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I know this has been done, but I can not find it again, and I have a new angle.
My dear W and I have been on a short break and W has been ejaculating more while we were away. So is it connected to being relaxed and carefree?
Travis
Even relaxed and carefree, I'm grateful to get an orgasm rolleyes
Ejaculation is just a dream, although I imagine it can be messy and a barrier to impromptu sex :shock:
Aaaaaa but sex is messy
and yes W says it is messy.
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I know this has been done, but I can not find it again, and I have a new angle.
My dear W and I have been on a short break and W has been ejaculating more while we were away. So is it connected to being relaxed and carefree?
Travis

I'd say it has everything to do with being more relaxed!
Nice one! :thumbup:
I have never had one! I orgasm but dont 'squirt' ....am I missing out on something apart from the mess?!?!?
Ask welsh_minx1 for some inside info Fun.
anoter angle is .. i have to be relaxed if and when i do it ... but i can also partialy hold it back if i am at home (the cleaning up stops me) but i tend to let go more if i am away or at a club and find gushing easier
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I have never had one! I orgasm but dont 'squirt' ....am I missing out on something apart from the mess?!?!?

Hell yes! :twisted:
I am a serial gusher redface i dont have any trouble letting go, its stopping i have trouble with, and it doesn`t really matter where i am as it can be hard to control
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I am a serial gusher redface i dont have any trouble letting go, its stopping i have trouble with, and it doesn`t really matter where i am as it can be hard to control

so I am not alone with finding it hard to control.
Relaxation and more beer, and praps the pelvic floor muscles being one holiday year older.
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anoter angle is .. i have to be relaxed if and when i do it ... but i can also partialy hold it back if i am at home (the cleaning up stops me) but i tend to let go more if i am away or at a club and find gushing easier

Im the opposite to you.
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anoter angle is .. i have to be relaxed if and when i do it ... but i can also partialy hold it back if i am at home (the cleaning up stops me) but i tend to let go more if i am away or at a club and find gushing easier

Im the opposite to you.
you mean your totaly unrelaxed???/
a friend of mine spoke to me about his just the other day and told me that his wife was goin to the doctors. The reason everytime they had sex she flowed like a waterfall and he didnt really enjoy.
Now for me this would be one of the biggest turn ons ever. Just wanted to see what the other ladies thought would you ever seek advice to stop this??
I'm sure I remember seeing a how-to guide on one free porn website or another...
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I'm sure I remember seeing a how-to guide on one free porn website or another...


I'm fully trained up now and have been practising the "Come hither" finger technique all day wink Mrs Dirty will be turning our mattress into papier mache come Saturday night. A quick rub of the shoulders and a couple of licks on the owd clitatotorious and we're away lol
I do not think I have ever found a lady squirt that much.
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I do not think I have ever found a lady squirt that much.

But have you been trained by a Chinese Master? wink
No just the Japanese and Indian manors.
.........and I did enjoy the lessons biggrin
I had a friend who was a real spurter(I hasten to add I can only take a little credit for that!!) it was actually acutely embarrassing for her and would often leap off mid stride so to speak, never quite knew what to do apart from cling on for dear life!
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No just the Japanese and Indian manors.
.........and I did enjoy the lessons biggrin

Are you good at sex then? Because I’m fucking shite at it redface . This squirting issue has become a mild obsession of mine, mostly due to the number of women I speak to who claim extreme gushing capabilities, and yet go bashful on me when I suggest I pull up a chair so they might demonstrate lol .
Its not an egotistical thing in the sense of “I MADE her cum” either. I’d be quite happy to watch from the sidelines whilst some digitally dextrous squirt meister procured the tsunami. I’ve never seen it happen, and the one and only time I did get an offer to watch, it turned out to be from a journalist trying to set us up for a dogging expose :shock: .
Two things I’m led to believe. Correct me if I’m wrong.
Not ALL women can squirt, but far more can than realise?
And squirting doesn’t necessarily occur at the same time as an orgasm?
You will notice I said I take little credit for her gushing if you like, and your right It would happen long before either of us reached orgasm, if indeed she ever would have with me!
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No just the Japanese and Indian manors.
.........and I did enjoy the lessons biggrin

Are you good at sex then? Because I’m fucking shite at it redface . This squirting issue has become a mild obsession of mine, mostly due to the number of women I speak to who claim extreme gushing capabilities, and yet go bashful on me when I suggest I pull up a chair so they might demonstrate lol .
Its not an egotistical thing in the sense of “I MADE her cum” either. I’d be quite happy to watch from the sidelines whilst some digitally dextrous squirt meister procured the tsunami. I’ve never seen it happen, and the one and only time I did get an offer to watch, it turned out to be from a journalist trying to set us up for a dogging expose :shock: .
Two things I’m led to believe. Correct me if I’m wrong.
Not ALL women can squirt, but far more can than realise?
And squirting doesn’t necessarily occur at the same time as an orgasm?I understand you are right on both counts.
From my own experience squirting is an over statement, but I have little experience.
We've read the 'how to' things on the internet and we've been practicing - so far ..... nothing!! I find the whole come hither thing quite uncomfy (like i really need to pee)!!
Maybe i'm just not destined to be a squirter!! lol
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We've read the 'how to' things on the internet and we've been practicing - so far ..... nothing!! I find the whole come hither thing quite uncomfy (like i really need to pee)!!
Maybe i'm just not destined to be a squirter!! lol

Keep practicing! The feeling you need to pee is very similar to a squirt orgasm anyway. Make sure you have a pee beforehand so if you do leak a little ( it happens sometimes ) it won't be enough to wet the bed!
The main thing is to relax and just go with the feeling. The more you think about trying to squirt, the less likely you are to do it. See if you can find some squirting films to watch ( Brianna Banks is a fab squirter ) and copy their technique. It's all about the stimulation - get that right and he'll be calling the lifeguard before you know it :twisted:
I think it's more a reflex thing, I have never heard of any one achieving it through practice, although I'm sure fun can be had trying. .
Practice, practice, practice.
In my experience it can go from spurts (not quite there) to a full on water cannon (truely amazing IMHO)
I am a gusher too!
We would have to agree with what has been said on here also.. you have to relax and enjoy what is being done. I would also recommend having a pee before you start and you do get the feeling that you need to pee but once that passes then it's just amazing pleasure! Hubby has perfected it now and makes me squirt loads.. having to change the bed every time afterwards ;-)
Hubby says it is a huge turn on making a woman squirt and also seeing it. It just seems to get better and better the more you do it. :-)
We find it tends to happen after either a clitoral orgasm - or if we have been fucking for a long time - say in a Club environment. Perhaps the result of either of these is being more relaxed!!
If she is then lying on her back and i kneel between her legs and rub my cock fast across her lips then this almost guarantees the flood gates to open. At first she used to stop me cos she said it made her feel 'funny' but then one day she just let go and hey - a new discovery.
We were not trying to discover this, nor were we trying to find out how to 'gush' - it is just something that happened. I can only say that if anyone is looking for a technique to achieve 'gushing' then this position and technique sure works for us.
Listens out for the stampede up the stairs.....................................
I wish i could squirt more, i love it, only happens every so often with me, and when i get there oh boy do i squirt, gush, flood, wow, best feeling ever and the mess is a bonus biggrin
I agree with the relaxed part, never managed it with a first meet, only a second, third and oh fourth lol
Happy squirting gals xx