I mean I felt him cum in terms of his whole body going rigid, but there was no liquid, so to speak
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Sex God
it happens to most blokes at some point in time..... normally after the 7th time when there is nothing left to come out so to speak.... 
:D
there have been times when i have gone on for so long and i know in my head then nothing is going to happen.. doesn't mean i am not enjoying it....
sean xxxxxx
:D there have been times when i have gone on for so long and i know in my head then nothing is going to happen.. doesn't mean i am not enjoying it....
sean xxxxxx
Sex God
Yup! I've given a BJ to a guy on several occassions and he had - shall we say - scant out put
He said it was because he had so little sex at home that his body had stopped producing the fluid - personally I think he spent too much time wanking!
Tracy-Jayne
He said it was because he had so little sex at home that his body had stopped producing the fluid - personally I think he spent too much time wanking!
Tracy-Jayne
Warming the Bed
Hi
Its not uncommon for my bloke to cum without the liquid. He is in fact quite proud of the fact. I believe from what he has told me the orgasm is just as strong as well he cums with liquid. The reason he choose to do it this way at times, is because he doesn't want to make a mess when he has no one to clean up after him.
Come on lads let us know if it happens to you.
Cass xxx
Its not uncommon for my bloke to cum without the liquid. He is in fact quite proud of the fact. I believe from what he has told me the orgasm is just as strong as well he cums with liquid. The reason he choose to do it this way at times, is because he doesn't want to make a mess when he has no one to clean up after him.
Come on lads let us know if it happens to you.
Cass xxx
Hello all... A blokes perspective...
This has happened to me a little but only on two occasions;
First was after a very active night at around 5am when i think I literally had nothing left!
Second was after a night on the piss when I was on the borderline of being 'unable' so maybe I was just pushing my luck a bit too much there...
Other than that.... Not really... unless faking when fully bagged up and running away to the toilet to destroy the evidence counts... She was shit though...
DAH69
This has happened to me a little but only on two occasions;
First was after a very active night at around 5am when i think I literally had nothing left!
Second was after a night on the piss when I was on the borderline of being 'unable' so maybe I was just pushing my luck a bit too much there...
Other than that.... Not really... unless faking when fully bagged up and running away to the toilet to destroy the evidence counts... She was shit though...
DAH69
Quote by wildscent123
Hi
Its not uncommon for my bloke to cum without the liquid. He is in fact quite proud of the fact. I believe from what he has told me the orgasm is just as strong as well he cums with liquid. The reason he choose to do it this way at times, is because he doesn't want to make a mess when he has no one to clean up after him.
Come on lads let us know if it happens to you.
Cass xxx
He can do it at will?!! :shock: What does he do, strain to keep his tube shut? Wouldn`t he explode or something? What if it starts running out huis nose?!
Venusxxx
Sex God
Quote by wildscent123
Hi
Its not uncommon for my bloke to cum without the liquid. He is in fact quite proud of the fact. I believe from what he has told me the orgasm is just as strong as well he cums with liquid. The reason he choose to do it this way at times, is because he doesn't want to make a mess when he has no one to clean up after him.
Come on lads let us know if it happens to you.
Cass xxx
He 'chooses' to cum without fluid??! :shock:
Sounds to me like a case of faking the orgasm
Tracy-Jayne & Jon
Orgasminator
If you exercise your PC muscles enough it's possible to contract them at orgasm giving you a dry ejaculation at will. 
Warming the Bed
He can do it at will?!! :shock: What does he do, strain to keep his tube shut? Wouldn`t he explode or something? What if it starts running out huis nose?!
Venusxxx
Not sure exactly how he does it, but yes he does it at will. Haven't noticed his nose running excessively afterwards. I was curious myself as to how he did it so I watched to see if he leaked or not. Yes he did leak a little but did not ejaculate. He says its like stopping yourself having a pee. He uses the same muscle.
Cass
Quote by DreamerHelen
Hi Guys......I gave a guy a blowjob and he came, but he didn't cum......if that makes sense....
no but i no what u mean
Quote by fabio grooverider
it happens to most blokes at some point in time..... normally after the 7th time when there is nothing left to come out so to speak...
and i agree with u here sean
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personally I think he spent too much time wanking!
my secrets out now!!
