Fetishes

8 Apr 2009

I'm fascinated by fetishes.
In fact, sometimes I think I have a fetish for fetishes lol

Seriously, it fascinates me what makes people tick in a sexual sense. I love that there are some things that turn people on that I just look at and think "huh?"
I have a something of a fetish for cross dressing: specifically, I find the sight of a hard cock in women's underwear visually very appealing. It is, for me, about the dichotomy between the masculine cock and the feminine underwear - I love that. Dunno where it came from, but there you go!
I don't for a minute mean this thread to become an excuse to mock or deride others, rather as a chance to discuss stuff.
So, my questions are:
What is your fetish?
Why do you like it?

8 Apr 2009

I like to act out my fantasy of being a short old guy fae Bonnie Scotland wink

8 Apr 2009

Leather has long been mine, the look, the feel, the smell the touch of it gets me going like nothing else.
But in recent times, latex has become something I am very interested in, for the same reasons as leather, I am a very tactile person, just touching or stroking someone dressed in fetishwear will do more for me, than full sex can do for others.
I even started a group on SH in the hope of finding more people into fetishwear.

8 Apr 2009

Ilove the fetish clothing, mainly the leater, PVC etc but I am finding that I just love boots and shoes.
It may sound odd but the PVC and boots have become my comfort blanket. A few weeks ago we went to a club with some friends, and I decided to wear normal sexy stuff (no leather, PVC or boots) and all night, I felt uncomfortable and undressed, however weeks earlier when I went in my normal stuff, I felt great.

8 Apr 2009

Believing that a fetish is something about inanimate objects I can't say that I have one.
I do indeed LOVE tattoos tho'. Nothing specific, I prefer designs that are often referred to as tribal tattoo's. The more of someone's body that is covered in them I like. I have been with some relatively unattractive people just because they have amazing designs on their body.
I think it is the knowledge that they must like pain that arouses me.I adore pain both giving and receiving. cool

8 Apr 2009

Definition-wise, it doesn't just have to be an inanimate object:
a form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body;
juju: a charm superstitiously believed to embody magical powers
excessive or irrational devotion to some activity; "made a fetish of cleanliness"

8 Apr 2009

I also have a think about picnic benches but they are always in public places and its too dam cold to sort out that kink (notice, a kink and not a fetish) wink

8 Apr 2009

Quote by noladreams
Definition-wise, it doesn't just have to be an inanimate object:
a form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body;
juju: a charm superstitiously believed to embody magical powers
excessive or irrational devotion to some activity; "made a fetish of cleanliness"

Ummm, so does loving tattoo's qualify then ?
:bounce:

8 Apr 2009

Quote by splendid_
Definition-wise, it doesn't just have to be an inanimate object:
a form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body;
juju: a charm superstitiously believed to embody magical powers
excessive or irrational devotion to some activity; "made a fetish of cleanliness"

Ummm, so does loving tattoo's qualify then ?
:bounce:
If they count as a part of the body... or if you're irrationally devoted to them - then I guess so! wink

8 Apr 2009

Depends what you class as a fetish dunno

Things i like that could be classed as a fetish range from liking the look of women in nice boots and nice underwear, not particually a wild 'fetish', since being on here i found out i have a dom side and i rather like it and i also love to tie up/handcuff and tease and even dish out the odd spanking. I have a thing for posh gilrls too but i'm not sure if thats a fetish, as is a strong attraction to Indian girls, goths and suicide type girls. Like i said at the top, it depends on what you'd class as a fetish, what you'd class as a kink and what you'd class as a natural attraction. I guess thats a whole different thread though wink

8 Apr 2009

Quote by noladreams
Definition-wise, it doesn't just have to be an inanimate object:
a form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body;
juju: a charm superstitiously believed to embody magical powers
excessive or irrational devotion to some activity; "made a fetish of cleanliness"

Ummm, so does loving tattoo's qualify then ?
:bounce:
If they count as a part of the body... or if you're irrationally devoted to them - then I guess so! wink

it seems normal to me.... confused

: I shall ask worlass.... maybe she can be the judge of whether I turn into a frenzied irrational sex fiend when faced with tattoos. cool

8 Apr 2009

Latex! :twisted:

8 Apr 2009

Quote by splendid_
Believing that a fetish is something about inanimate objects I can't say that I have one.
I do indeed LOVE tattoos tho'. Nothing specific, I prefer designs that are often referred to as tribal tattoo's. The more of someone's body that is covered in them I like. I have been with some relatively unattractive people just because they have amazing designs on their body.
I think it is the knowledge that they must like pain that arouses me.I adore pain both giving and receiving.

