Do you get less fussy as you get older?

1 Nov 2009

Gonna keep the opening post short as I want your opinions.
I'm lucky that I have a younger very attractive wife. In boxing terms Ive punched well above me weight. Still I find as I get older I am less fussy with the ladies I look at say out of the car window. I now say "Ummm I would you know" to ladies I wouldn't have looked at twice 10 years ago. I wondered way back that when I am 50 what would happen cus I dont fancy 50 year old woman lol

Does who we are sexually attracted to expand as years go by to cope with our gaining age? Ive not found myself attracted to vastly older ladies yet but I sure am less fussy in the size and shape department.

1 Nov 2009

Maybe you're not so much growing old, as growing up?
I know as I get older, I have a wider range of criteria I consider important - and I reaslise that looks is never a good criterion for partner selection if it's the only one. It's ok as one of many, but not alone.
I know I am fussier about behaviour - not less.

1 Nov 2009

I think I've got fussier the last 4 yrs! I won't give a guy a chance to pull the wool over my eyes again so if they don't wanna play by my terms - next!
I have found my taste in men has changed considerably... I tend to be into the arty, flirty, humorous, open and honest types these days - with similar tastes/ideas/likes to me and local.
Easier to get on my hit list these days than my hot list... confused

:?

:lol: :lol:

2 Nov 2009

Someone once told me as I get older quantity won't matter, it would be quality that I seek...........
they lied................ :mrgreen:

2 Nov 2009

Quote by foxylady2209
Maybe you're not so much growing old, as growing up?
I know as I get older, I have a wider range of criteria I consider important - and I reaslise that looks is never a good criterion for partner selection if it's the only one. It's ok as one of many, but not alone.
I know I am fussier about behaviour - not less.

What she said! :thumbup:

2 Nov 2009

Im pretty unfussy as it is. lol. Theres just not very much that I dont find sexy :P

2 Nov 2009

I like a nice fussing
lp

2 Nov 2009

I don't think I've got less fussy but my tastes have definitely changed biggrin

I used to be very into 'tall, dark and handsome' and about 6 years older than me - now my tastes are all over the place..

2 Nov 2009

When I was younger I used to fancy a very narrow spectrum of ladies but as I have gotten older my narrow spectrum has become broader and broader...
I wouldn't say I'm less fussy but I would say I appreciate more now than I did then if that makes any sense....

2 Nov 2009

i am getting very fussy. The older i get the fussier i get.
i know what i want and wont settle for less.
Quality not quantity.

2 Nov 2009

Quote by midsprincess
Quality not quantity.

I've been telling women that for years :lol2:

2 Nov 2009

I just like to have sensual times with people that I like. I dont knoe if that makes me fussy or not.

2 Nov 2009

I don't know if I've got fussier as I've got older. When I was in my teens and twenties there were lots of guys around who I found attractive, now I'm lucky if I notice one guy a year who I think 'yum I want him'!
I don't think my taste in men has changed - so where are all the guys with gorgeous eyes, hair I can run my fingers through, toned body, knows how to flirt and knows how to kiss!
I mean come on, am I asking too much :shock:
Mrs Secksy
rolleyes

2 Nov 2009

Quote by secksy_cpl
I don't know if I've got fussier as I've got older. When I was in my teens and twenties there were lots of guys around who I found attractive, now I'm lucky if I notice one guy a year who I think 'yum I want him'!
I don't think my taste in men has changed - so where are all the guys with gorgeous eyes, hair I can run my fingers through, toned body, knows how to flirt and knows how to kiss!
I mean come on, am I asking too much :shock:
Mrs Secksy

Good morning :silly:

2 Nov 2009

Quote by midsprincess
i am getting very fussy. The older i get the fussier i get.
i know what i want and wont settle for less.
Quality not quantity.

I think that about sums it up for me... its been a journey to get to the stage that I am at now... and likes/dislikes, attitude and outlook have all changed since I have been here.... smile

actually ... had a moment on saturday that did make me laugh, had various ladies come up to me in the club I was in and asking me why I was single... and i thought to myself that I have grown up so much, these women wouldn't have given me the time of day years ago.. and now... well, for 5 seconds at least it was nice to feel desired... and for me to be able to take it in.....

