feel it may be different though for love nor money can I fathom it.
Could be a good discussion hmmmm.
brucie! stop going to rios and you won't see such things anymore. get down to the way out club or stunners.
Every cross dresser starts somewhere, usually in the house - Sex clubs are probably the next step for most.
The Thai lady boy certainly didn't wake up one day looking like that, He/she went through years of probably very stressful stuff to get to where they are
Maybe they don't really care what you think and are quite happy fulfilling the need they have in the way that they do, some take it further, some don't
CROSS, they were bloody furious! :twisted:
I never said it was judgemental. I can't imagine why you feel sorry for them though - they are clearly OK or they wouldn't keep going back dressed. With regard to the club, if they have a dress code that disallows cross dressers then they should remind the cross dressers, but I'd say they haven't, or they would have acted on it. If they offend so many people, then the club must be aware and clearly don't mind. You appear to be in the minority of those offended.
I only ever saw one cross dresser at a club and have to say he looked ridiculous.
Big hands and bulging muscles, with a hint of stubble.
I did think that if he wanted to do that at least try and be a bit more convincing.....looked freaky in my opinion.
So what friendly fun club do you go to where someone can risk being violently assaulted for something so trivial as their choice in clothing?
If that were ever to happen I would hope that the offenders were to feel the full consequences of their actions. Hideous people that they would be.
I'll stick to clubs where no-one minds what anyone else is or isnt wearing, whatever their gender or anything else. It would seem a safer option.
I just picked up the thread that says "gay men aren't allowedto flaunt their sexuality in Rios". Is that true? It sounds pretty draconian to me. It's just as easy for a guy to turn down an approach, an invite to dance, or the offer to be bought a drink by a guy as it is for a woman to do so. It sounds to me that there are some slight insecurity issues here. Instead of asking these dudes what it's all about I suggest some of you guys have a beer with them and share a couple of jokes or anecdotes. They're probably season ticket holders at the local footy club, ie just people like the rest of us.
How much 'clothing' are these guys wearing by the way?
))) I have to ask do you ever stop to think about the members you share this website with, or is it only your 'sensitivities' we're meant to consider?