Yes I am a total forum noob, and I havent made posts (dyslexic btw), so i feel totally overwhelmed trying to find the right people. I think mf couples and f singles will automatically not give me a chance cos I'm a mm couple, what do I do?
:welcome: to the forum!
Have you placed an advert? Or sent any replies to women advertising in your area? Or you could do a search on the profiles of women in required age and location and then send them a message...
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I have tried, but doesn't the mm couple thing scare people off? it is early days, I suppose. Its just how do i explain its just me looking and that he's not interested, without a convoluted advert. how do I point out which one in the pics i am? I have never been with girls or couples and haven't a clue what to say or do.
I can see where it could be difficult so my recommendation would be to open a new single account for yourself, list yourself as 'in a relationship', and make it plain in your ads that you're meeting alone with your partner's full knowledge and consent. That should tick all the boxes for ya! :thumbup:
Yeah i I've tried using 'straight curious' before, I don't know how else you would say it. Thanks for the support, much appreciated.
Guess the only way I can identify myself on my profile is as Bi-Curious, would this be right?
Ok more 'technical questions' and if there are relevant posts about this I do apologize, but here goes. So as per above I've got these interests/fantasies and Dee (my husband) has others, so how would we address this in our activities and looking for sections of our profile? So I want to find fems and Dee doesn't so do we say we are looking for fems or not? Am I just a complete idiot? Guess I'm still teething with using the site.
I'm trying to help Dan out here in the polite way that Fraser refers to as someone that's navigated these waters for a few years now. It's not easy when straight men are really bi and bi men are really gay.. but I'll do my best.
So... are there any single females who fancy the idea of some experimental, non-pressured fun and games over the summer and any bi-curious males (won't tell your mates!) that might be up for helping too? Serious offer.
brucie - you can't play, your dick is too small. Life sucks sometimes... I don't, small dicks that is.
Fraser... to the front of the queue please good man. We'll be gentle and use blindfolds ;)
OK one year later, still no fems or mixed couples are responding to me
yes done contacting, occasional update of ads too. I just think the way I'm doing it is wrong for what people want is all
He's charmed the knickers off men, women and couples aplenty :giggle:
... and what was that about your 'box'? ;)