Exactly how many people have you shagged?

16 Nov 2006

Quote by Kiss
Lesbians have penetrative sex.

Now THERE'S a whole new topic for a thread. I've never thought about it before, I mean, why should I have lol

, but isn't it a pretty one sided pleasure? I kind of like to feel we're both enjoying it in that very sexual tingly sense, I can see that giving pleasure is satisfying, but I'm much too selfish to think that might be fun for very long!
Discuss.
I suppose, (he says pausing to think - unusual in itself), that there are other places one could be stimulated at the same time.

16 Nov 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
Don't worry, i'm not asking for numbers or anything
This sort of started with a recent discussion with vanilla mates and the question came up. My immediate thought was 'how do you define a sexual partner?'
Is it a snog, a grope, a bit of oral
or does it have to be penetrative sex (and if so how would you define it for a lesbian)
I'm still not entirely sure what i think myself, rather interested to hear your thoughts on the subject

hmmm when I first read this my intial post was going to read

I think I'd define a sexual partner as someone I'd got naked with. If I've got that intimite with them then it's been more than a snog and a grope going on

But then I realised I'd been naked in a jacuzzi in a club with some relative strangers and didn't get intimite with them
I need to think about this some more me thinks lol

16 Nov 2006

Quote by musketeer
Lesbians have penetrative sex.

Now THERE'S a whole new topic for a thread. I've never thought about it before, I mean, why should I have lol

, but isn't it a pretty one sided pleasure? I kind of like to feel we're both enjoying it in that very sexual tingly sense, I can see that giving pleasure is satisfying, but I'm much too selfish to think that might be fun for very long!
Discuss.
I suppose, (he says pausing to think - unusual in itself), that there are other places one could be stimulated at the same time.
ummm you need to really think about this babe... if you wanna come into my PM box and think seriously about how you are defining pleasure.. and how that would translate into a lesbian sexual expereince. I am happy to talk it through with you...
But believe me when I am fucking a woman there is nothing one sided about it..... :twisted:

16 Nov 2006

Quote by splendid33
Lesbians have penetrative sex.

Discuss.

if you wanna come into my PM box and think seriously about how you are defining pleasure
Yes sure, only not just now because my dog has asked for cake so we must go out and buy some :lickface:

16 Nov 2006

Quote by splendid33
Lesbians have penetrative sex.

Discuss.

if you wanna come into my PM box and think seriously about how you are defining pleasure
Yes sure, only not just now because my dog has asked for cake so we must go out and buy some :lickface:

16 Nov 2006

Quote by musketeer
Lesbians have penetrative sex.

Discuss.

if you wanna come into my PM box and think seriously about how you are defining pleasure
Yes sure, only not just now because my dog has asked for cake so we must go out and buy some :lickface:
for me, that would be no contest
throw the dog something from the cupboard, cake can happen later....

16 Nov 2006

I've slept with the number of women who have wanted to sleep with me! smile

16 Nov 2006

Quote by Sarah
Lip balm should be issued at parties as well to certain females!!! :twisted:

NOOOOOO!
Lip balm is a Chris repellant! I hate the feel of second hand lip balm, so I've never used it on myself.
Chris
PS wave

hello Sarah kiss

16 Nov 2006

Fee promises not to wear lip balm if Marms is anywhere in the vacinity so she can get a sensational snog like last time! biggrin

:twisted:
Erm.....what was this thread about again?? :shock: lol

Fee
XX

16 Nov 2006

Quote by seasider
I've slept with the number of women who have wanted to sleep with me!