It is something that does happen to some. I have experienced it and no ill effects. Sometimes it is due to many things and everything. Maybe some are afraid to say, but I think it is like the orgasms some women have where everything happens except the fluid? I have on occasion experienced I think something like a double orgasm, where I start to come a little, and it sort of suddenly seems to stop, and then BANG it goes ballistic?
Sex God
HI Helen
Yeah its happened to me too hun, actually it made a pleasant change, no need to pop a mint in me mouth.
Yeah its happened to me too hun, actually it made a pleasant change, no need to pop a mint in me mouth.
Personally, I think these guys are faking....
When I get going, there's no way I can control myself... you should see the amount of laundry my fella has at the end of a weekend visit! :twisted:
But it does have to be said that His Lordship often claims to be able to control the flow... obviously i'm doing something wrong.
When I get going, there's no way I can control myself... you should see the amount of laundry my fella has at the end of a weekend visit! :twisted:
But it does have to be said that His Lordship often claims to be able to control the flow... obviously i'm doing something wrong.
Sex God
Yeah I can kinda do it. I can stop myself from cumming, but the feelings not quite the same and it takes absolutely forever for me to get anywhere near cumming again.
Can be a bit of a nightmare sometimes. Especially if you choose the wrong moment to "control" yourself.
Can be a bit of a nightmare sometimes. Especially if you choose the wrong moment to "control" yourself.
Sex God
Quote by Mister_Discreet
This is why there are 2 different words for ejaculation and orgasm.
The other combination is possible for men too, ejaculation but no orgasm, it's supposed to have evolved as nature's response to being interrupted by the unexpected arrival of an angry husband.
:rotflmao: ROTFPMSL :rotflmao: :rotflmao: An orgasm without ejaculation???? OO-er, what a terrible proposition. Sounds to me like the BJ just wasn't doing the trick and this fella has conjoured up a mightily impressive, ahem*, excuse. Thank The Lord such an experience has not visited me. If I got to the point of cumming from a BJ, I would be so ecstatic I'd show my appreciation with a fine release!
This has definitely happened to me in a few different circumstances -
It happens when all my reserves are spent, but also if I get really close to the edge, and want to stop my self 'going over', I contract my PC muscles. This normally works, but if you leave it too late, you end up getting an orgasm feeling without cumming. The annoying (or good, depending on your circumstances) thing is that you never feel quite sated, but it desensitisies (sp?) your penis, so you then have to go at it for ages to be able to come properly!
Happened to me last night at a reservoir in brum - we were meant to be parked up for a quickie, ended up there for over an hour! :shock:
CM
It happens when all my reserves are spent, but also if I get really close to the edge, and want to stop my self 'going over', I contract my PC muscles. This normally works, but if you leave it too late, you end up getting an orgasm feeling without cumming. The annoying (or good, depending on your circumstances) thing is that you never feel quite sated, but it desensitisies (sp?) your penis, so you then have to go at it for ages to be able to come properly!
Happened to me last night at a reservoir in brum - we were meant to be parked up for a quickie, ended up there for over an hour! :shock:
CM
In my limited experience ..and recalling younger days when one found difficulty in appeasing the great god Phallus..if one condensed repeated orgasms into a limited time frame then one did reach a stage at which one didnt so much as ejaculate but rather moistened slightly at the tip....no matter how sexy the lady I obviously had a finite resevoir and production was unable to keep pace with sales sometimes But yes a dry cum is possible.
Also when young and inquisitive and wanting to enjoy the intensity of an orgasm whilst in the mouth of a girlfriend that objected to protein infusions we perfected a technique whereby I would press very hard on the perineum( the area between the balls and the anus)this effectively shut off the urethra and prevented the semen from escaping ...a dry cum....warning ...NEVER USE THIS AS A CONTRACEPTIVE METHOD leaks can and do happen. The method has its draw backs though ...you have to get the timing right to early and you don't cum just get cramp in your fingers..too late and ....oops apologies are the order of the day.
