Do men really like BBW?

1 Apr 2007

Quote by Alexa
I am size 22 and want to know if guys genuinely find larger ladies attractive. If so- why? Is it the soft rolls of fat that they have to pull back to go down on us? What is it????

Right, back to the question - from our point of view - our profile states up to medium - but what is medium to us? I don't honestly know anymore.......
You see, we came in to swinging with ideas and rules that evolved and changed and still are to an extent.
We tend to get to know people a little (not always tho lol) We have played with others that have been fantastic and if it were from just a pm pic, we would have discounted them (not just because of size)- wow, would we have been missing out big time !!!
So, for us, it's down to the person mainly and the attraction does not always have to be aesthestic, but on whether that person is comfortable with who they are too. wink

1 Apr 2007

Quote by varca
I am size 22 and want to know if guys genuinely find larger ladies attractive. If so- why? Is it the soft rolls of fat that they have to pull back to go down on us? What is it????

Right, back to the question - from our point of view - our profile states up to medium - but what is medium to us? I don't honestly know anymore.......
You see, we came in to swinging with ideas and rules that evolved and changed and still are to an extent.
We tend to get to know people a little (not always tho lol) We have played with others that have been fantastic and if it were from just a pm pic, we would have discounted them (not just because of size)- wow, would we have been missing out big time !!!
So, for us, it's down to the person mainly and the attraction does not always have to be aesthestic, but on whether that person is comfortable with who they are too. wink

:thumbup: Well said
I didn't ever used to think that I could fancy particularly slim men but I have had my eyes opened a few times biggrin

Not by me you haven't! Hehe!
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1 Apr 2007

Yes you are right She Devil was excellent.
Also Roseanne Barr?

1 Apr 2007

Quote by varca
I am size 22 and want to know if guys genuinely find larger ladies attractive. If so- why? Is it the soft rolls of fat that they have to pull back to go down on us? What is it????

Right, back to the question - from our point of view - our profile states up to medium - but what is medium to us? I don't honestly know anymore.......
You see, we came in to swinging with ideas and rules that evolved and changed and still are to an extent.
We tend to get to know people a little (not always tho lol) We have played with others that have been fantastic and if it were from just a pm pic, we would have discounted them (not just because of size)- wow, would we have been missing out big time !!!
So, for us, it's down to the person mainly and the attraction does not always have to be aesthestic, but on whether that person is comfortable with who they are too. wink

:thumbup: Well said
I didn't ever used to think that I could fancy particularly slim men but I have had my eyes opened a few times biggrin

Not by me you haven't! Hehe!
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Why Mr Essence sir, I thought that my eyes were closed in rapture the last time we were together....
or was it eyes squeezed shut and wincing as I stood on your toes again :giggle:
Varca has her posting hat on............runnnnnn bolt

1 Apr 2007

I'm BBW and hubby says it comes down to personality first....body mass index doesnt come into it!!
To quote 2 great songs......
Queen....Fat Bottomed Girls they make the Rocking World go round, and
Spinal Tap (Big Bottom).... The bigger the cushion the sweeter the pushin'

1 Apr 2007

I think Botticelli got about right. biggrin

1 Apr 2007

well i am a BBW myself and i have never had any problems playing and thats not because i am easy as i am most certainly not, well not unless i want to be.
i tend to speak to people on msn/phone etc for quite a bit before i will play with them, or i play with people i have met face to face at socials and munchs, i find this the best way for me.
putting the shoe on the other foot, i always preferred slimmer males, pure logistics of it is they fit better between large thighs redface

but if the scene has taught me anything, if i stuck to this preference i would have missed out on some great play and meeting some great people.
Earthy xx

1 Apr 2007

Quote by redangel
May I say that as a bbw in some views, not in others, that I am very secure with my body, and very picky about who I sleep with.
Yes I am an easy lay, but thats because I enjoy sex, not because I'm fat!!!

