When I was 21 I was 6ft4, 13st, with my own pad and a great job, I was fussy.
Well I think I was because now I'm a 43 year old 20st single parent fussy is what other people do, to me! :0(
Advice to younger guys who are fussy. Either stop being fussy and grab every opportunity as if it might be your last. Oh and stay off the beer and pies, maybe work out a little more. Otherwise in twenty years or so you might end up a sad bastard like me. :0)