Flattered But Scared

4 Feb 2005

Wow.....
This is flattering but kinda scarey too. So whoever you are please make yourself know.
I've just received a gorgeous bunch of flowers and 3 bottles of wine from someone who addressed it to me as Libra-Love. So I'm flatter but scared because...
1. Only you guys here know me by that name
2. The person who sent this doesn't seem to know my real name
3 . THEY HAVE MY HOME ADDRESS!!!
PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE pm me and make yourself known if this hasn't been done to wind me up. The message in the card was very sweet but I would be more appreciative if I knew who you are!

4 Feb 2005

OMG I'd be worried too Libra confused

Bev
xx

4 Feb 2005

That is very sweet of them, and I`m sure they would be happy to let you know who they are after taking the above into consideration. I`ll expect you`ll hear something soon pet.
If you don`t, have a little word with your neighbours so that they can keep an eye out for you.
Venusxxx

4 Feb 2005

That's worrying...
Me and the 22 rugby lads will protect ya! biggrin

Seriously - let us know the outcome as I'd be curious to find out how they happened on all 3 bits of information...
x

4 Feb 2005

A neighbour who's come across your pic at SH? confused

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4 Feb 2005

Quote by Tania
A neighbour who's come across your pic at SH? :

I think she's quite freaked out enough don't you?? :shock: lol

I'm sure no malice is intended and a simply answer will appear soon..

4 Feb 2005

Quote by JudyTV
Its ok honey I own up . ......Well it would have been me if I had thought of it. :P
Judy

You're a sweetie.
I've emailed the online service it came from. Just waiting for response, so fingers crossed x I should know shortly.

4 Feb 2005

Quote by JudyTV

in that case it was me...HONEST !!!!!!!

4 Feb 2005

Quote by deancannock
in that case it was me...HONEST !!!!!!!

Well, whoever sent me this payed a bomb for it.
So if you can tell me the name of the online service and I will shag ya wink

4 Feb 2005

flowers and wine....umm...how many guesses can i have.
Try interflora first !!!!

4 Feb 2005

Ermmm
FlowersRUS? smile

4 Feb 2005

Wrong.
Move along both of ya lol

4 Feb 2005

But I've been standing here so long my feet have stuck to the spot! : biggrin

Dean - If you sing 'Night Fever' - your avatar moves along in time.. all together now.. 'Night fever, night fever.. you know how to do it...'

4 Feb 2005

Quote by Ghostie
A neighbour who's come across your pic at SH? :

I think she's quite freaked out enough don't you?? :shock: lol

I'm sure no malice is intended and a simply answer will appear soon..
To be honest the only logical explanation is that its somebody you know from here and who knows who you are IRL or it is someone who has seen your picture and knows you...
Either way untill you have found out who it is it would be prudent to exercise caution Libra hun..
As mentioned already I am almost positive there is no malice involved at all and by the looks you have an admirer who is worthy of investigation wink

..
Just wish I'd thought of it first.... sad

4 Feb 2005

No - the arm does it for me - def. Nigh Fever Steph x

4 Feb 2005

Phew, bit of a nightmare, that Libra, isn't it - extremely worrying. I hope you find something out soon.
Thinking of you, kiss

Mike.

4 Feb 2005

Is this where we should start playing the theme to "The Twilight Zone"

4 Feb 2005

Jeeese I whish it was me.
Alas
I have been to busy to even think about lunch.
Oh well its the weekend, time for a rest.

4 Feb 2005

Libra - Love,
you be careful, as I find it very worring that some one has your home address and you may not have given it to them.

4 Feb 2005

Is this where we should start playing the theme to "The Twilight Zone"

Well Dave, you hum it as you're old enough to remember it, we'll all follow your lead lol

Bev
xx

4 Feb 2005

Have you ever called yourself Libra Love anywhere else than on here perhaps?But yeah id be a little worried too,i hope you find out soon biggrin

4 Feb 2005

Quote by freckledbird
Is this where we should start playing the theme to "The Twilight Zone"

Well Dave, you hum it as you're old enough to remember it, we'll all follow your lead lol

Bev
xx
Da da da da da da da da da!

4 Feb 2005

I've made this thread a sticky - at least for over the weekend - until we get to the bottom of this worrying episode.
If anyone has any information on this then please let Libra-love know.
:P

4 Feb 2005

Thanks for that Jags.
At the moment I'm going with rationalisation that whom ever you are you mean me know harm.
So please contact me whether it be by pm, email or phone.
Thanks

4 Feb 2005

Quote by Libra-Love
At the moment I'm going with rationalisation that whom ever you are you mean me know harm.

But even if no harm was meant, it is obsessive-type behaviour, and it is best to switch off at the first sign of that, even in a relationship. My own suggestion would be give the person a week to say sorry (and then forget about it if they do) and if no reply in a week then contact the police.
x Chris

4 Feb 2005

Offering services of protection in case the rugby team cannot make it (6'9", 20 st and built like a brick shithouse), wine tasting (just in case) and a suggestion of a few ways people could have found out your address...
1) Did you tell anyone your real name at a meet/munch? If you are in the phone book, it is simple enough.
2) Do you know anyone on here who works in the civil servie (police force, councils etc) as they have all the information to hand and know how to conduct searches (the bastards keep finding me when I have unpaid bills!) lol

3) An ex or current swinging partner who could want to move the relationship to another level or to whom you gave a particularly good night and wanted to thank you? Valentines Day is coming up!
I reckon it will all turn out well and we will all have a good laugh about it. In the mean time..."keep 'em peeled" as Shaw Taylor used to say.
Good luck with the detective work hun.

4 Feb 2005

To My Generous Benifactor,
Thank you ever so much for your gifts. However, as much as I need what you've now sent me I'm uncertain as to whether I should keep it or return it.
Please just give me a clue.

4 Feb 2005

Its a very flattering gesture from someone who likes you a great deal. Even so I would feel a little uneasy about it.
I think the person who made the gesture needs to make themselves known, even if its just to you Libra, just to let you know theres no malice intended.
Saying all that I think its correct to say its an admirer not anyone who intends any harm or to frighten you.

4 Feb 2005

I have to agree with Mrs Bubbles. It's very flattering, but for a woman in Libra's position - it's very frightening too! Whoever you are, please reassure her by letting her know who you are. She deserves to know that much.

4 Feb 2005

Don't think that's the answer Judy - if it were you getting anonymous stuff then I'm sure you'd have a just a hint of anxiety about it? At least Libra has.
:P