Have you ever cheated?

8 Feb 2005

Was just wondering?
I wonder how many will view and not reply?

8 Feb 2005

never had the need to do it

8 Feb 2005

I have cheated on a boyfriend in the past.I have been cheated on in the past. NO excuses, nothing i'm proud of, we all live and learn.
If it was my long term partner and I felt the need to cheat, then I would ask myself if I should really stick with this relationship or not. There would be possibly something missing from it that I need to go somewhere else to have the gap filled.

8 Feb 2005

Don't need to......it 's more of a turn on when she's present!

8 Feb 2005

Yes, we both have and neither of us are proud if it.
However, that was a long time ago and now we simply do it in each others presence. Now why didnt we think of this earlier!!! biggrin

8 Feb 2005

I have - so shoot me wink

8 Feb 2005

Both of us, again a long time ago. Fortunately we recognised it as a symptom not a cause of something `not quite right`, fixed it and moved on, much richer for it.
Which is probably one of the factors toward why we now have the communication which allows us to swing.
Venusxxx

8 Feb 2005

Yes in my earlier days.
Don't do it now though, seem to have grown up a bit.

8 Feb 2005

I used to find myself completely incapable of staying faithful (think its a medical condition).. until current relationship... as already said.. its much more fun when they're present!!! :twisted:

8 Feb 2005

Never with Timmy, but I have in the past with other people.
Jas
XXX

8 Feb 2005

I did once when I was 15 but I thought we were finished so it doesnt really count, does it? rolleyes

8 Feb 2005

I would be lying if I said I hadn't.
I haven't.... redface

much...

8 Feb 2005

WE WERE ON A BREAK!

8 Feb 2005

Quote by da69ve
WE WERE ON A BREAK!

thats the one wink

8 Feb 2005

Not with hubby but I have permission to play away if I wanted to anyway (and vice versa) not the same without him there though.
Have cheated in the past but not whilst in healthy loving relationships.
C xx

8 Feb 2005

I once removed a house that mrs davej had on Pall Mall to avoid the rent whilst she was making a cuppa redface

8 Feb 2005

I often make instant gravy when Chris isn't looking. He still thinks he's getting real gravy to this day. Will I be damned forever?
Off to make pie mash n gravy for tea

8 Feb 2005

Ok, i admit it... confused

8 Feb 2005

I've never cheated on anyone - despite what they might have thought at the time.
I actually regret being faithful to some of the cheating bastards I've known evil

8 Feb 2005

Quote by Marya
I've never cheated on anyone - despite what they might have thought at the time.
I actually regret being faithful to some of the cheating bastards I've known

How anyone could ever cheat on someone with a bum like yours ill never know ;)

8 Feb 2005

Very long story that I am not going in to, but the "other half" did it to me first. Then I did it out of revenge.
Now, it's a different relationship.

8 Feb 2005

Nope, never cheated and never would.
*Disclaimer: Any impressions of smugness and moral superiority gotten from this post are purely imagined. Any resemblance to real feelings of smugness and moral superiority are purely coincidental.*

8 Feb 2005

ABSOLUTELY NO WAY!
i wouldnt risk what i have for all the money in the world!
he is also the best studd ive been with wink

and i love him loads! :inlove:
and if we feel the need to play with someone else then we do it together, thats what gives us the buzz
xxxxxxxxxxxx
love pepps
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx i know pass the bucket, but it is nearly valentines xxxxxxxx

8 Feb 2005

Cheat? No.
Got even? Yes!! :twisted:

8 Feb 2005

Yep! but not on easy........................................(i love my wardrobe too much) lol

:lol:
been there done that got the t-shirt etc but wouldn't even go there now i'm with Easy.....i'm too happy and in love redface

ops:
ok bring me the sick bucket :lol: :lol: :lol:

8 Feb 2005

I haven't ever cheated, thought about it a few times and if I'm honest if it had been offered I'm not sure that I would have said no. redface

So although I put a no, under different circumstances it could easily have been a yes - maybe that shows how silly it is to make moral judgements about peoples descisions.
Roger the Dragon

8 Feb 2005

i Would NEVER cheat on someone.
i was cheated on. a few years ago. and i know how i felt when i found out. and it ripped me apart. so for me to do the same knowing the pain it can casue would make me a very small person.
i can't stand lies and sneakyness. if you are devoting your time to someone. and they are doing the same to you. the least you can be is honest to them.
jiggle

8 Feb 2005

Actually I`m not ashamed. I`m all those things Flapjack isn`t ;) I think it was a great testimony to our marraige to have eventually been able see past it,work through it, and learn from it. In hindsight I know there are easier ways to acheive that kind of strength, but hindsight is sometimes a non-existant thing without experiance.
Venusxxx

8 Feb 2005

i admit i done it just a few years ago when i admitted it it led to us swapping on a few ocaisions .why did i do it because i found it a thrill and massive turn on to do it also as i got something i didnt and wont get at home

8 Feb 2005

I have been unfaithful in the past, but I'd like to think that I've grown up now and wouldn't have any need (emotional or otherwise) to cheat on someone I loved.

Quote by Marya
I actually regret being faithful to some of the cheating bastards I've known

Now there's a sentiment I can relate to rolleyes

It wouldn't cause me to be unfaithful with future partners though.

Have you ever cheated on a partner?