Master of Sex
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death...im so sad.
:therethere:
Hugs to you ....
I went through something similar late last year, when my Nan died suddenly on xmas eve. It is devastating when you least expect it and leaves you feeling so stunned.
Take time for yourself and over time your grief will ease .....
I'll be thinking of you and his family today
Hugs to you ....
I went through something similar late last year, when my Nan died suddenly on xmas eve. It is devastating when you least expect it and leaves you feeling so stunned.
Take time for yourself and over time your grief will ease .....
I'll be thinking of you and his family today
Sex God
Hi Willing,
i'm very sorry to hear your terrible news. I'm not one of those who is able to leap in with instant advice, nor am I one for lots of hugs and kisses, but I feel very much for you in your sadness. I have also lost friends and family very dear to me. I'll be thinking of you, and you're right - thanks for reminding us about how important it is to show our love for the ones who are left, before it becomes too late.
Mike.
i'm very sorry to hear your terrible news. I'm not one of those who is able to leap in with instant advice, nor am I one for lots of hugs and kisses, but I feel very much for you in your sadness. I have also lost friends and family very dear to me. I'll be thinking of you, and you're right - thanks for reminding us about how important it is to show our love for the ones who are left, before it becomes too late.
Mike.
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I really do feel for you and I totally understand where you are coming from and what you are saying.
It's my Dad's best friends funeral today as a matter fact, and he hung himself which has torn my Dad apart.
And I live by what you say as my Partners Mum died on his 15th birthday, so we both live each day like our last and to the full.
:angel:
My thoughts are with you hun x
I really do feel for you and I totally understand where you are coming from and what you are saying.
It's my Dad's best friends funeral today as a matter fact, and he hung himself which has torn my Dad apart.
And I live by what you say as my Partners Mum died on his 15th birthday, so we both live each day like our last and to the full.
:angel:
My thoughts are with you hun x
Sex God
thinking of you :therethere:
Sex God
willing but nervous: HUGE HUGS and so sorry for your loss. 
Good advice in your post, though. 'I love you's & 'I'm thinking of you's don't cost anything, except parhaps the price of a phone call, but they are truly priceless! :love:
Good advice in your post, though. 'I love you's & 'I'm thinking of you's don't cost anything, except parhaps the price of a phone call, but they are truly priceless! :love:
Willing I echo your thoughts.
My signature says exactly what you are saying, I have regretted things I should have done and said throughout my life. I have seen too many people pass away before I was ready to lose them. One hopes that they knew what remained unsaid ....but don't leave it chance .....tell them anyway.
Don't mourn their passing for too long(they certainly wouldn't want you too), rather, celebrate their memory, relate the positives they bought into your life and reinforce the joy they gave to the world.
And hey if you want a shoulder to cry on or just a beer to reminiss give me a shout .
NGDE
My signature says exactly what you are saying, I have regretted things I should have done and said throughout my life. I have seen too many people pass away before I was ready to lose them. One hopes that they knew what remained unsaid ....but don't leave it chance .....tell them anyway.
Don't mourn their passing for too long(they certainly wouldn't want you too), rather, celebrate their memory, relate the positives they bought into your life and reinforce the joy they gave to the world.
And hey if you want a shoulder to cry on or just a beer to reminiss give me a shout .
NGDE
I am SO sorry!.....that i am even crying now!.. :upset: .................its true! what you say!.......live each day as it comes to the full!...just got look at me motto down there!.......... when you .loose someone dear!........................it makes you realize how life is so pressures
SO KEEP YOUR CHIN UP THE BEST YOU CAN!..............Hard i no!
love to you and your family
debbiexxxxxxx
SO KEEP YOUR CHIN UP THE BEST YOU CAN!..............Hard i no!
love to you and your family
debbiexxxxxxx
Orgasminator
I feel for your loss & much sympathy goes forth from my direction to you .
Why is it that death always makes people realise how frail we really are?
I believe & follow the old adage:
Live your life day by day, treat each day as though it's your last - for one day you'll be right.
We all have lost friends & family in the past , so we all know what you must be feeling.
There is no way to stop the hurt & the unanswered question "Why did this happen".`
The only thing to do is remember the good times & that way you will keep his memory alive.
The WHOOSH Man
Why is it that death always makes people realise how frail we really are?
I believe & follow the old adage:
Live your life day by day, treat each day as though it's your last - for one day you'll be right.
We all have lost friends & family in the past , so we all know what you must be feeling.
There is no way to stop the hurt & the unanswered question "Why did this happen".`
The only thing to do is remember the good times & that way you will keep his memory alive.
The WHOOSH Man
Sex God
nothing any of us say at the moment can help you to feel better, but hopefully it will help you to realise that its normal to be upset... and we understand that feeling.
take care hun
xxxx
take care hun
xxxx
I have never been as devasted as when I learnt as little boy that my favourtie Uncle, the one who actually was funny , had died. I can still remember the numbing sense of loss that just went on and on . I think it was such a knock out blow because it was the first time I had lost someone I knew and it was total surprise to everyone .
All you can do is grieve , move on , but do not forget .
All you can do is grieve , move on , but do not forget .