<<<<<<<<<<<goes off to get more ink :twisted:
i adore tattoos and piercings and long hair and the whole goth type look especially in females it rocks like fook for me

8 Apr 2009

Quote by noladreams
What is your fetish?

OK, I've thought about this for a bit and a very honest answer would be BIG cocks :shock: In that I will actively seek them out (although it doesn't mean to say I won't play with guys with smaller ones as long as they have a nice arse).

Quote by noladreams
Why do you like it?

Because I am REALLY good at sucking/swallowing them and it gives me immense pleasure to see the guys I'm with getting off on it :thumbup:
Goes back to hide under a stone confused

8 Apr 2009

A proper sub/dom relationship and all that this can entail.
Single sexual acts on their own can be nice, but there is something so much hotter about it being in that context for me.

9 Apr 2009

Quote by Resonance
A proper sub/dom relationship and all that this can entail.
Single sexual acts on their own can be nice, but there is something so much hotter about it being in that context for me.

Shouldn't that be Dom/sub? :giggle:
bolt

9 Apr 2009

my fetishs....
* Women in PVC clothing
* Desks redface

* Collars
* Canes :twisted:

9 Apr 2009

Quote by BIoke
What is your fetish?

OK, I've thought about this for a bit and a very honest answer would be BIG cocks :shock: In that I will actively seek them out (although it doesn't mean to say I won't play with guys with smaller ones as long as they have a nice arse).

Quote by noladreams
Why do you like it?

Because I am REALLY good at sucking/swallowing them and it gives me immense pleasure to see the guys I'm with getting off on it :thumbup:
Goes back to hide under a stone confused

We're such a pair of peas in a pod lol

Leather, latex, hoods, videos, estim, boots, outdoors, sports kit, bikers, truckers, hi-viz....plus a few others i'd best not mention wink

9 Apr 2009

I don't think I have a fetish confused

9 Apr 2009

Quote by Tan--Kinky
I don't think I have a fetish

How on earth do you get all those pervy points without a fetish :shock:

9 Apr 2009

Quote by fluff_n_stuff
I don't think I have a fetish

How on earth do you get all those pervy points without a fetish :shock:
Very easily rolleyes

Lots of lady wanks, lots of sex, and a keen photographer for a bloke who also has fetishes but I don't have any

9 Apr 2009

Quote by Tan--Kinky
I don't think I have a fetish

How on earth do you get all those pervy points without a fetish :shock:
Very easily rolleyes

Lots of lady wanks, lots of sex, and a keen photographer for a bloke who also has fetishes but I don't have any
Would you like some help developing some? :rascal:

9 Apr 2009

Quote by meat2pleaseu
I don't think I have a fetish

How on earth do you get all those pervy points without a fetish :shock:
Very easily rolleyes

Lots of lady wanks, lots of sex, and a keen photographer for a bloke who also has fetishes but I don't have any
Would you like some help developing some? :rascal:
Photographs? No thanks :giggle:
bolt

9 Apr 2009

Quote by meat2pleaseu
Would you like some help developing some? :rascal:

Would you? lol

If we perform together and take pics there seems to be high demand for that kind of thing on here right now... :rascal:
I'm sitting rocking in the corner waiting for your contribution to the 'watching men' thread wink

9 Apr 2009

Quote by BIoke
I'm sitting rocking in the corner waiting for your contribution to the 'watching men' thread

Desperation isn't a good look you know :lol2:

9 Apr 2009

Quote by meat2pleaseu

I'm sitting rocking in the corner waiting for your contribution to the 'watching men' thread

Desperation isn't a good look you know :lol2:
Still, you get by.

9 Apr 2009

Quote by essex34m

I'm sitting rocking in the corner waiting for your contribution to the 'watching men' thread

Desperation isn't a good look you know :lol2:
Still, you get by.
Thanks for the tips, always helps to learn from an expert :rude:

9 Apr 2009

Quote by meat2pleaseu

I'm sitting rocking in the corner waiting for your contribution to the 'watching men' thread

Desperation isn't a good look you know :lol2:
Still, you get by.
Thanks for the tips, always helps to learn from an expert :rude:
Oh... I do OK wink

Beware the Darkside Luke :twisted:

9 Apr 2009

I don't think I have any fetishes, just an awful lot of kinks that come and go depending on my mood. I suppose I could have an reverse foot fetish, as I like people touching/kissing/playing with/sexualising my feet <waits for the chorus of ewwwwws> :twisted:
I get a kink, fixate on that for a while, then move on to something else, then come back to it. I think I like variety too much to have a fetish biggrin

11 Apr 2009

As you can see from our profile it has to be PVC!!!
The look and feel of it is just awesome!!
Its interesting to see what fetishes people have and nice to know that we are not on our own!!

Are you sure?