Simple question. How many of the bi ladies in here were drawn to swinging because of their bisexuality? Alternatively, how many of you would never have considered yourself bi until you tried it during a swinging experience?
So are you 'Swinging because you're Bi'
Or are you 'Bi because you're swinging'?
Apologies if this one has been asked before.
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Girls, a poll.
Bi to start or converted through swinging
Swinging because I was Bi beforehand
0%
Bi because I tried it while swinging
0%
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Personally, Tra here was drawn to swinging because she was very very bi to start with, and had experience beforehand.
I assume its a good starting place for those who want bi experiences without having to judge by instinct who is bi/gay and who isn't!
But... I'm guessing that most girls who do swing with other girls in the room, even if not bisexual, must have bi-curious urges or tolerances.
Similarly, any bloke that is with a girl/couple with another man around must have bi-tolerancy too - which could spill over into the "you know, this is something i want to actively try"
The label "bi" is very very loose!
I assume its a good starting place for those who want bi experiences without having to judge by instinct who is bi/gay and who isn't!
But... I'm guessing that most girls who do swing with other girls in the room, even if not bisexual, must have bi-curious urges or tolerances.
Similarly, any bloke that is with a girl/couple with another man around must have bi-tolerancy too - which could spill over into the "you know, this is something i want to actively try"
The label "bi" is very very loose!
Sex God
Quote by Teesside Guy
So are you 'Swinging because you're Bi'
Or are you 'Bi because you're swinging'?
This makes it sound as if all the women on here are bi
Not all of us are . . . not when there are sooo many men to go around :twisted:
Having said that, I have tried it in a group situation and it was not unpleasant, just didn't float my boat enough to want to try it again
Tracy-Jayne
I started with women b4 men, i was 15 the first time i 'tried' another female so i guess you could say i was bi b4 we started swinging
I don't swing because i'm bi tho, (as suggested in you poll questions) i swing cause i love the life style and all the great people i have met in the 5 years we have been swinging, could easily find a woman without swinging managed b4 we started
I don't swing because i'm bi tho, (as suggested in you poll questions) i swing cause i love the life style and all the great people i have met in the 5 years we have been swinging, could easily find a woman without swinging managed b4 we started
Sex God
I'm bi. And I swing. The two are not related. Your poll does not allow me to vote.
Sex God
I have always been bi, well before i started swinging.
Sex God
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what about the guys tho? don't we have bi male swingers?
Here's one. Thus, and like Blue (but for different reasons, primarily centring around our respective genitalia), I appear to have been left out of this poll as well. 
Vix & I have met plenty of other bi-guys through SH, but very few bi-couples. It almost seems as if there's an expectation for swinging women to be naturally bi-, whereas most of the male halves of couples who've replied to our ad tend to profess "100%str8"-ness. Is it that they find a same-sex act between two women provocative, but the same between two men repulsive?
Seems like much of a muchness to me. And, having spoken to a lot of women here, I've found that male bisexuality is a major turn-on for many of them. Hmm...do you think that, if we informed these Str8s of the possible pulling potential of bi-ness, they might become just a little less hardened in their heterosexuality? ;)
~Reese!
I've got some thoughts on this: if you're a guy in bed with two girls, how much do you really care whether or not the two girls concerned do or don't want to get it on with each other? Isn't it entirely possible the simple fact you're having sex with two women more than enough??
I've got no objection to two women getting it on - far from it - but I wouldn't expect it. After all, if they're not interested in paying that much attention to each other, wouldn't it mean they'd be paying even more attention to us guys?
I've known a couple of women, for instance, whose sole claimed main objection to a threesome with a girl and a guy is that they aren't into other girls - but beyond that, they have no problem in 'sharing' with another girl. There shouldn't be any expectations, after all, of any kind: but the mass perception of a threeway involves two girls getting friendly with each other - or really, taking advantage of the fact girls are much more comfortable in each other's physical presence, clothed or otherwise, than two or more 'straight' guys in the same situation.
But what some other posters have been saying is true: some women are very severely turned on by the idea of two guys 'getting it on' in a threeway with them.
I've got no objection to two women getting it on - far from it - but I wouldn't expect it. After all, if they're not interested in paying that much attention to each other, wouldn't it mean they'd be paying even more attention to us guys?
I've known a couple of women, for instance, whose sole claimed main objection to a threesome with a girl and a guy is that they aren't into other girls - but beyond that, they have no problem in 'sharing' with another girl. There shouldn't be any expectations, after all, of any kind: but the mass perception of a threeway involves two girls getting friendly with each other - or really, taking advantage of the fact girls are much more comfortable in each other's physical presence, clothed or otherwise, than two or more 'straight' guys in the same situation.
But what some other posters have been saying is true: some women are very severely turned on by the idea of two guys 'getting it on' in a threeway with them.
I got into swinging because I was very bi-curious and thought this was a good way to explore that side of me. After a few experiences with women, I've decided that, although I'm definitely not 100% straight 
, I'm actually not as bi as I thought I was.
That's not to say I don't still enjoy playing with women, but I've realised men are much more my thing... and both at once, well, even better
So, started swinging because I was bi, I suppose (I do wish you'd put more options into this poll) but stayed here even now I'm not-so-bi-after-all. I like it here. It's warm and cozy. :inlove:
, I'm actually not as bi as I thought I was.That's not to say I don't still enjoy playing with women, but I've realised men are much more my thing... and both at once, well, even better
So, started swinging because I was bi, I suppose (I do wish you'd put more options into this poll) but stayed here even now I'm not-so-bi-after-all. I like it here. It's warm and cozy. :inlove:
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Ratio of poles to holes makes me wish more men would think mmf, when one says 3 some, but alas, they seem to prefer 1:2 to 2:1.
:laughabove: poles to holes .... not heard that before !!!
Bollox! I've just blown one of my best chat-up lines.
*Dashes off to think of a new plan for bagging Postie*
Just to clarify a few points as I seem to have over simplified the question, leading to people telling me that I have preconceptions, etc.
The point of the question was as follows:
With respect to those among the ladies in here that are Bi, were you bi before you started to swing, or was it something that you tried while swinging and discovered that you enjoyed it. Didnt mean to infer that ALL the ladies in here are bisexual. I tried to make the two categories too 'sound-bitey', (thats what too many years of a Labour government does for you, I suppose!) and I ended up making it sound like you were swinging to fulfil your bi side etc. Sorry for any unintended inference that may have been construed.
Thats it, I've run out of big words....
The point of the question was as follows:
With respect to those among the ladies in here that are Bi, were you bi before you started to swing, or was it something that you tried while swinging and discovered that you enjoyed it. Didnt mean to infer that ALL the ladies in here are bisexual. I tried to make the two categories too 'sound-bitey', (thats what too many years of a Labour government does for you, I suppose!) and I ended up making it sound like you were swinging to fulfil your bi side etc. Sorry for any unintended inference that may have been construed.
Thats it, I've run out of big words....
