Hello All,
Thought I'd post my first Forum note and dip my toe into the cool waters of this website - maybe I'll get to swim across the pool one day?
I have swam about in the Chat room for a few months now and am slowly finding my feet (or should that be fins to keep the water theme going?)
I'd just like to say thanks to those of you that who have spent the time and patience to chat with me both male and female and couples.......and long may it continue I hope!
So a little about me....
Married male, 43, with more of an interest in this than his wife (unfortunately!) and looking to explore and paddle in the oasis offered by this site.
I'm not a sex god or hung like a donkey, but more hug like one!
I'm not going to be available for meets very often but would welcome chats and sexy correspondence etc.
Lets hope that the general bon hommie I've seen so far extends this way as well!
Thanks all
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Sex God
Hi my favourite little Feenix 
From our previous meets, I seem to remember that you put more than your toes, in more than the water!
See you soon :inlove:
Terry-Jayne XX
ps Jon say Hi!
From our previous meets, I seem to remember that you put more than your toes, in more than the water!
See you soon :inlove:
Terry-Jayne XX
ps Jon say Hi!
Hiya Feenix,
Welcome to the cafe
Must be a line somewhere about rising to the occasion, so, tell me honestly, what has Fred been up to in the chat room that has made everyone make a bolt for the cafe? I popped in there last night for the first time in months, like sticking your head out the door into a hurricane!
lhk
Kat
Welcome to the cafe
Must be a line somewhere about rising to the occasion, so, tell me honestly, what has Fred been up to in the chat room that has made everyone make a bolt for the cafe? I popped in there last night for the first time in months, like sticking your head out the door into a hurricane!
lhk
Kat
Welcome to your voyage of discovery Feenix.
Just a quick question and maybe inappropriate
: (suddenly I'm feeling self doubt again....please doctor more pills). Do you spend as much time trying to make your wife feel special :rose: as you do on this site.
I honestly just asking because maybe if you are or if you did then it might be the both of you enjoying this voyage of discovery.
:doh: I really hope I'm not missing the point here.
Anyway hope that both you and your wife have a new year full of promise
Billy
Just a quick question and maybe inappropriate
: (suddenly I'm feeling self doubt again....please doctor more pills). Do you spend as much time trying to make your wife feel special :rose: as you do on this site.I honestly just asking because maybe if you are or if you did then it might be the both of you enjoying this voyage of discovery.
:doh: I really hope I'm not missing the point here.
Anyway hope that both you and your wife have a new year full of promise
Billy
Thanks for your concern Scotscpl, and I understand the spirit with which its offered.
Just to add a bit more shade and light for you......I love my wife and she's a great mother/friend/wife it's just the lover part that is not as forthcoming as I would like - she's happy not being as forthcoming!
I'm no new man but I've tried the flowers and regular gifts, trying to just cuddle and make feel loved etc. rather than full on 'brace yourself sheila!' (spoken with an aussie accent!) and to be honest its just not that important to her. She does love me, I know that, it's just that having sex that regularly is not important to her - I have spoken about it to her and she just doesn't have the same 'urge' as I do - but she loves me and neither of us would want to hurt each other, but I need to release my frustrations for the sake of both of us!
I know you mean well and I will re-examine what the dynamics of the relationship are but sometimes its a little more complicated than just 'giving a bunch of flowers' every now and again! lol
Thanks again though, it does feel nice to know there are people out there that 'feel for you' even if they can't change anything - the only people who can change are me and my wife.
Regards
Just to add a bit more shade and light for you......I love my wife and she's a great mother/friend/wife it's just the lover part that is not as forthcoming as I would like - she's happy not being as forthcoming!
I'm no new man but I've tried the flowers and regular gifts, trying to just cuddle and make feel loved etc. rather than full on 'brace yourself sheila!' (spoken with an aussie accent!) and to be honest its just not that important to her. She does love me, I know that, it's just that having sex that regularly is not important to her - I have spoken about it to her and she just doesn't have the same 'urge' as I do - but she loves me and neither of us would want to hurt each other, but I need to release my frustrations for the sake of both of us!
I know you mean well and I will re-examine what the dynamics of the relationship are but sometimes its a little more complicated than just 'giving a bunch of flowers' every now and again! lol
Thanks again though, it does feel nice to know there are people out there that 'feel for you' even if they can't change anything - the only people who can change are me and my wife.
Regards
Hi Feenix 
:wave:
Welcome to the calm and tranquillity of the Forum, a place where you can make as many spelling mistakes as you like and then correct them before anyone sees them, unlike the hustle-bustle of the chat room where everyone can see what an un-educated peasant you are (or at least I am!!).
Mind you some people don’t care how many spelling mistakes they make. Hello Funin xxx (Bless her, thinks she’s still in the Chat room !!!)
:lol:
Sappho and Alex will be along later to bid you a fond welcome. Sappho will seduce you without you even realising she’s doing it (ask Willxx69 !!) while Alex will dazzle you with her endless amount of posts and changes of pics. :shock: :shock:
Hope to see you tonight at 8pm for the Record Breaking Attempt.
Have fun !!
:wave: Welcome to the calm and tranquillity of the Forum, a place where you can make as many spelling mistakes as you like and then correct them before anyone sees them, unlike the hustle-bustle of the chat room where everyone can see what an un-educated peasant you are (or at least I am!!).
Mind you some people don’t care how many spelling mistakes they make. Hello Funin xxx (Bless her, thinks she’s still in the Chat room !!!)
:lol: Sappho and Alex will be along later to bid you a fond welcome. Sappho will seduce you without you even realising she’s doing it (ask Willxx69 !!) while Alex will dazzle you with her endless amount of posts and changes of pics.
:shock: :shock: Hope to see you tonight at 8pm for the Record Breaking Attempt.
Have fun !!
Sex God
Who said I didn't realise?
Hi Feenix
Welcome indeed. There are some pretty fantastic people in here. As Sappho and Sarge have said, see you later for the record attempt.
Hi Feenix
Welcome indeed. There are some pretty fantastic people in here. As Sappho and Sarge have said, see you later for the record attempt.
Quote by Sgt Bilko
See, told you Alex would be along soon
She can't help herself Sarge.......and, if we're honest Alex, we wouldn't have it any other way - get posting !!
Oh, a divine evening to you feenix. I'm a little belated too but better late than never ! Your flames may shimmer in most places but it's a pretty hot bunch on here too !
Carpathian