I haven't, the number of women I have slept with bear no relation to the number of women who wanted to sleep with me, although it's possible that some of my number never really wanted to, or at least regretted it in the morning surprised

16 Nov 2006

Quote by LadyFeeBee
Fee promises not to wear lip balm if Marms is anywhere in the vacinity so she can get a sensational snog like last time! :twisted:
Erm.....what was this thread about again?? :shock:
Fee
XX

Suddenly it's all about us, sweet-child-o-mine!

assionkiss::passionkiss:

16 Nov 2006

Quote by marmalaid

Lip balm should be issued at parties as well to certain females!!! :twisted:

NOOOOOO!
Lip balm is a Chris repellant! I hate the feel of second hand lip balm, so I've never used it on myself.
Chris
PS wave

hello Sarah kiss

:wave: Hi marms :kiss:
Ok I'll give the lip balm a miss,
Cooeee Fee xx
What was the question again :giggle:

16 Nov 2006

Quote by BiWelshMinx
Confused?

Yes please! (I'd like to try all of those)
I think you know when you've crossed the line and it can be different things with different people. If you've looked into their eyes - I mean really looked into their eyes then you've been there.
WTF all this about sleeping with someone?
.

16 Nov 2006

Well i didn't want to put fucked in the title, but i've changed it to something more suitable now rolleyes

17 Nov 2006

Doing the numbers can be quite frightening if you're a serious swinger..
I'm not offering a life total.. But my wife and I did one time work out how many different people we had been "intimate with" in the first year of our marriage. ( approx 12 years ago)
Bear in mind that we were attending or hosting swinging parties possibly every other week, plus doing quite a few club nights..
We counted up separate individuals, (not counting a person twice who either of us were intimate with at two separate parties) My total for the year was 64, and my wife's tally for the same period was twice that, and a bit.. ( Women always do seem to have more fun..) We attended the same parties and events but she had more partners per event.
(Our calculations didn't include fem on fem contact or the figures would have been a lot higher)
That year was a particularly "good one', but if you lived that lifestyle on a long term basis.. the numbers really could get quite serious....!

17 Nov 2006

16

17 Nov 2006

Not enough wink

17 Nov 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
Well i didn't want to put fucked in the title, but i've changed it to something more suitable now

Have you been hanging around with Markz again? You keep rolling your eyes lately.
:lol2:

17 Nov 2006

Quote by Kiss
Well i didn't want to put fucked in the title, but i've changed it to something more suitable now

Have you been hanging around with Markz again? You keep rolling your eyes lately.
:lol2:
They're starting to resemble Colin & Justin! :shock:

17 Nov 2006

If I am a half wit what do I count as?

17 Nov 2006

Three
:cry:
Offers to increase here please

18 Nov 2006

Now thinking about this is bloody frightening and im not bragging but from being in my late teens to my early twenties, i used to go out Thursday, Friday and saturday night, and usually scored 2 out of 3 nights, ( forgive the use of the word scored but thats how we used the term)
Thursday was always nailed on at the Aquarius in Chesterfield, (Now a fitness Centre) because it was what used to be called a grab a granny night lol, You buggers know the score wink

and i would usually score either the friday or Saturday night.
But you work the figures out over approx 5 years. :shock:
bloody hell, mind i wish thru those years i knew what a clitoris did! id have been some kind of god instead of a roll on and roll of merchant. lol

mind i did have a laugh, Pandoras box.
Ps it was quite common for most of the blokes i used to go boozing with to get the same success.

18 Nov 2006

Not enough but I'm working on it :twisted:

18 Nov 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
Not enough but I'm working on it :twisted:

Typical woman ~~~~~always wants more lol

:lol: :lol:

18 Nov 2006

Quote by Sarah
Not enough but I'm working on it :twisted:

Typical woman ~~~~~always wants more lol

:lol: :lol:
and your point is? dunno

:twisted:

18 Nov 2006

1,497, 231.... :rascal:

18 Nov 2006

Quote by Bloke2005
1,497, 231.... :rascal:

Had a few weeks off have you hunni? wink

18 Nov 2006

Quote by Bloke2005
1,497, 231.... :rascal:

Bloke2005
Are you sure you counted correclty??
:P

18 Nov 2006

Does it really matter how many, you (insert name here) were the only one that meant anything.

18 Nov 2006

Quote by PoloLady
Does it really matter how many, you (insert name here) were the only one that meant anything.