I'll second that!
Im confident about my body too, but I also know and accept that I am not everyones cup of tea.
Plus if I was thinner, Id have less space to tattoo on! biggrin

Lisa
xxxx

1 Apr 2007

The term BBW has always confused me a bit - I'm taking it means Big Beautiful Woman?? If so, does it mean that the woman is beautiful because she's big, or because she's big and considers herself beautiful?? If the latter is this case, then I find it a bit arrogant. What about all the Big Ugly Women with nice personalities? A beautiful person is a beautiful person, no matter what size they are. The media is always banging on about "real women" who all seem to be size 14 plus - I'm currently a size 8 (not through choice) and get jolly narked that I'm not considered a "real woman", even though I've got boobies and all the other bits, just not as much!!!
I will now increase my chocolate intake to compensate. lol

1 Apr 2007

Quote by flower411
I suppose a good example of a succesful bbw is Dawn French. Otherwise I have to cast my mind back to Hattie Jakes in the Carry On Doctor series (circa 1960's). So presumably that much time has intervened before it was considerable. Although nurse Gladys Emmanuel in Open All Hours bridged the gap fairly well.

Blimey, without even thinking about it there was Alison Moyet and Julie T Wallace in "life and loves of a she devil"
can i also add to that list Caroline Quentin?

1 Apr 2007

One half of the music trio Wilson Phillips is rather nice (I forget which is which... redface

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1 Apr 2007

Quote by Dlep
One half of the music Duo Wilson Phillips is rather nice (I forget which is which... )

Chynna Phillips was the Blonde, i cant remember the name of the daughter of Brian Wilson, but i know who you mean

1 Apr 2007

The beautiful South said it best i think

1 Apr 2007

One of my favourite colleagues said I looked like the woman in Magic Numbers (when my hair was longer). Not sure how I felt about that but wish I had her talent.
Anyone fancy a shag????
lol

:lol: :lol:

1 Apr 2007

Quote by Jags
One of my favourite colleagues said I looked like the woman in Magic Numbers (when my hair was longer). Not sure how I felt about that but wish I had her talent.
Anyone fancy a shag????
:lol: :lol:

might do.....

1 Apr 2007

Quote by Jags
One of my favourite colleagues said I looked like the woman in Magic Numbers (when my hair was longer). Not sure how I felt about that but wish I had her talent.
Anyone fancy a shag????
:lol: :lol:

if noone else will wink

1 Apr 2007

Quote by Drewxcore
One of my favourite colleagues said I looked like the woman in Magic Numbers (when my hair was longer). Not sure how I felt about that but wish I had her talent.
Anyone fancy a shag????
:lol: :lol:

if noone else will wink

Back of the queue.... I'll think about getting round to you...
Maybe!
cool

1 Apr 2007

Quote by essex34m
One of my favourite colleagues said I looked like the woman in Magic Numbers (when my hair was longer). Not sure how I felt about that but wish I had her talent.
Anyone fancy a shag????
:lol: :lol:

might do.....
Is that a definite 'might do' or a maybe 'might do'... makes a difference you! Already had a 'NO' by PM..... confused

1 Apr 2007

Quote by ForestFunsters
The term BBW has always confused me a bit - I'm taking it means Big Beautiful Woman?? If so, does it mean that the woman is beautiful because she's big, or because she's big and considers herself beautiful?? If the latter is this case, then I find it a bit arrogant. What about all the Big Ugly Women with nice personalities? A beautiful person is a beautiful person, no matter what size they are. The media is always banging on about "real women" who all seem to be size 14 plus - I'm currently a size 8 (not through choice) and get jolly narked that I'm not considered a "real woman", even though I've got boobies and all the other bits, just not as much!!!
I will now increase my chocolate intake to compensate.

i dont personally like the tag BBW but its a recognised way of describing the fact that i am a larger lady rather than typing fat lass, i dont think by using the term BBW i am saying that slim people arent beautiful.
EArthy xx

1 Apr 2007

alexa, you might want to read through this thread, some good points you might be interested in.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/1193342.html#1193342

