dinner and a kiss only??

24 Sep 2007

Quote by ukbeannie
......... but I was just curious if once you made the arrangement to meet up if a person would be pissed off if it didn't go all the way later.

I would suggest that 'no guaranteed play, first date' is a rule of thumb which more rather than less go by. Whether that be singles meeting couples or singles meeting singles.
So with that as the backdrop, and of course the right of any party just to say 'not tonight, thanks', there should be no reason for anyone to feel 'pissed off'.
I agree a first meet doesn't guarantee a shag. I always see it as a way to find out more about someone. There's nothing like a face to face to clinch it really, but even then you may not be in the mood, or something doesn't quite gel.
It's just another step along the way.
wink

25 Sep 2007

Quote by PaperGiant
but i was just curious if once you made the arrangement to meet up if a person would be pissed off if it didnt go all the way later.

If its clear from the beginning that there may not be any play then there should be no pissed off people lol

Louise xx

25 Sep 2007

This dinner are we talking mcdonalds or pizza hut....... biggrin

25 Sep 2007

Quote by markz
This dinner are we talking mcdonalds or pizza hut.......

Don't be common - he means KFC!

25 Sep 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
This dinner are we talking mcdonalds or pizza hut.......

Don't be common - he means KFC!
thats quite upmarket for a yorkshire lass...... rolleyes

25 Sep 2007

hey you lot............... youre just gonna end up upsetting someone........
like those who prefer Subway........

25 Sep 2007

If things run the potential risk of getting as far out of hand as a kiss.... the menu should be carefully considered...
after all... perhaps both having the same dish might be best
just the one on the garlic may be off-putting... or curry :shock:
but then again, if this much thought and planning is put into it, might that not suggest tongues-aforethought dunno

remember folks... no expectations
lp

26 Sep 2007

Quote by anais
Well best advise I can give is post an ad looking for a dinner companion and see how you get on.
or try a dating site... this is a swinging site isnt it??? Also not every meet is going to end up in a definate sexual encounter...things just arent like that.

From a personal point of view, I think dating is where the majority of members are looking for progression from that date/looking for more/some form of commitment/a long term relationship etc And not every *date* is going to end up as a sexual encounter, same as swinging.
Why should a married man join a dating site? (Lets not go their, one of my bugbites lol

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Why cant someone from here meet up for dinner first an see how they get on??? Especially if its someone reasonably new to *meeting* people (Im not on about the length of there member....ship! :lol: :lol smile

If I was going to swing, I would feel quite comfortable as a newbie to swinging meeting on the above first...:smile:Why should a married man join a dating site? (Lets not go their, one of my bugbites :lol:) :color: one of mine too. mad

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26 Sep 2007

just don`t talk about yr bad she treats u ,
or u might not even get a
one guy who we was going to meet on a fri night,
when told it turn out to be wrong week told us not to bother meeting for a drink,
since then he`s mailed us but gets no
i would try and work things out with yr wife,
and see`s what happens...