Hi there - i am about to give my first blow job tonight ( as part of my application process to join in threesomes as a bi male)
Any tips?????
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ops: :oops: Quote by dundeefella
Hope uve got a sexy pc repair person blonde???
have all these questions
should i swallow on first time????
Babe ............ if you like to swallow ......... then swallow ......... if you dont like it then dont do it !!
Being a bi male in a 3 some doesnt mean you do things you dont want to do ....... it should be a pleasure for all of you
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
He said "It's best to open your mouth... that's a good start" 
Good blow jobs depend on various things mate, just like other sexual activities, I guess...
Is he well hung? - width and girth will have an impact on your perceived/actual ability...
Is he circumsized and are you? - it has an effect on sensitvity and he may like different stuff to yourself if you are and he isn't - i.e. what feels good for me may be too sensitive for you and vice versa...
Fast? Slow? Deep? With/without hands?
I think you get the idea...
That said, if all else fails just open your mouth and learn to control your gag reflex and you won't go far wrong.
Good luck... and let us know how you get on :thumbup:
Good blow jobs depend on various things mate, just like other sexual activities, I guess...
Is he well hung? - width and girth will have an impact on your perceived/actual ability...
Is he circumsized and are you? - it has an effect on sensitvity and he may like different stuff to yourself if you are and he isn't - i.e. what feels good for me may be too sensitive for you and vice versa...
Fast? Slow? Deep? With/without hands?
I think you get the idea...
That said, if all else fails just open your mouth and learn to control your gag reflex and you won't go far wrong.
Good luck... and let us know how you get on :thumbup:
dundeefella you sound like you're putting way too much pressure on yourself.
Every person is different whether it be a man or a woman so try not too worry. Explain this is your first time and ask for guidance. Believe me, the man won't mind, after all, he is the one getting most of the pleasure here.
Relax!
Enjoy it!
If all else fails, do what feels good for you and vary your actions :rascal:
Every person is different whether it be a man or a woman so try not too worry. Explain this is your first time and ask for guidance. Believe me, the man won't mind, after all, he is the one getting most of the pleasure here.
Relax!
Enjoy it!
If all else fails, do what feels good for you and vary your actions :rascal:
Quote by Dawn_Mids
dundeefella you sound like you're putting way too much pressure on yourself.
Every person is different whether it be a man or a woman so try not too worry. Explain this is your first time and ask for guidance. Believe me, the man won't mind, after all, he is the one getting most of the pleasure here.
Relax!
Enjoy it!
If all else fails, do what feels good for you and vary your actions :rascal:
What she said :thumbup:
You always sum up so nicely Dawn
PS: I'm sure there's guys all over this place right now thinking FFS will that Bloke2005 put a sock in it :wink:
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Quote by dundeefella
cheers bloke - i 'll be straight on to boast my new found skills first thing in the morning
Things u'll do for a threesome!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
Whatever you do, don't be indiscreet and name the other people!!
The other thing is, are you being asked to give the guy a BJ, and if he's happy, you will get to join in a threesome at a later date? Or are you all joining in together on this particular meet?
Mal
Quote by Mal
cheers bloke - i 'll be straight on to boast my new found skills first thing in the morning
Things u'll do for a threesome!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
Whatever you do, don't be indiscreet and name the other people!!
The other thing is, are you being asked to give the guy a BJ, and if he's happy, you will get to join in a threesome at a later date? Or are you all joining in together on this particular meet?
Mal
Pot - kettle - black... fog monster :shock: :wink: Actually very good advice... and to Mal's point - if this is your route to his 'female' at a later date she probably doesn't exist :P
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Quote by dundeefella
Hi mal
all joining up
although thanks for the concern - but i'd have seen through that old line!!!!!
You would be surprised how many don't - allegedly!!
I just hope you have a great night now.
And ignore Bloke - he's all mouth and trousers!
:D :DWotcha Dundeefella,
Never given a BJ myself, but some of the experiences I have had with the (all too few) ladies I have known have have led me to believe that it is a "suck it and see" experience (pun fully intended).
My only tips for you would be:
1) Mind yer teeth!
2) Even though its called a blow job. Don't actually blow!
3) Lick the fremen, the vein like thingy at the front of the dick, particularly on the bell end itself.
4) Don't yank it like it's a grear stick.
5) Mind yer teeth I said!
6) Don't be afraid to ask if it feels good, although take it out of your mouth first.
7) Be carefull when tea-bagging (taking balls into your mouth) or sucking on the balls. I dunno about yours but my right bollock is a bit sensative!
All in all, it is like all forms of sex. You only know if you are doing a good (blow) job if you communicate.
Hope it goes well!!!
Never given a BJ myself, but some of the experiences I have had with the (all too few) ladies I have known have have led me to believe that it is a "suck it and see" experience (pun fully intended).
My only tips for you would be:
1) Mind yer teeth!
2) Even though its called a blow job. Don't actually blow!
3) Lick the fremen, the vein like thingy at the front of the dick, particularly on the bell end itself.
4) Don't yank it like it's a grear stick.
5) Mind yer teeth I said!
6) Don't be afraid to ask if it feels good, although take it out of your mouth first.
7) Be carefull when tea-bagging (taking balls into your mouth) or sucking on the balls. I dunno about yours but my right bollock is a bit sensative!
All in all, it is like all forms of sex. You only know if you are doing a good (blow) job if you communicate.
Hope it goes well!!!
Sex God
Quote by dundeefella
cheers bloke - i 'll be straight on to boast my new found skills first thing in the morning
Things u'll do for a threesome!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
something about this doesn't sound right... so i went back to re-read it....
i am confused... not for the 1st time!!!
are you bi, but not done the oral thing...... or are you straight and just sucking to get to the woman???
Casanova
Quote by fabio grooverider
cheers bloke - i 'll be straight on to boast my new found skills first thing in the morning
Things u'll do for a threesome!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
something about this doesn't sound right... so i went back to re-read it....
i am confused... not for the 1st time!!!
are you bi, but not done the oral thing...... or are you straight and just sucking to get to the woman???
Surely just a misstype?
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