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Whats going on, my wife and I are trying to have our first 3sum Mmf, we get lots of replies, from other sites not this one, only just started here, and they seem ok and my wife approves, thinking here we go, and 3 times now they don't turn up, it realy hearts when you are looking forward to it, we are still keeping our hopes up, what does a couple have to do, to get a 3sum Mmf, any advice would be welcome, thank you.
you arranged a meet on another site and it went tits up....yet you say you've just joined sh....and you choose to complain about it on here....but look on other sites for meets. rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
Bloody hell, we have enough trouble trying to find couples never mind single males, which there are plenty of!!!
Honest, give it time, u will deffo get single males filling ur inbox!!!! U will have more luck than we have.
Miss Cream xxx
Same sh*t....different day rolleyes :roll: :roll:
Im thinking about starting a thread.....moaning about the moaners lol
There are genuine single males here, you have asked in your profile guys aged 20-25 have you ever wondered it might be the age group that might be the problem.
just is life go have a good time the meets will follow dont worry about it cool
Just keep on trying....that's all I can suggest...you will meet some genuine people out there...it just takes a while to sift through the (pardon the expression) *shit*.
Put as much information on your Ad as possible so that everyone who answers it will know whether they meet your criteria.
I would suggest that you speak to the person/couple that you want to meet on the phone beforehand and make sure you meet in a public place so that there is no pressure to play and all parties concerned can back out if they want to.
I know I've said it before, and I'll probably say it again, but try joining in on the Forums and getting to know some of us...we don't bite!! lol And then get yourselves to a Social or a Munch and meet people there...you may well find someone there that is the man of both your dreams - you never know - it DOES occasionally happen biggrin
Hope that helps!!
Quote by flower411
Oh yeah ....and get yaself a thick skin before asking a question in here lol wink

Are you the rubber man from Fantastic 4 then rotflmao bolt
sorry but this is exactly what flower means :giggle:
Sex is like life itself - full of disappointments.
Plim sad
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Whats going on, my wife and I are trying to have our first 3sum Mmf, we get lots of replies, from other sites not this one, only just started here, and they seem ok and my wife approves, thinking here we go, and 3 times now they don't turn up, it realy hearts when you are looking forward to it, we are still keeping our hopes up, what does a couple have to do, to get a 3sum Mmf, any advice would be welcome, thank you.

Move a bit closer to me :lol2:
What dunno
Adding some profile text may be, about what you like / dislike, what type of male you are looking for, what sort of things you would like him to do to you etc etc
Good luck
Quote by helnheaven
Same sh*t....different day rolleyes :roll: :roll:
Im thinking about starting a thread.....moaning about the moaners lol

rotflmao oh how I love a dry humour! wink
Quote by Him2her
Whats going on, my wife and I are trying to have our first 3sum Mmf, we get lots of replies, from other sites not this one, only just started here, and they seem ok and my wife approves, thinking here we go, and 3 times now they don't turn up, it realy hearts when you are looking forward to it, we are still keeping our hopes up, what does a couple have to do, to get a 3sum Mmf, any advice would be welcome, thank you.

I would have said this:
Quote by Mr-cream123
you arranged a meet on another site and it went tits up....yet you say you've just joined sh....and you choose to complain about it on here....but look on other sites for meets. rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:

But Mr Cream beat me to it!
Quote by jaymar
Same sh*t....different day :roll: :roll: :roll:
Im thinking about starting a thread.....moaning about the moaners lol

rotflmao oh how I love a dry humour! wink
Me too Mar, as much as I don't love the moaners and whingers :roll: :wink:
probably the only fool proof way of meeting single guys is to go to a club......always plenty there...
RWL
xx
Effort in = effort out. If you can't make the effort to fill in your profile or post pics, then it's unlikely you'll meet the shag of your dreams. It's your first post, you've just joined. You need some patience and spend some time getting to know how the site works and take onboard advice offered.
Different parts of the site works for different people. Some get their meets from the forums, some from the ads, some from the chatrooms and some from the many socials and munches organised. You need to try the different ways and see what works best for you.
Keep trying - you'll be shagged one way or another!! lol
Mal
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Quote by Plimboy
Sex is like life itself - full of disappointments.
Plim sad