1 Apr 2007

Quote by earthchild
The term BBW has always confused me a bit - I'm taking it means Big Beautiful Woman?? If so, does it mean that the woman is beautiful because she's big, or because she's big and considers herself beautiful?? If the latter is this case, then I find it a bit arrogant. What about all the Big Ugly Women with nice personalities? A beautiful person is a beautiful person, no matter what size they are. The media is always banging on about "real women" who all seem to be size 14 plus - I'm currently a size 8 (not through choice) and get jolly narked that I'm not considered a "real woman", even though I've got boobies and all the other bits, just not as much!!!
I will now increase my chocolate intake to compensate.

i dont personally like the tag BBW but its a recognised way of describing the fact that i am a larger lady rather than typing fat lass, i dont think by using the term BBW i am saying that slim people arent beautiful.
EArthy xx

i agree earthy.
ive said this before and i will say it again, IMO, sexy is a state of mind not a bodyshape wink

1 Apr 2007

Quote by varca
I didn't ever used to think that I could fancy particularly slim men as my preference has usually been bigger men but I have had my eyes opened a few times

Stormy relaxes his

1 Apr 2007

Quote by Stormwalker

I didn't ever used to think that I could fancy particularly slim men as my preference has usually been bigger men but I have had my eyes opened a few times

Stormy relaxes his :laughabove:

:rotflmao: :laughabove:

1 Apr 2007

I don't have a preference. I have been out with smaller and larger men and women, and find all shapes and sizes attractive. I think I am attracted to faces and personalities rather than particular body types, though there are definitely some people whom I look at and go, 'wow', but those people don't fit a certain type - there's just something I find in them which attracts me.
I'm crap at fetishes so couldn't do a BBW fetish, though I fancy several larger people as well as smaller ones. Size doesn't really seem to be a factor. I guess I'm just happy to get laid ;)

1 Apr 2007

Quote by Gothic-punk
I don't have a preference. I have been out with smaller and larger men and women, and find all shapes and sizes attractive. I think I am attracted to faces and personalities rather than particular body types, though there are definitely some people whom I look at and go, 'wow', but those people don't fit a certain type - there's just something I find in them which attracts me.
I'm crap at fetishes so couldn't do a BBW fetish, though I fancy several larger people as well as smaller ones. Size doesn't really seem to be a factor. I guess I'm just happy to get laid ;)

:thumbup: personalities!... of course it is. What's the point of being with someone (skinny, large, fat, round, square, etc etc) if you cannot enjoy their company??? rolleyes

1 Apr 2007

Quote by varca
Ok enough is enough!!!
The question was....
Do men really like BBw's?
If i had known i had to agree with everybody and say yes, i wouldnt of even bothered answering in the first place!
To anyone who ive caused offence to....Im Sorry!

No one is saying that you have to agree dear child, it would be a very boring world if we all liked the same things wouldn't it? You are entitled to answer the question and should you wish to do so, the reasons for your preference. What is highly objectionable is your naive and unfounded derogatory comment that assumes that larger ladies are an easy "shag" because of their size. May I suggest that next time you decide to add to a thread you ensure that your words are based on an informed opinion and are not malicious or insulting!
kiss

drew you are such a licky bum!
Ahh but he's a very sweet and poorly licky bum Jaymar :grin:
he is indeed, I'll give you that (but don't tell him! wink

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1 Apr 2007

Quote by jaymar
Ok enough is enough!!!
The question was....
Do men really like BBw's?
If i had known i had to agree with everybody and say yes, i wouldnt of even bothered answering in the first place!
To anyone who ive caused offence to....Im Sorry!

No one is saying that you have to agree dear child, it would be a very boring world if we all liked the same things wouldn't it? You are entitled to answer the question and should you wish to do so, the reasons for your preference. What is highly objectionable is your naive and unfounded derogatory comment that assumes that larger ladies are an easy "shag" because of their size. May I suggest that next time you decide to add to a thread you ensure that your words are based on an informed opinion and are not malicious or insulting!
kiss

drew you are such a licky bum!
Ahh but he's a very sweet and poorly licky bum Jaymar :grin:
he is indeed, I'll give you that (but don't tell him! wink

)
dont tell me what :wink: