Give yourself a break, hun! Crikey, just coz there was more than 2 people there, whyever should there be anything different, physiologically, than if there was just 2. Blimey, that doesn't make for easy reading, does it.
What I mean is... this happens to everyone at somepoint and I don't think it has anything to do with the company, on this occasion.
Maybe it was due to the stress & worry before hand about hotels?
It can & does happen to all of us at sometime or other, so really I wouldn't fret about it, it's not as though this condition is a regular occurance with ya, if so then it would be cause for concern.
The WHOOSH Man
You could also have been tired, or the effect of drink? If all else fails, u can always perform oral, or move onto toys, its not all about the dick you know lol
None of us are perfect, and if something was said about yr performance, then maybe they shouldnt be swinging as its all about taking it as it cums (pardon the pun), being laid back, and enjoying it come what may.
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Hi Delberto, the same thing has happened to me at a swinging club, but the couple I was with were very laidback about it, and I was able to be relaxed about it as well....and we carried on having fun. We're only human, after all.
Mike.
I agree with Mike here - dont take it to heart - Daz and i have been together for 15 months and he sometimes has trouble keeping it up if we have a really long sesh!!!
As for it happening during a meet, well, theres more pressure there isnt there?? Dont worry, like mike said - you ARE only human!!
Know how worrying this can be, but take heart that all sorts of things can affect it. Been having problems all week myself on and off (not lucky enough to be in multi person scenario, we talking alone and with Mrs TnH but this still very rare) The cause, I now have a stinking cold and obviously in the runup I wasn't on top form plus tired and it showed...
The smallest thing can knock you off your pace as long as there no pressure (which makes it worse) you did best thing and carried on with everything else you can do.
don't worry about it m8 the more u worry about it the worse it could get it happens to everyone at some point it has happened to me a couple of times over a few years never known why but the next day hard as rock and ready to play maybe u were tired or as u said worried about the hotel or just somthing else on your mind but never realy paid much attention to it but it just stayed in the back of your head hope u get it up again soon
I don't mean to be flippant. I realise that it is a serious subject. Honestly, I think I've been looking at this pc monitor too long today and my eyes are playing up. When I first read the subject heading I thought I saw the topic Flatulence During Romp
I'd better log off soon and / or get me ole mince pies tested
Its not the first time we have swung with this couple, and TBH, was almosrt the perfect night, and the wife is now deff a Bi!!! i didnt feel nevous at all, but was a little worried why he went down to 1/2 size....Is it cos we was all over the place, ie in diff holes etc, is it possible to loose it after moving about from one person to another? Dont normaly suffer from this....
