this is just a personal opinion and i'm fully aware what appeals to one person would not appeal to others but from your own way of looking a6t things what do you find frustrating about profiles...
ill start the ball rolling with.....when people put up a close of their genitals, to me i cant see what that achieves, it tells me nothing about the person, is it an opportunity to just post your fanny cock or arsehole on the net....we look we sigh we move on, god knows how many potential swinging pals we miss out on because all we have to go on is the size of their clitoris ...etc
so thats our little personal frustration about profiles, whats yours?
wrats
Agree on the genital shots - don't find them attractive at all.
And naming and shaming on profiles - people know it's not allowed - yet they do it where they think it won't be spotted by anyone who can do anything about it.
I agree. I can't personally see what advantage people think they are offering by just posting close-ups of their most naughty bits :-)
Personally I like to see a face because that saya hell of a lot about the person or people. OK, I can understand that a lot of people don't want to broadcast their face, but even so, a more general photo is more sexy than just a genital shot.
In profiles it's the ones with either no information at all, or 'if you're interested drop us a mail' when there is nothing to read to know if you might be interested.
In the forum it's those with sigs longer than their post. :P :P :P
when it hints on there profile that the man of the cpl has had the snip wtf wees gives 2 fooks like,says to us its ok for bareback
Same sort of things really:
- shots of genitals
- nothing on profile - not even age!
- profile says couple but blurb says recently single.
- description of "heavy cummer" - ew!
Mrs D
For us, the most frustrating thing on a profile is the lack of information too. How can we think about meeting someone if we know sfa about them lol.
Something on ours is a source of frustration - our "no under 30's" rule. We still get bombarded with pm's from people under that age, can they not read ffs?
Anyone who puts that they are looking for a gay single or couple of the opposite sex. It's an immeidiate no-no for me.
'Age, looks, size not important'..........NEXT
I've read quite a few who state they are 'bored', yeah, like that's really going to entice me.
H.x
A bit like H-x's comment - some people come across like right whingers, presumably the same ones who post threads along the lines of "why don't single guys (or newcomers, or older people or whatever) ever get meets?". I'm never going to be interested in someone who is already dischuffed with this life.
A minor point that I notice, and it makes me think twice, is when a couple's profile is clearly written by just one - I love to hear from both, even if it's just a one-liner.
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