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Casanova
Only once have I played without kissing and I didn't like it. I refused to meet the guy again. It's all part of foreplay to me and essential to getting in the mood.
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
yes, yes, YES!!!!!!
ab-so-bloomin-lutely to right I snog....its such a turn on and part of what makes a fab sexy situation even better
Ooooh, me too! Nothing like a good hard snog to get the juices flowing... so to speak!
Quote by swinger29
We were wondering how people stand on kissing, particularly french kissing. We are okay with it, but realise that not everyone else is. It can be a real turn on to see your partner being that intimate with another.
I absolutely adore kissing..... But I'm really not sure how I'd feel if someone I loved snogged another guy whilst we were playing together. I suspect I might find that quite difficult. Strangely (or maybe not), though I haven't been in either situation, I think it would be easier to see a close partner being fucked rather than snogged.... Is that something others feel?
Sex God
Quote by Misterwood
We were wondering how people stand on kissing, particularly french kissing. We are okay with it, but realise that not everyone else is. It can be a real turn on to see your partner being that intimate with another.
I absolutely adore kissing..... But I'm really not sure how I'd feel if someone I loved snogged another guy whilst we were playing together. I suspect I might find that quite difficult. Strangely (or maybe not), though I haven't been in either situation, I think it would be easier to see a close partner being fucked rather than snogged.... Is that something others feel?
Good question... something I have often wondered. But then I think, just like having sex, there's a difference between kissing someone you're in love with and a snog during a play situation...
but maybe that's just me? 
Casanova
Quote by markz
I tried french kissing once but didn't like the garlic.............
You're not supposed to kiss garlic :shock: Try a person next time!! doofus!
Sex God
I adore kissing
Least I think I do, Ive forgotten what its like
Least I think I do, Ive forgotten what its like
Quote by Cherrytree
I love to snog
What she said :thumbup:
What they said :thumbup: Youve got to have snogging , it says so many things that words cant.
Quote by swinger29
We were wondering how people stand on kissing, particularly french kissing. We are okay with it, but realise that not everyone else is. It can be a real turn on to see your partner being that intimate with another.
Ive done the Kissing and not kissing and both ways are great :thumbup:
I don't always want to be romantic when im shagging :rascal:
Louise xx
Sex God
This is something me and the Mr have discussed have discussed in the past cpl of weeks. I always kiss/snog the females we meet as women kiss differently to men, in my opionion, so it's nice to experience this.
As for the men we meet, I haven't ever kissed them. This probably sounds weird but it feels too intimate to snog another man, in front of my man. It probably does sound :confused2: as im having sex with these men and u probably couldn't get any more intimate with someone. I dunno, this is gonna sound weird but I feel as though if I snog another man, it's kinda showing feelings for them
The Mr said if I ever want to do it, to do it, but I'm not too sure. I'm just not comfortable with it. Think I'll just stick to the
and 
with men for now
Miss Cream xxx
PS I din't realise so many ppl did kiss in meets til I read this
As for the men we meet, I haven't ever kissed them. This probably sounds weird but it feels too intimate to snog another man, in front of my man. It probably does sound :confused2: as im having sex with these men and u probably couldn't get any more intimate with someone. I dunno, this is gonna sound weird but I feel as though if I snog another man, it's kinda showing feelings for them
The Mr said if I ever want to do it, to do it, but I'm not too sure. I'm just not comfortable with it. Think I'll just stick to the
and with men for now Miss Cream xxx
PS I din't realise so many ppl did kiss in meets til I read this
Sex God
Quote by winchwench
I think kissing is more intimate than penetrative sex.
Erm, thats it really!
U do??????
:bounce: I really thought I was odd reading back on other ppl's thoughts! Yey!
Miss Cream xxx
When the ex-missus and I were together and swinging the ex agreed that pretty much anything goes when we're meeting other couples, but the only thing she insisted on was that I wouldn't kiss anyone else. She was very insistent on that point. She reckoned that kissing was a sign of affection and she couldn't deal with that... shag 'em up the poop chute, yeah, but don't kiss 'em!
Weird if you ask me
Weird if you ask me
Sex God
When we first started swinging I as the male half and 99% voyeur really didn't want to have my spouse kissing others, as Mrs cream says it seemed too intimate obscurely. After a little time I realised that seeing J kiss other fems was an interesting proposition so we discussed it and that was that fem on fem kissing was introduced. Good job too as its just a big bit of horny i think!
As time went on we discussed as one does and let the kissing become part of the couple play. Now I know people might think, but if kissing a bloke half of a couple is allowed why not single blokes? Well this is me Mr Lost's insecurity sort of through experience asking J not to kiss single guys. I'll try and explain why.
When first swinging we mainly entertained single guys and that was cool we met some really lovely men in doing so. One problem I found though being that i just watched was that i did use to get jealous. I'm not afraid to admit if during the play with single guys there was kissing and also whispering I'd be uncomfortable, i guess together with verbal exclusion of myself is a turn off for me. I might not be in the action but too me i'm still part of the 3sum even if its not physical.
I know it seems odd that i feel it ok for couples with J to kiss but inwardly i think to myself they are going home with each other. The experience of some single guys maybe being 'too' intimate and sort of trying to romance J a bit too much leaves me feeling awkward.
As its not an issue for J then its agreed that she doesn't kiss single guys. If it was then of course we would talk about it more. I think it all comes down to how we feel about ourselves and each other and coming to a satisfactory comfort point for both.
Does this read right? I think i might of just confused the issue coming across as hard on single guys i guess but hey if we met single fems the boundaries would be the same - no passion kissing sgl guys or women on meets.
As time went on we discussed as one does and let the kissing become part of the couple play. Now I know people might think, but if kissing a bloke half of a couple is allowed why not single blokes? Well this is me Mr Lost's insecurity sort of through experience asking J not to kiss single guys. I'll try and explain why.
When first swinging we mainly entertained single guys and that was cool we met some really lovely men in doing so. One problem I found though being that i just watched was that i did use to get jealous. I'm not afraid to admit if during the play with single guys there was kissing and also whispering I'd be uncomfortable, i guess together with verbal exclusion of myself is a turn off for me. I might not be in the action but too me i'm still part of the 3sum even if its not physical.
I know it seems odd that i feel it ok for couples with J to kiss but inwardly i think to myself they are going home with each other. The experience of some single guys maybe being 'too' intimate and sort of trying to romance J a bit too much leaves me feeling awkward.
As its not an issue for J then its agreed that she doesn't kiss single guys. If it was then of course we would talk about it more. I think it all comes down to how we feel about ourselves and each other and coming to a satisfactory comfort point for both.
Does this read right? I think i might of just confused the issue coming across as hard on single guys i guess but hey if we met single fems the boundaries would be the same - no passion kissing sgl guys or women on meets.
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