I'm fairly new on here and just wanted to run this by some of you more experienced members;
When I'm browsing the forums and adverts I sometimes come across (oo-er) some really nice pictures or adverts or postings. I've sent a few PM's just to say that I'd appreciated said pictures etc. I'm not expecting a reply or anything, just offering a compliment. Then I thought 'I wonder if this is appropriate?'
Any views on this?
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Do SH members appreciate compliments by pm and email?
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If it's genuinely just a compliment because you felt like giving a compliment, and not a 'wanna fuck?' thinly disguised as a compliment, then you are a rare and lovely person and should carry on doing exactly what you're doing, because it's lovely :smile2:
People will be able to tell the difference, don't worry.
People will be able to tell the difference, don't worry.
Sex God
I get compliments by pm and email from peeps I've never met/spoken to before all the time, mostly about our web page pics. I don't see any harm in it. We all like to get compliments don't we?
It's lovely and I appreciate them and always reply . . . except to the ones which are along the lines of *lets fuck*
I know some people don't like to get pm's from people they don't know, but it's one way of getting to know someone
Tracy-Jayne
It's lovely and I appreciate them and always reply . . . except to the ones which are along the lines of *lets fuck*
I know some people don't like to get pm's from people they don't know, but it's one way of getting to know someone
Tracy-Jayne
Sex God
I lurrrrrrrrve it! :) 
I don't mind being propositioned either
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:) I don't mind being propositioned either
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I lurrrrrrrrve it!
I don't mind being propositioned either
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I love the complimentary pm's too - doesnt everyone?? lol
especially the ones where it's literally just a compliment (or thought, or rant....etc) because someone just feels compelled to send it, with no agenda.....its the 'propositions disguised as compliments' PM's I dont particularly like - does that make sense?? just ask me straight out ffs, dont dress it up to be something it's not
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I guess we all love compliments, I just wish senders would make it clear if their comments are compliments are not!!
This is a pm I received on another site
"You have a lovely pair of floppy tits, I would love to get my k**b between them"
Now the sender has insisted it was a compliment but im still confussed!!!!
This is a pm I received on another site
"You have a lovely pair of floppy tits, I would love to get my k**b between them"
Now the sender has insisted it was a compliment but im still confussed!!!!
We think pm's that are complimentary or just to let someone know that you are thinking of them ( for whatever reason) are pretty special. It means that somone has taken time out to talk to you specifically - but with the provisio that like others have said are not just asking for a quick fuck or explaining all their preferences in great deal without even knowing anything about you. Doesn't endear us to anyone really.
Some pms let you get to know others in a more personal way then you can on the boards.
Some pms let you get to know others in a more personal way then you can on the boards.
Sex God
don't think there would be many people on this site who would mind getting an email or PM with a compliment, comment, hello etc. as long as it's done with the frequently posted tips given to newbies i.e. be friendly, polite & respectful.
it's just the 'im horney & wanna fuck you' one line idiot pm's that piss people off.
so i'd say yes, message away, and once you've established yourself as one of the decent members of this site you might just get a pm one day from your new friends saying 'im horney & wanna fuck you' :lol2:
it's just the 'im horney & wanna fuck you' one line idiot pm's that piss people off.
so i'd say yes, message away, and once you've established yourself as one of the decent members of this site you might just get a pm one day from your new friends saying 'im horney & wanna fuck you' :lol2:
I have to agree with the other girlies.
Yes it's nice to be complimented - if it's genuine, but sometimes it's difficult to spot the genuine from the "Want a quick shag" merchants.
In my naivety I have sent a thank you pm to someone who sent me a compliment and got a return pm saying "so when do you want to meet up for a shag then?"
Yes it's nice to be complimented - if it's genuine, but sometimes it's difficult to spot the genuine from the "Want a quick shag" merchants.
In my naivety I have sent a thank you pm to someone who sent me a compliment and got a return pm saying "so when do you want to meet up for a shag then?"
I love the complimentary pm's too - doesnt everyone?? lol especially the ones where it's literally just a compliment (or thought, or rant....etc) because someone just feels compelled to send it, with no agenda.....
its the 'propositions disguised as compliments' PM's I dont particularly like - does that make sense?? just ask me straight out ffs, dont dress it up to be something it's not
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We think pm's that are complimentary or just to let someone know that you are thinking of them ( for whatever reason) are pretty special. It means that somone has taken time out to talk to you specifically....
:thumbup: That's what I meant lol, you just phrased it better
Sex God
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Its nice to recive a compliment now and again btw HornyLittleBlonde Nice bum!
just like 2nd that, it's Booty'ful
awwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sex God
Quote by Happy Cats
Whats a compliment?
:cry:
tsk!!...a group of soldiers going into battle, full or otherwise.
Quote by Sexysteph
Tho I do have to tell you about meeting one guy off here at a Munch - nearly made me cry. He came running up to me and said "I have always wanted to meet you because you come over all nice on the forums"about that but I was really touched by the compliment
OMG, I never know what to say to that comment tho, Steph. Usually I prove the perrson wrong by being a complete ignorant twat, as I am embarrassed and don't know where to put myself.
It's second only to people who only want to quiz me about my health, when I am out and trying to pretend to be 'normal'.
BTW Phire? I thought it was lovely. :love:
Quote by Amber
I love compliments whether its by PM or real life.....who doesn't?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/images/avatars/2845432684356a3337a8d3.jpg
Top tits ! :thumbup:
erm thanks...........nice pussy you have there!!
Tis a ginger pussy....
When you coming down for those crabsticks.... ok, you don't like seafood..... chips wasn't it? I'll even take you down the pier for some hot donuts....
( I think i have pulled here.... )
Quote by postie
I love compliments whether its by PM or real life.....who doesn't?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/images/avatars/2845432684356a3337a8d3.jpg
Top tits ! :thumbup:
erm thanks...........nice pussy you have there!!
Tis a ginger pussy....
When you coming down for those crabsticks.... ok, you don't like seafood..... chips wasn't it? I'll even take you down the pier for some hot donuts....
( I think i have pulled here.... )
...yes how could I have forgotten an offer like that!.......easily!!
Quote by Amber
I love compliments whether its by PM or real life.....who doesn't?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/images/avatars/2845432684356a3337a8d3.jpg
Top tits ! :thumbup:
erm thanks...........nice pussy you have there!!
Tis a ginger pussy....
When you coming down for those crabsticks.... ok, you don't like seafood..... chips wasn't it? I'll even take you down the pier for some hot donuts....
( I think i have pulled here.... )
...yes how could I have forgotten an offer like that!.......easily!!
:lol: I think i would have too. Oh well... better than a "fancy a shag" pm wasn't it.. ????
Sex God
Quote by Happy Cats
Whats a compliment?
:cry:
What he said
I LURRVE giving compliments...without doubt there are some FANTASTICLY SEXY women on SH.
PS Anyone fancy a shag????