:therethere:
Shit happens. I could write a book on the let downs I've had - as I'm sure could many other people.
I'm also a member of other sites, however, SH is the only one that proves to be successful re: meets.
Now and again, I get reeeeaaaaallly pissed off with the no-shows and cancellations and general arseholes but I either get over it (as someone said - same shit, different day) or if I'm reeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaally peed off, I take a break from it all for a while.
I don't know what your approach is regarding arranging meets so it's hard to advise you.
are you on broadband or dial up............. rolleyes
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are you on broadband or dial up............. rolleyes

I love you. I can't help it. I just do. :roll:
personally i find it really difficult to believe a couple cant find a single guy confused
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personally i find it really difficult to believe a couple cant find a single guy confused

NN
Do you think that single guys are rebelling?
Strictly NO couples!!!! lol
Quote by splendid_
are you on broadband or dial up............. rolleyes

I love you. I can't help it. I just do. :roll:
No its true if your on broadband you get more meets...... :roll:
Quote by markz
are you on broadband or dial up............. rolleyes

I love you. I can't help it. I just do. :roll:
No its true if your on broadband you get more meets...... :roll:
Is broadband meetings for wider people???? did it work for you????
Quote by markz
are you on broadband or dial up............. rolleyes

I love you. I can't help it. I just do. :roll:
No its true if your on broadband you get more meets...... :roll:
how the feck does that work confused: :roll: rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Quote by creampie123
Bloody hell, we have enough trouble trying to find couples never mind single males, which there are plenty of!!!
Honest, give it time, u will deffo get single males filling ur inbox!!!! U will have more luck than we have.
Miss Cream xxx

Finding couples is a nightmare, finding single guys who TURN up, is getting harder each time we look. We have updated our advert and the last time we got 2 replies? :shock: Does that mean we are mingers, or just not many genuine peeps looking for meets? A strange one which leaves us baffled. :P
Quote by dekntan
are you on broadband or dial up............. rolleyes

I love you. I can't help it. I just do. :roll:
No its true if your on broadband you get more meets...... :roll:
how the feck does that work confused: :roll: rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
its all to do with bandwidth see the bigger bandwith you have the more replies you get.....honest guys just go out and get 8mb broadband and watch the replies roll in.......I can't keep up with it..... :roll:
Quote by markz
are you on broadband or dial up............. rolleyes

I love you. I can't help it. I just do. :roll:
No its true if your on broadband you get more meets...... :roll:
how the feck does that work confused: :roll: rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
its all to do with bandwidth see the bigger bandwith you have the more replies you get.....honest guys just go out and get 8mb broadband and watch the replies roll in.......I can't keep up with it..... :roll:
im on 8meg bb thought and fecking meets are like snow in august
Quote by dekntan
are you on broadband or dial up............. rolleyes

I love you. I can't help it. I just do. :roll:
No its true if your on broadband you get more meets...... :roll:
how the feck does that work confused: :roll: rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
its all to do with bandwidth see the bigger bandwith you have the more replies you get.....honest guys just go out and get 8mb broadband and watch the replies roll in.......I can't keep up with it..... :roll:
im on 8meg bb thought and fecking meets are like snow in august
I'd complain to your ISP........ biggrin
Quote by markz
are you on broadband or dial up............. rolleyes

I love you. I can't help it. I just do. :roll:
No its true if your on broadband you get more meets...... :roll:
how the feck does that work confused: :roll: rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
its all to do with bandwidth see the bigger bandwith you have the more replies you get.....honest guys just go out and get 8mb broadband and watch the replies roll in.......I can't keep up with it..... :roll:
im on 8meg bb thought and fecking meets are like snow in august
I'd complain to your ISP........ biggrin
nah im just god damn fugly lol :lol:
Quote by dekntan
nah im just god damn fugly lol :lol:

yeah I heard......
maybe you should let the misses sort the meets out..... rolleyes