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is the whispering thing as annoying as the winking rolleyes
Quote by markz
is the whispering thing as annoying as the winking rolleyes

MUUUUUUUCH More so IMHO rolleyes
Could I just mention as a newish newbie....I didn't initially realise winking and whispering were such a bloody minefield and a no-no!!! Though obviously abused by some... ignorance can be claimed by others! redface
I learns quick though I does.... lol
Quote by Sassy-Seren
As a single male on here ive got quite used to the abuse some women feel they have to give to any men that dare say "Hello" to them. I can only assume that because of a small number of men that can not or will not behave, the rest of us men then get lumped into the same category.

I agree it's not nice to be treated like that. if a guy whispers just to say hello or compliment me on my profile then I'm polite back to them and usually have a good chat. The only ones who get my back up are the ones who just say 'hiya sexy, you gonna show yourself on cam?' or 'you want some fun with me?' knowing all the while they've got more chance of shagging the Pope than me rolleyes
Treat everyone as an individual and respond accordingly. Abuse should not be tolerated whether it's aimed at fems, guys or couples.
Strange you say that Chr*** and I drop in to the Va..........
Quote by jb74
As a single male on here ive got quite used to the abuse some women feel they have to give to any men that dare say "Hello" to them. I can only assume that because of a small number of men that can not or will not behave, the rest of us men then get lumped into the same category.
As for the few people on here that know me on a more personal level, they would tell you I am both polite and well mannered. I come into the chat rooms here to chat with like minded people, have a laugh, arrange meetings and to make new friends. I'm not here to wank on cam ( although I wouldn't stop others doing so if thats their thing ) I'm not here to cyber and most of all I'm not here to give abuse to other people.
I suspect I'm not the only single male on here that has had to put up with such abuse not only from attention seeking primadonna's but also from their pathetic groveling sycophants. I must however counter this with a big thank you to all the nice decent, normal people I have had the pleasure of chatting to on here.
I finish on a comment made in chat today "All men are bastards" ! rather sums up the mindset of some jaded females on here. It would be as big a mistake to brand all ladies as whores as it is to brand all men as bastards and most unuseful in keeping chat a friendly place to visit.
Don't forget we are all very lucky to have such a website as this lets keep it fun ! cool

'All men are bastards'................... i think thats rather a prejudiced view by the sound of it. Personally I form my own opinion on anyone who wishes to speak to me by the manner in which they do so.... the words they choose and the way in which those words are presented give away a lot of information about that person and their thoughts. I would like to think that I treat everyone similarly....... although once a person has shown their 'true' colours and been abusive etc... then i would simply not speak to them again.
equi-princess xxx
Quote by Pete_sw
is the whispering thing as annoying as the winking rolleyes

MUUUUUUUCH More so IMHO rolleyes
if all peeps asked to wisper it would be fine but mainly guys just butt in with a wisper expect an answer straight away, while your trying to hold a conversation with others who's asked to can get bloody frustrating,plus b4 we reply we try to look at there profile to see if we're compatable to see if it's worth continuing the chat and because you've not replied in a few seconds they've left the room. i don't think guys realise when there's only a few fems in a room with up to 60 guys wanting a piece of the action some will get ignored and have to wait a while for a reply.
at least with winks you got choice to view wink and send appropiate reply at your leasure.
Quote by cockslut
is the whispering thing as annoying as the winking rolleyes

MUUUUUUUCH More so IMHO rolleyes
if all peeps asked to wisper it would be fine but mainly guys just butt in with a wisper expect an answer straight away, while your trying to hold a conversation with others who's asked to can get bloody frustrating,plus b4 we reply we try to look at there profile to see if we're compatable to see if it's worth continuing the chat and because you've not replied in a few seconds they've left the room. i don't think guys realise when there's only a few fems in a room with up to 60 guys wanting a piece of the action some will get ignored and have to wait a while for a reply.
at least with winks you got choice to view wink and send appropiate reply at your leasure.
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That's what I wanted to say! But when I started typing it I just kept sound like a man hating troll - which I'm not in case you were wondering! wink