Cumming & then guilt/disgust

10 Jun 2009

Interesting discussion had with a non-swinging pal of mine today at a meeting during the lunch break. Odd really as though i've known this person years we've never discussed stuff like this before. All quite surreal.
When really horny do really dirty/pervy thoughts go through your head? And if your fortunate into do they go into your sex play? If so then thats great and exciting etc. But, at the end of it all. especially if your trying something a little different to what your used to. After you've cum is there, to a lesser or greater extent, a strange feeling of guilt/shame/disgust in yourself for doing or wanting and having your partner do something that maybe you think is on the pervy odd side?
My mate admitted he liked seeing his wife dribble his spunk out of the corners of her mouth after a BJ and asks her to do this quite often, Sometimes getting his wish sometimes not. Afterwards though he says he feels a bit disgusted with himself and ends up apologising to his Mrs who is apparently ok with this and doesn't mind doing it, I know one thing though. i'll look at her differently now lol

I must admit I have had similar feelings to this on occasion often wondering why I do because I don't find much really disgusts me. Usually it happens only a few moments after cumming and for a short time.
Do any of you lot ever have similar feelings?

10 Jun 2009

I must admit I've had thoughts along the same lines. There must be a sudden chemical change that floods through a man's bloodstream at orgasm. I've occassionally had the guilt feeling but for me the worse effect is the instant change from "horny as hell" to "I need to sleep!" mad

Edit: Note to self: Get Cubette to do the dribbly thing to see if I feel guilty! :twisted:

10 Jun 2009

I feel guilt after an orgasm. Any orgasm. rolleyes

I blame the Catholic education.
It's getting better with time though biggrin

10 Jun 2009

Orgasm - guilt - no way!
Be nice to share one just now though.....
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10 Jun 2009

I've not personally felt guilty but I did meet a straight/curious bloke once who said (and I quote):
"I'm fine with this mate but after I've cum just leave quickly as I'll try and punch you.. it's a guilt thing!"
:shock:
Needless to say, we still had a fiddle, I warned him if he tried to deck me I'd deck him back and he seemed to chill - he even made me a cuppa afterwards cool

10 Jun 2009

Quote by Lost
seeing his wife dribble his spunk out of the corners of her mouth after a BJ

Once I cleaned up, i was disgusted

10 Jun 2009

Quote by BIoke
I've not personally felt guilty but I did meet a straight/curious bloke once who said (and I quote):
"I'm fine with this mate but after I've cum just leave quickly as I'll try and punch you.. it's a guilt thing!"
:shock:
Needless to say, we still had a fiddle, I warned him if he tried to deck me I'd deck him back and he seemed to chill - he even made me a cuppa afterwards

Still makes me gasp and chuckle all at the same time. What a strange reaction.

11 Jun 2009

Guilty, no never guilty, but I have shocked myself.

11 Jun 2009

Quote by noladreams
I've not personally felt guilty but I did meet a straight/curious bloke once who said (and I quote):
"I'm fine with this mate but after I've cum just leave quickly as I'll try and punch you.. it's a guilt thing!"
:shock:
Needless to say, we still had a fiddle, I warned him if he tried to deck me I'd deck him back and he seemed to chill - he even made me a cuppa afterwards

Still makes me gasp and chuckle all at the same time. What a strange reaction.
:rotflmao: @ BIoke
Nola, are we talking about BIokes post or orgasms now.? confused

:? :?

11 Jun 2009

Guilt?

11 Jun 2009

after ive cum i do a tap dance routine out of the room.. cant help it its just one of those things .. i blame too much morcame and wise as a child.
staggy
bring me sunshine

11 Jun 2009

I think it's pretty normal for a bloke to switch off after an orgasm.
With me personally my reaction depends on the girl - if i'm in a relationship or the chemistry is really good I might want to cuddle, talk, make a cup of tea or sleep - but the sex itself pretty much has to stop.
However, there have been times when I've emptied my saddle bags and just "needed" to get out - Firstly I'm crap at sleeping in strange beds, and sometimes I'll lay there plotting how to leave without looking like a complete bastard. biggrin

11 Jun 2009

Quote by Witchy
I feel guilt after an orgasm. Any orgasm. I blame the Catholic education.
It's getting better with time though

and practice?

11 Jun 2009

I used to feel guilty about stuff, I dont any more.

11 Jun 2009

Quote by Waterpistol
However, there have been times when I've emptied my saddle bags and just "needed" to get out - Firstly I'm crap at sleeping in strange beds, and sometimes I'll lay there plotting how to leave without looking like a complete bastard.

Ahhhhhhh... the fucks and fucks off thing! :giggle:
Works for me... there are times when I don't want to make small talk the next day so to leave in the middle of the night (provided I have transport) is my preferred way. I like my own bed too. :mrgreen:

11 Jun 2009

With my feelings I never feel guilty shame or disgust for what I have done as I would not do anything at that moment in time that I would feel uncomfortable about after, I wonder more about how it has been perceived by whom is there, I would like to think we all enjoyed whatever it was that happened and nobody had those feelings after but just felt they enjoyed what has just happened too.
If I felt they had any negative feelings after, then I would feel unsure of how I felt myself about it.
One thing I have had difficulty in doing in the past is admitting there are things I enjoy doing as again I think I should feel guilty or ashamed in admitting to them.
I have got better at just accepting what I like and enjoy many different things and accept I am a naughty Minx for liking them so I donâ€™t feel ashamed. embarassed or disgusted with myself.
But I do like a time together after and not a guy that says where is the door. wink

That is a hard question to explain in a couple of paragraphs but have done my best in trying to answer it. :P

11 Jun 2009

Quote by easy
I've not personally felt guilty but I did meet a straight/curious bloke once who said (and I quote):
"I'm fine with this mate but after I've cum just leave quickly as I'll try and punch you.. it's a guilt thing!"
:shock:
Needless to say, we still had a fiddle, I warned him if he tried to deck me I'd deck him back and he seemed to chill - he even made me a cuppa afterwards

Still makes me gasp and chuckle all at the same time. What a strange reaction.
:rotflmao: @ BIoke
Nola, are we talking about BIokes post or orgasms now.? confused

:? :?
The dude in Bloke's post. Punching someone post-orgasm is just plain odd.
And yet strangely comical too. wink

11 Jun 2009

I was thinking along the lines of this topic earlier after a recent experience. I've had a fantasy, well it was more Bonnies to start with and have often got off on it alone or with Bonnie then afterwards I've had a slight not much, feeling of guilt afterwards. Anyways this fantasy became a reality recently and I felt no guilt at all, a little embarassed but guilt, nope. Struck me as a little odd really.

11 Jun 2009

Quote by bonnienclyde
I was thinking along the lines of this topic earlier after a recent experience. I've had a fantasy, well it was more Bonnies to start with and have often got off on it alone or with Bonnie then afterwards I've had a slight not much, feeling of guilt afterwards. Anyways this fantasy became a reality recently and I felt no guilt at all, a little embarassed but guilt, nope. Struck me as a little odd really.

Oh come on... that's half a story!!! :giggle:
What's the other half? :rascal:

11 Jun 2009

Quote by Dirtygirly
Oh come on... that's half a story!!! :giggle:
What's the other half? :rascal:

I'm not saying a word hehe.

13 Jun 2009

Quote by Witchy
I feel guilt after an orgasm. Any orgasm. I blame the Catholic education.
It's getting better with time though

Practice, practice, practice. It's the only way. :D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D

14 Jun 2009

I've only ever felt fleeting guilt for having sort of taken too much, more than I have given.
It's pretty much all to be celebrated!