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Be careful there.....he didn't like the fact he maybe the problem!
Quote by LisaMarie
I was the same i didnt start doing it until i was in my mid thirties with my husband.
twelve years of marrage 3 kids and i didnt like it yuk
have a bath together let her see and smell that its spotless and then try.
maybe she is afraid its not clean enough.
Us girls are funny, i really like giving it now it tastes gourgeous until the end
lisan
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Hateitorloveit, just re-read my post and it was not meant as a put down in any way, so sorry if I came accross like that, Maybe you should take the advice of LisaMarie and try the bathtime thing, or even in the shower. I really do not like very hairy men (down below) so it could also be that she is the same, it could also be that even in her mid 20's she has not yet discovered what she does or doesnt like!
Talking is the next step but please dont just go and ask her outright why she does not want to do it. Talk about your overall sexual desires, what you like and what you dislike, then give her the chance to say what she likes and dislikes. Once the coversation is going in the right direction you could then sensitively bring up the subject. But remember even though oral sex is mind-blowingly fantastic it is not the be all and end all of a good sexual relationship.
Oh yes, please try to find out her age without asking her outright :shock:
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Hateitorloveit, just re-read my post and it was not meant as a put down in any way, so sorry if I came accross like that, Maybe you should take the advice of LisaMarie and try the bathtime thing, or even in the shower. I really do not like very hairy men (down below) so it could also be that she is the same, it could also be that even in her mid 20's she has not yet discovered what she does or doesnt like!
Talking is the next step but please dont just go and ask her outright why she does not want to do it. Talk about your overall sexual desires, what you like and what you dislike, then give her the chance to say what she likes and dislikes. Once the coversation is going in the right direction you could then sensitively bring up the subject. But remember even though oral sex is mind-blowingly fantastic it is not the be all and end all of a good sexual relationship.
Oh yes, please try to find out her age without asking her outright :shock:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Quote by naughtynymphos1
u could always do what my hubbie does and slap her in the face with ya knob while saying suck this bitch :shock:
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Hateitorloveit, just re-read my post and it was not meant as a put down in any way, so sorry if I came accross like that,
Quote by cuddly-catlin
I was the same i didnt start doing it until i was in my mid thirties with my husband.
twelve years of marrage 3 kids and i didnt like it yuk
have a bath together let her see and smell that its spotless and then try.
maybe she is afraid its not clean enough.
Us girls are funny, i really like giving it now it tastes gourgeous until the end
lisan
Quote by hateitorloveit
"Can I be nosey and ask how old she is"
She is 23 or 24. She has had a couple of long term relationships so pretty experienced.
Quote by naughtynymphos1
....I also have phimosis but always make a special effort to keep everything clean.
Quote by hateitorloveit
So I have a new girlfriend and she hasn't sucked my cock yet. Been seeing her two months. I like having my cock sucked. I also like licking pussy. Whenever I start to lick her out she stops me. She has only let me do it once when we were really drunk.
What is the best way to broach the subject. I don't want to put pressure on her but this is something I enjoy.
Should I just straight out
"Hey baby, how do you feel about oral sex?"
Any thoughts as to why she might not blowing my love trumpet? Repressed?
Quote by hateitorloveit
"You may be the problem."
I am hairy and one girl did ask me to shave down there, or at least trim it up....I also have phimosis but always make a special effort to keep everything clean.
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I am 26.
My phimosis isn't a big deal. Just means I do take special care regarding cleanliness downstairs. Good point about being out at night, having some drinks, going to the toilet.
One of my ex's asked me to trim downstairs. I refused because I thought it a bit unmanly. The more I think about the more I think why not. If it is nicer for her. I always enjoy ripping off a fresh pair of panties and finding a trimmed bush.
I think we will talk things through and I will try a gentle introduction.
Thanks for sharing your stories. Hopefully this won't turn out to be a big deal.
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Yeah, I am going to have to end the relationship if we don't get this worked out because this is important to me.
At the same time I don't want to put that pressure on her. Like suck my cock or you are dumped.
I have done the whole steering during foreplay...but I end up with a well kissed stomach and not much else.
Time to talk then.
Why do you guys think she doesn't like being licked. Surely all girls like that. I have been told by a previous girlfriend that I was the best ever (yeah, I know, bet she says that to all the guys!)...but I haven't even had a chance to impress here.
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Equi-princess - I have already given a detailed response to the multiple people who asked this question. Please read the thread.
Are there moderators on this forum? Do you have rules to keep threads on topic and stop people posting purely negative comments?