2 Nov 2009

thinking about it, its probably my inexperience that makes me not fussy. I was to experience *everything*.
The good, the bad and the messy.
how can you have boundaries, when you dont even know what you like?

2 Nov 2009

Quote by Anoush
I was to experience *everything*....

<<<Jumps to the front of the queue, shoves his hand up, adjusts crotch, bitch slaps Nola out of the way and bares his fangs and shouts..... "I'm ready for my close-up Mr Demille!"
But, on a more serious note, I have to say Anoush - I think you have a really great attitude... whatever path life takes you down you're cool :thumbup:

2 Nov 2009

cheers b1oke :thumbup: biggrin

2 Nov 2009

Quote by Anoush
cheers b1oke :thumbup:

You're welcome - enough compliments can I make you my biatch now please? :twisted: wink

2 Nov 2009

Lol, one day you guys will have me and be totally disappointed :P
Rude, Tiny penis and no sense of sexual adventure. I really dont bear thinking about.
As I explained to Kaz in a PM, Id be all up in the newcastle scene, but my uni and other commitments doom me (at the moment) to a life of hermitry. thats why I like SH. I can have some quick sexy fun smile

2 Nov 2009

I'm as fussy as I ever was, not changed at all rolleyes

However as time goes by, I wished I wasn't so fussy and could be more open with my likes/dislikes dunno

2 Nov 2009

I am still exactly as fussy as I ever was.
Good job I was never fussy... smile

2 Nov 2009

My original point got kind of lost but its been an interesting read none the less cool

My Ref was looking out the car window lol

This is hardly time to get to know anyone I was talking on a much more cosmetic level than most of the replies have been suggesting.

2 Nov 2009

Quote by tweeky
My original point got kind of lost but its been an interesting read none the less My Ref was looking out the car window This is hardly time to get to know anyone I was talking on a much more cosmetic level than most of the replies have been suggesting.

Ya didn't say that in your original post confused

:? :lol: :lol: :lol:
So your going from looks alone?

2 Nov 2009

Quote by Anoush
As I explained to Kaz in a PM, Id be all up in the newcastle scene, but my uni and other commitments doom me (at the moment) to a life of hermitry. thats why I like SH. I can have some quick sexy fun

How fortunate for you that it looks like I'm going to be down in London on business now on Thursday - we can light Roman Candles together. Don't tell me, you're washing your hair?! wink

2 Nov 2009

Quote by anais
My original point got kind of lost but its been an interesting read none the less My Ref was looking out the car window This is hardly time to get to know anyone I was talking on a much more cosmetic level than most of the replies have been suggesting.

Ya didn't say that in your original post confused

:? :lol: :lol: :lol:
So your going from looks alone?

Still I find as I get older I am less fussy with the ladies I look at say out of the car window.

:whistles:
Me, I'm much more fussy now...or is that cynical? dunno

2 Nov 2009

Quote by BIoke
I was to experience *everything*....

<<<Jumps to the front of the queue, shoves his hand up, adjusts crotch, bitch slaps Nola out of the way and bares his fangs and shouts..... "I'm ready for my close-up Mr Demille!"
But, on a more serious note, I have to say Anoush - I think you have a really great attitude... whatever path life takes you down you're cool :thumbup:

Bloke, I think everyone on the forum knows I adore you, but that post right there is the reason why! :rotflmao:
Oh and *looks disdainfully at Bloke, and swishes her fan* just remember, "I am big. It's the pictures that got small." cool

2 Nov 2009

Quote by anais
So your going from looks alone?

YUP

2 Nov 2009

Quote by tweeky
So your going from looks alone?

YUP

Your so shallow wink

3 Nov 2009

Quote by Kaznkev
As I explained to Kaz in a PM, Id be all up in the newcastle scene, but my uni and other commitments doom me (at the moment) to a life of hermitry. thats why I like SH. I can have some quick sexy fun

How fortunate for you that it looks like I'm going to be down in London on business now on Thursday - we can light Roman Candles together. Don't tell me, you're washing your hair?! wink

no fair :cry:
thinks what excuse can i think of to get to london on tuesday?
Why dunno

blokes not going to be there until thursday? lol

:lol: