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fantasing about someone else while having sex

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Unknown User
oh yes..... in fact if I think that worlass is taking too long to cum wink then I will start talking about other people. rotflmao
Unknown User
oh yes LOLOL all the time...in fact we do what Splen said up there^^ on a regular basis :twisted:
little_bighorn
Warming the Bed
Yes,Catherine Zeta Jones does it for me every time
Come to think of it Jane MacDonald does it for
me as well,don't know why,must be the sexy Yorkshire
accent confused
L.B
Unknown User
I do all the time when I'm having a lady wank. I shut my eyes and go to my 'horny place' :twisted: I used to fantasise about other people when I was with ex hubby but I can hontesly say I've never done it with anyone else since ex hubby.
The only one I think about is the one in my bed at that time wink
Unknown User
no
lp
Dirtygirly
Sex God
Quote by __random_orbit__
no
lp

Me neither... although I have done it once but it just felt sort of wrong. I did cum fairly quick though! redface surprisedops: :oops:
Lilmiss
Sex God
I do...especially when its a boring shag rolleyes
Unknown User
Quote by Lilmiss
I do...especially when its a boring shag rolleyes

must admit :shock: :shock: yes i have but no one from here biggrin :D :D :D
well not yet anyway :roll: well no one i would mention..well ok i will name and shame ..............................NOT
steve x
Unknown User
I do occasionally fantasise while having sex but unless I'm reliving a past experience, the 'players' in my mind are faceless. It is the act or the situation that does it for me redface
bbw_loverNkitty
Sex God
Oh yes! Usually I'll think of someone like Les Dawson … and that stops me from cumming too quickly.
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Unknown User
Not often, but have in the past.
Strangely my fanatasy was about a SH member !! redface
Kazsc
Sexlightened
I don't think of anyone else but I do start thinking about what I am going to have for dinner. That usually speeds things up!
Crashnnix
Sexpert
Anne Widdicombe - that slows me down rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Unknown User
Oh yeeeessss cool
Unknown User
redface Guilty here too surprisedops:
Unknown User
Nope.. interfers with what i am experiencing! lol
Unknown User
Yes but I hope I never have to do it again; it was a really good indicator of unsatisfactory sex!
Unknown User
I am totally o.k. with worlass and I fantasising about other people when having sex. I see it just as another dimension.
I would be flattered if other people thought about me when having sex with others and I think about worlass when having sex with others and others when having sex with worlass. Sometimes I even think of the person I am with when having sex with them. It is all good as far as I am concerned. It is sex afterall.
If I wasn't aroused by the person I was with then I wouldn't be having sex with them at all let alone thinking about others.
noladreams
Sex God
Agreed Splendid: I just see it as a little extra "thing" rather than anything detrimental or guilt-inducing.
Dirtygirly
Sex God
Quote by splendid_
If I wasn't aroused by the person I was with then I wouldn't be having sex with them at all let alone thinking about others.

That kinda hits the nail on the head for me really... if I've got to the stage of having sex with someone my focus is with them. I think that's maybe why I don't have a lot of swing partners... I'm not very good at sharing the focus if that makes sense. The banter, the naughty texts and PMs and the nonsense are the things I find difficult doing with several people at once.
Maybe I should practice that some more! :rascal:
Unknown User
I said previously 'no' to this question.
I would like to add that I certainly see nothing 'wrong' with having thoughts of others...
I'm just thinking of what I'm doing, how it feels, tastes, smells... the 'moment' as it were.
lp
Crashnnix
Sexpert
oooo myleen klaas phwoarrr - oops sorry was I fantasising? lol
Gin4tonic
Forum Virgin
i think about my partner having sex with a slut that does it for me lol,i never imagine another man just my partner with another woman is that weird :idea:
Redpantherman
Sex God
Quote by splendid_
...I would be flattered if other people thought about me when having sex with others...

I did think about you a lot whilst having sex splendid...
...but I kept falling out of bed! :giggle:
bolt
Unknown User
Quote by __random_orbit__
I'm just thinking of what I'm doing, how it feels, tastes, smells... the 'moment' as it were.
lp

I tend to take certain moments like that and put them in my 'horny place'. Then when I'm having a lady wank, I can conjure up all sorts of images
:twisted:
I like my horny place wink..........though I'm thinking of moving to bigger premises - it's a bit full now redface
Unknown User
Quote by Mrsgoggins
I do occasionally fantasise while having sex but unless I'm reliving a past experience, the 'players' in my mind are faceless. It is the act or the situation that does it for me redface

Yes I agree
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