Yeha your right Penfold , now I read it back i guess im just getting too bloody clever about the use of words .
Ill get me coat .
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Very astute Fruit 
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When I put my post in I was questioning the difference between that and the sub/dom thing..... I didn't leave it in the post cos kind of answered it myself as I was going along 
The very limited experience I have with this is that the sub is usually in that role happily, and to be submissive towards a dominant person who has that power over her/him - not from physical bullying, but from tone of voice, aura etc. This power the dom has means that he/she can be as gentle as can be, with soft caresses and still be as commanding as the times when he/she uses 'punishment'. On both sides of this the emphasis is on pleasuring the other person.
With the fantasy thing - absolutely agree with G. I really don't think there is such a thing for real, the term contradicts itself.
My interpretation of it was that it was more the 'forced' sex role play, mainly physical. None of the gentle commanding persuasion etc. The person having sex forced upon them, playing the role in a non consensual way - not willing to please the other person like a sub is, but being 'forced' to please.
Oh I can't bluddy explain it
:evil: :evil: Can someone please just come into my head and reword it all please ............ and I don't mean come in my head like Timmy done to Jas :lol2:
The very limited experience I have with this is that the sub is usually in that role happily, and to be submissive towards a dominant person who has that power over her/him - not from physical bullying, but from tone of voice, aura etc. This power the dom has means that he/she can be as gentle as can be, with soft caresses and still be as commanding as the times when he/she uses 'punishment'. On both sides of this the emphasis is on pleasuring the other person.
With the fantasy thing - absolutely agree with G. I really don't think there is such a thing for real, the term contradicts itself.
My interpretation of it was that it was more the 'forced' sex role play, mainly physical. None of the gentle commanding persuasion etc. The person having sex forced upon them, playing the role in a non consensual way - not willing to please the other person like a sub is, but being 'forced' to please.
Oh I can't bluddy explain it
:evil: :evil: Can someone please just come into my head and reword it all please ............ and I don't mean come in my head like Timmy done to Jas :lol2: 
Warming the Bed
Quote by penfolds06Ive actually had a woman force herself on me and id call it " ",she was giving me head and suddenly she grabbed hold of my cock and forced herself down onto me(it killed) and she new i DIDNT want full sex
ok so we have all discussed the female role play fantasy how many men have fantasys of being by one or more women?? i must confess that i have
why we are on the subject i see a few of the ladies like the role play is this with 1 or more men???
Orgasminator
I don't think it's necessarily even being "forced" I think it's just a chance to do stuff that you wouldn't ask for and that your partner wouldn't ask about either, so we play the game, do what we like and nobody needs to ask for it.
did that make sense?
did that make sense?
I can understand that Judy, sexual assault scares the crap out of me too but I think what the thread is about is the differences in fantasy and reality. We can pretend something is a certain way because taboos can be a turn on, but actual is a completely different issue. So called ' fantasies' and role play are more to do with vigorous, forceful sex as opposed to the more affectionate love-making that we might enjoy at other times.
Nobody is saying that is OK, far from it, but there are fantasy situations that may cross our minds that in reality we would never want to happen and that is OK. Thinking about nasty things doesn't make us nasty people, doing them does.
Nobody is saying that is OK, far from it, but there are fantasy situations that may cross our minds that in reality we would never want to happen and that is OK. Thinking about nasty things doesn't make us nasty people, doing them does.
am v fuckin drunk yhis evening but am very grateful especially to MISSCHIEF WHO I think gave a really good reply to my question.
it is a and rightly so, even for the more liberal of us, which is why I intenfd to be very careful with role playing this subject - if at all.
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alcohol is great, but the pits
adam
barf eeeugh
it is a and rightly so, even for the more liberal of us, which is why I intenfd to be very careful with role playing this subject - if at all.
eeeeugh.
alcohol is great, but the pits
adam
barf eeeugh
rest my case 
This will probably kill the thread now but I've just one more thing to say.
I have never fantasised about being but I do sometimes like feeling vulnerable. I am involved in a threesome (two men) and I sometimes feel vulnerable but at the same time I feel very safe with them. I also feel powerful and in charge. It's a very strong mixture of emotions and I wish I could express them better.
Mollie
I have never fantasised about being but I do sometimes like feeling vulnerable. I am involved in a threesome (two men) and I sometimes feel vulnerable but at the same time I feel very safe with them. I also feel powerful and in charge. It's a very strong mixture of emotions and I wish I could express them better.
Mollie