But yes a dry cum is possible.Also when young and inquisitive and wanting to enjoy the intensity of an orgasm whilst in the mouth of a girlfriend that objected to protein infusions we perfected a technique whereby I would press very hard on the perineum( the area between the balls and the anus)this effectively shut off the urethra and prevented the semen from escaping ...a dry cum....warning ...NEVER USE THIS AS A CONTRACEPTIVE METHOD leaks can and do happen. The method has its draw backs though ...you have to get the timing right to early and you don't cum just get cramp in your fingers..too late and ....oops apologies are the order of the day.
Yes, well nice for the guys who claim tantric/control techniques of a superman. Yeah, right, fellas, we all beleive and admire you great reigning sex gods.
Frankly I agree with most of the girls on here - it sounds like a bit of fakery to me. We all know how to give the old hampton the right kind of twitch to simulate the real thing and ashow apprecision or be just plain polite (especially if the footie is about to start on the box)
And what the hell's the point ? My gf relishes the, er, output, and who am I to say no.
The Kent Host
Frankly I agree with most of the girls on here - it sounds like a bit of fakery to me. We all know how to give the old hampton the right kind of twitch to simulate the real thing and ashow apprecision or be just plain polite (especially if the footie is about to start on the box)
And what the hell's the point ? My gf relishes the, er, output, and who am I to say no.
The Kent Host
No it not mad, from my extensive research (Well the Guide to Sex book I had in my teens) it is common in some belief systems for the man to preserve his semen by not ejaculating. They see it as the loss of energy or life force and thus ejaculate rarely.
Apparently advanced practitioners can learn to ejaculate internally, but the book does mention this is unsatisfying, pass I cant do it... I can however like the other guys 'run out' after the 5 or 6th time and need a day to recharge. Equally after a days break get a far better explosion in all senses...
Apparently advanced practitioners can learn to ejaculate internally, but the book does mention this is unsatisfying, pass I cant do it... I can however like the other guys 'run out' after the 5 or 6th time and need a day to recharge. Equally after a days break get a far better explosion in all senses...
Warming the Bed
Been chatting to my bloke again about not ejaculating. He says its no way as good as the full thing, but when needs be its better than making a mess for himself to clean up. He also says after a short while it feels like his ball need emptying.
Cass xxx
Cass xxx
Quote by celticq
I would press very hard on the perineum( the area between the balls and the anus)
Well you learn new things on Swinging Heaven every day. I always thought this bit was call your tizent :!:
Because is it isn't your arse and it isn't your balls.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: Celtiq I much prefer your version
Tallnhairy is quite correct in his reading. It is common for most martial arts/tantric followers. I think dreamers point was to ask if it happened to plain joe NOT the gofted sex god/Kunk Fu masters out there!
Maybe some guys have never had one so have not experienced it, so cant really understand it...likewise women cant relate to it if they always cum so to speak and never orgasm without some output. I think only those who have on both sides can relate to it, so yes it does happen and sometimes as said it can be accidental and throw off all the fun!
Maybe some guys have never had one so have not experienced it, so cant really understand it...likewise women cant relate to it if they always cum so to speak and never orgasm without some output. I think only those who have on both sides can relate to it, so yes it does happen and sometimes as said it can be accidental and throw off all the fun!
The closest I can come (no pun) to this is:
When I was v early 20's, fresh from 8 months rehabilitation and the fittest I've ever been in my life; I was able to "f*ck through" ejaculation, although not every time and not with every girl. The lady had to maintain a certain level of 'natural lubrication' but even so; it did make my foreskin a little sore at times. Any subsequent orgasms were 'dry' but mind blowing. I am a firm believer in the existence of the male orgasm that is not necessarily signalled by ejaculation.
At an early stage in my career I was shown/taught/beaten into 'working through' all sorts of things over and above reciting number rank name is CS. Whether that had any bearing , I don't know.
When I was v early 20's, fresh from 8 months rehabilitation and the fittest I've ever been in my life; I was able to "f*ck through" ejaculation, although not every time and not with every girl. The lady had to maintain a certain level of 'natural lubrication' but even so; it did make my foreskin a little sore at times. Any subsequent orgasms were 'dry' but mind blowing. I am a firm believer in the existence of the male orgasm that is not necessarily signalled by ejaculation.
At an early stage in my career I was shown/taught/beaten into 'working through' all sorts of things over and above reciting number rank name is CS. Whether that had any bearing , I don't know.