Sex God
:therethere: :therethere: :therethere:
BIG HUGS AND KISSES
I have taken your advice and been in touch with some old friends and will live life to the full
I know how you feel I never got to say good bye to someone I cared about before they died and I still miss him even now
Take care
Molly xx
BIG HUGS AND KISSES
I have taken your advice and been in touch with some old friends and will live life to the full
I know how you feel I never got to say good bye to someone I cared about before they died and I still miss him even now
Take care
Molly xx
Sex God
willing but nervous hi 
very sad and sorry for you, and his family. as you say, the older we get the more we have this to deal with, but it never gets any easier does it, and we never stop feeling absolutely useless in dealing with it, and the friends who are left.
i can't really offer any more than that, or add any more to what's been said. except it's better to regret things said and forgiven, than to forever regret things left unsaid, unforgiven by yourself.
neil x x x x x
very sad and sorry for you, and his family. as you say, the older we get the more we have this to deal with, but it never gets any easier does it, and we never stop feeling absolutely useless in dealing with it, and the friends who are left.
i can't really offer any more than that, or add any more to what's been said. except it's better to regret things said and forgiven, than to forever regret things left unsaid, unforgiven by yourself.
neil x x x x x
Sex God
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willing but nervous hi
very sad and sorry for you, and his family. as you say, the older we get the more we have this to deal with, but it never gets any easier does it, and we never stop feeling absolutely useless in dealing with it, and the friends who are left.
i can't really offer any more than that, or add any more to what's been said. except it's better to regret things said and forgiven, than to forever regret things left unsaid, unforgiven by yourself.
neil x x x x x
I've tried about 5 times to post on this thread and decided not to because I couldn't get the wording quite right.
Neil's just said what I wanted to say, but better than I could put it.
Orgasminator
Quote by willing but nervous
i just had to tell someone..
a good friend of our family died suddenly last night. he was only 43yrs old..he leaves a lovely wife and young daughter. my family are in bits.
he was a heavy smoker..he had a masive heart coronary, of the arteries surrounding the heart. something like that anyway.
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as i get older, more of my friends die. and no matter what i do or say, i cant stop this from happening.
please live each day as its your last. tell your wife/girlfriend/children you love them everyday.
i know this is hard to do, as we all have problems of some sort. but nothing is as bad as death.
over the years, i have had a number of my friends die. i never got to say goodbye and some of them, i hadnt seen for months.
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GO ON.....make that phone call..speak to a friend that you havent seen in ages..tell them you love them. if you dont do it now..then tomorow may be to late and you will not get the chance..
why does it take death to realise how much we care for someone. let them know now..when they are alive.....tomorrow may never come.
im so sad and am crying now..
LIFES SHIT :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
hope this afternoon helped a little babe, hope your head is cleared a little bit, feel a bit useless at times like this but ill just say remember the good times , those stay with you forever
you have a pm
x
Hi there, sorry to hear of your loss. Bereavement is like a rollercoaster experience, with days when your feeling low and other when you feel ok or on a high. There are five stages of bereavement which everyone goes through and eventually you come out the other side.
As bereavement is a personal experience, don't be influenced when people say such things as "you should be over it by now". Listen to your own feelings and work through them at your pace and not someone else's.
If it helps, talk to family and friends. Be aware that there are counsellors via your Doctors Surgery should you feel that you need to talk to someone who is not involved.
The most important point is be kind to yourself, you are experiencing a loss and no-one is super-human. You are important to you and others around you so therefore treat yourself and your emotions as No.1 priority.
Take care xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
As bereavement is a personal experience, don't be influenced when people say such things as "you should be over it by now". Listen to your own feelings and work through them at your pace and not someone else's.
If it helps, talk to family and friends. Be aware that there are counsellors via your Doctors Surgery should you feel that you need to talk to someone who is not involved.
The most important point is be kind to yourself, you are experiencing a loss and no-one is super-human. You are important to you and others around you so therefore treat yourself and your emotions as No.1 priority.
Take care xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Orgasminator
I am so sorry for your loss.
I have a tear in my eye thinking of all the friends I have lost, at a young age, over the years.
Your advice is priceless - what's the price of a phone call compared to I LOVE YOU???
There's a very big shoulder here for you - thinking of you and yours :therethere:
CA xxx
I have a tear in my eye thinking of all the friends I have lost, at a young age, over the years.
Your advice is priceless - what's the price of a phone call compared to I LOVE YOU???
There's a very big shoulder here for you - thinking of you and yours :therethere:
CA xxx
Sex God
WBN. You touched me with your pain and the wiseness of your advice. Thank you.
Master of Sex
thanks guys for all the kind words and pms..
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ive just found out that my friend collapsed and died in front of his daughter....you cant get much worse than that can you...she had just broke up for her summer hols as well.
remember guys....lifes short..enjoy it while you can...and if you can enjoy it with the people you love...all the better
Big Hugs WBN!
What an awful thing to have happened. I feel for his daughter.
Having a brother who has serious heart problems and a sister with cancer (albeit now in remission), I know just what you mean. Things like this make you realise your own mortality.
Alex x
Master of Sex
thanks for the kind words guys....havent replyed to any pms yet.. but i will reply to everyone over the next few days.
