FINDDING THE RIGTH SWING BUDDIE

15 Nov 2006

IT CANNOT BE THAT HARD can it to fidn the right person to swing with if you are honest and open from the start why do most guys think every woman looking for mr right why cannot we ladys single that is find a good honest single swing buddie am i looking in the wrong places ?????????????/ :

15 Nov 2006

in my opinion like minds will always find each other eventually..keep the faith and be patient
good luck to you X

15 Nov 2006

Perhaps you'd stand a better chance if you amended your profile a little :shock: dunno

CA x

15 Nov 2006

Quote by CarrieAnn
Perhaps you'd stand a better chance if you amended your profile a little :shock:
CA x

Agreed :shock:
Particularly as it says you're not looking to meet.

15 Nov 2006

And the fact that it says she's a bitch and bites :shock: :shock:
CA x

15 Nov 2006

Yup, it is kinda confusing ... the profile I mean ... nobody'll contact you having read that as you've said don't contact me basically.

15 Nov 2006

well i looked at it... and afterwards i have to admit you are a scary woman....
you might want to soften that up just a teeny weeny bit smile

:) :)
they way you might not frighten the nice ones.. and attract the good ones for you...
sean xxxxxxxxx

16 Nov 2006

Quote by CarrieAnn
And the fact that it says she's a bitch and bites :shock: :shock:
CA x

don't all women bite rolleyes

16 Nov 2006

seems kinda sweet to me smile

but then i was bought up near tipton.
staggy

16 Nov 2006

i think youre lookin in the wrong place..........
try my PM box...................

16 Nov 2006

This is a common occurrence in the golfing world. Those following you on the course always bicker about how slow you are. It certainly doesn't help with your concentration and as a result you lose your swing. wink

The there is the right to swing, which should be written into the bill of Human Rights. cool

16 Nov 2006

:shock:
Whoah!
Can I hire you to write my advert for me please? lol

Do you really want an honest answer? Or a bit of a pat on the back and a therethere :therethere: ?

16 Nov 2006

The message I got from your profile is 'back off' so no wonder you haven't had any responses.
It's a bit scary to say the least :shock: Maybe a little re-write and see what happens
good luck :thumbup:

16 Nov 2006

Your profile is a bit confusing, its very negative and very confrontational. Id be scared to even try to talk to you. So im not going to say anymore. :gagged:
Louise

16 Nov 2006

ok so what are you after blink

more to the point who are you after dunno

i have too say i'm slightly confused

16 Nov 2006

just read your profile hun :shock:
well i know it dont take much , but you lost me ! dunno

16 Nov 2006

Quote by CarrieAnn
Perhaps you'd stand a better chance if you amended your profile a little :shock:
CA x

Maybe the profile was already amended, for the same reason as the post. :dunno: To me it reads as if PlayingLady is asking a rhetorical question brought about by something she has experienced.

16 Nov 2006

Quote by northwest-cpl
Perhaps you'd stand a better chance if you amended your profile a little :shock:
CA x

Maybe the profile was already amended, for the same reason as the post. :dunno: To me it reads as if PlayingLady is asking a rhetorical question brought about by something she has experienced.
i agree. thats how i read her profile too........
seems to me that she is fed up of "clingy" men and those that wanna get serious....... she just wants to have fun...........she doesnt want men falling for her, becoming the usual possesive and presumably a pain in the arse for her.
there is a bit of a contradiction tho as she feels that if she makes this clear...... men are gonna think she's easy or somethin.
this is a funny topic really..... i really should start a thread about it.....but ill have a rant here if i may....
the overall view on here......... as i see it..... is for men to be polite , respectful, not just after a quick shag, get well known , join in etc............. it seems to me that playing lady isnt really after that..... she wants something more "no-strings" but with some degree of continuity....
as i see it, there is a split between the two types..... and even worse..... theres alot of fellas who cant properly live up to either type............. " they can talk the talk .. but cant walk the walk"
personally i like to be a mixture of the two..............and that works for me......... because that is me..................
i agree.......... you might aswell be up-front and its a pain in the arse when you find someone who doesnt live up to what they proffess to be.
so swinglady.... thats why i say to you..." mail me"... theres some blokes out there who fit the bill.............. youre not gonna find them easily...............

16 Nov 2006

Quote by markz
And the fact that it says she's a bitch and bites :shock: :shock:
CA x

don't all women bite rolleyes

Only if asked nicely.
cool

16 Nov 2006

Quote by playinglady69
IT CANNOT BE THAT HARD can it to fidn the right person to swing with if you are honest and open from the start why do most guys think every woman looking for mr right why cannot we ladys single that is find a good honest single swing buddie am i looking in the wrong places ?????????????/ :

Well, has I havnte red ur poefile i might not rearly have a right to coment, but as I'm hear I mite has weel...
Fancy a drink? Can I fuck you haftearwards?
Chris

16 Nov 2006

Quote by marmalaid
IT CANNOT BE THAT HARD can it to fidn the right person to swing with if you are honest and open from the start why do most guys think every woman looking for mr right why cannot we ladys single that is find a good honest single swing buddie am i looking in the wrong places ?????????????/ :

Well, has I havnte red ur poefile i might not rearly have a right to coment, but as I'm hear I mite has weel...
Fancy a drink? Can I fuck you haftearwards?
Chris :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:

16 Nov 2006

The profile basically says, I'm not looking? So why the rant that you can't meet anyone?
No pics available, very few preferences, no adds and agressive? Why would anyone respond? rolleyes

I'm a genuine bloke looking for more regular fun, rather than one offs, why would I contact you? Its easy I wouldn't based on the perception you give.
Don't get me wrong, you may be a lovely person, funny and really genuine, but there is no way for anybody to guess that confused

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So nope don't think your looking in the wrong place, just the wrong way cool

16 Nov 2006

Playinglady69.... are you in Doncaster? If you are, you might want to try Googling your user name dunno

16 Nov 2006

Quote by cu3b4ll
Playinglady69.... are you in Doncaster? If you are, you might want to try Googling your user name

:shock: :shock: think there's a couple of sites missing though lol

17 Nov 2006

Quote by T_cra
The profile basically says, I'm not looking? So why the rant that you can't meet anyone?
No pics available, very few preferences, no adds and agressive? Why would anyone respond?
I'm a genuine bloke looking for more regular fun, rather than one offs, why would I contact you? Its easy I wouldn't based on the perception you give.
Don't get me wrong, you may be a lovely person, funny and really genuine, but there is no way for anybody to guess that :
So nope don't think your looking in the wrong place, just the wrong way

I dont think Playinglady is really looking - hence why everything in her profile suggests that - she's sick of being innundated with 'stuff' she's not interested in and guys who want more than she's prepared to give. I do wish she'd come back and reply to the posts in her own thread though.
I think - as has already been mentioned - that this thread is intended as a dig, or a swipe at someone/ stuff that's gone off in the chatroom - people have picked up on the profile info as a side issue & made a discussion out of that instead. To me, it smacks of another single fem who's pissed off with winks, whispers and simple frustration at the way she's being approached/ treated here on top of whatever recent experience has triggered this thread.
So yeah, Playinglady , if you're still reading this thread, imo I think you're looking in the wong place - you're in the chatroom for a start...... but that's just my oppinion..... I understand why you 'come across' the way you do in your profile ...but seriously - delete it and get yourself an avatar like mine instead - does exactly what it says on the tin wink